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07 Mar 2017, 5:45 pm

^ I used it as an easy exit honestly, because there was no interest from my part. She sounds like someone who takes hash on breakfast.

And I 'sensed' a bad tone in her messages.:lmao:



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07 Mar 2017, 6:33 pm

I like corned beef hash. And hash browns.



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07 Mar 2017, 6:37 pm

I was referring to hashish.



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07 Mar 2017, 6:47 pm

Oh....okay LOL



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07 Mar 2017, 7:02 pm

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An interesting read.

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To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS’ Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who’d made millions by the age of 25.

Nothing worked. The women always chose the tall men. Sherr asked whether there’d be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. One of the women replied, “Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers.” Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Another said she’d have considered the shorter men, if the taller men had been described as “child molesters.”

Lest you think this is an example of reality TV finding evidence to support a story, Tom tried his own experiment last week. Sure enough, few women give a fair shake to a man who is 5’3”, no matter what else he has going for him.

I’m going to let Tom take it from here.

So I tried changing my profile for three days just to see what the difference was between being 5’3″ and 5’10”. I wanted to know if height was the only difference and the constant deal breaker. So I moved my profile from Pittsburgh and posted it for 3 days in a town where nobody knew me (Philadelphia). Here’s what I found:

5’3” in Pittsburgh /5’10” in Philadelphia
Mutual matches 0 /80
Reverse matches 12 /400
Petite women w/pics w/in 50 miles 45 /650
Views in 3 days 11 /212
Emails received – unsolicited 0 /32
Winks received – unsolicited 2 /28
Emails sent out 6 /6
Replies received to emails sent out 0 /6






http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating ... is-unfair/


What a super extreme disadvantage, even worse than AS probably, so for some women only child molesters and murderers are worse than a decent short guy.

If that was true girls would be all over me.


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07 Mar 2017, 7:44 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ I used it as an easy exit honestly, because there was no interest from my part. She sounds like someone who takes hash on breakfast.

And I 'sensed' a bad tone in her messages.:lmao:


I don't understand why you two are laugHong about it. You sense girls tones aswell with how profiles are writ ten so why is it so laughable?



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07 Mar 2017, 9:19 pm

Is the reason girls don't like me because I'm too fat? My BMI is 28. Should I lose weight to attract girls?


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08 Mar 2017, 1:23 am

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ I used it as an easy exit honestly, because there was no interest from my part. She sounds like someone who takes hash on breakfast.

And I 'sensed' a bad tone in her messages.:lmao:


I don't understand why you two are laugHong about it. You sense girls tones aswell with how profiles are writ ten so why is it so laughable?


Because both of us don't believe in this nonsense, it seems common that many women believe in these sensing-powers, and i was being sarcastic about me having sensing powers.

Look, there's no way in hell that you can 'sense' some guy online that he's bitter, angry, hateful, misogynist ....whatever unless he writes something that reflects that.
The OP might have wrote here in this thread things that may reflect anger and bitterness toward women, but that doesn't mean he wrote any of those stuff in his dating profile and in his messages. So they have no way to tell unless if they happen to find this thread and figure it's from him, which is so unlikely.

And these women mind-reading powers and sensing power things are all bullcrap that media feeds your heads with, they don't exist, you don't have any such powers nor you have any super sensing abilities, like the rest of the human beings. That's why a lot of women who once move in with their men they discover their men are horrible or abusers or at least incompatible.....because they had no way to know it before that.

Check this thread:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=338068&p=7484397#p7484397

This guy is a complete nutjob, yet he was getting matches on Tinder, so those women who liked him couldn't sense his craziness/racism/sexism from what he wrote in profile alone and probably not even from his messages at first - he shows his true colors only when he loses temper.

I repeat, you don't have any mind-reading/sensing powers, preach this important reality to the other women in the world who are still living in this common illusion, this is a myth. You are mere humans, you have no superpowers. :lol: Go Alliekit, you are my prophet, preach this, wake them up all to reality.



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08 Mar 2017, 2:26 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
If that was true girls would be all over me.

Does having feet make you a marathon runner?
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Should I lose weight to attract girls?

According to the laws of physics it's the contrary.
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And these women mind-reading powers and sensing power things are all bullcrap that media feeds your heads with, they don't exist, you don't have any such powers nor you have any super sensing abilities, like the rest of the human beings.

And this coming from women who have admittedly been fooled by guys in the past.



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08 Mar 2017, 3:36 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ I used it as an easy exit honestly, because there was no interest from my part. She sounds like someone who takes hash on breakfast.

And I 'sensed' a bad tone in her messages.:lmao:


I don't understand why you two are laugHong about it. You sense girls tones aswell with how profiles are writ ten so why is it so laughable?


Because both of us don't believe in this nonsense, it seems common that many women believe in these sensing-powers, and i was being sarcastic about me having sensing powers.

Look, there's no way in hell that you can 'sense' some guy online that he's bitter, angry, hateful, misogynist ....whatever unless he writes something that reflects that.
The OP might have wrote here in this thread things that may reflect anger and bitterness toward women, but that doesn't mean he wrote any of those stuff in his dating profile and in his messages. So they have no way to tell unless if they happen to find this thread and figure it's from him, which is so unlikely.

And these women mind-reading powers and sensing power things are all bullcrap that media feeds your heads with, they don't exist, you don't have any such powers nor you have any super sensing abilities, like the rest of the human beings. That's why a lot of women who once move in with their men they discover their men are horrible or abusers or at least incompatible.....because they had no way to know it before that.

Check this thread:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=338068&p=7484397#p7484397

This guy is a complete nutjob, yet he was getting matches on Tinder, so those women who liked him couldn't sense his craziness/racism/sexism from what he wrote in profile alone and probably not even from his messages at first - he shows his true colors only when he loses temper.

I repeat, you don't have any mind-reading/sensing powers, preach this important reality to the other women in the world who are still living in this common illusion, this is a myth. You are mere humans, you have no superpowers. :lol: Go Alliekit, you are my prophet, preach this, wake them up all to reality.


I never said women were mind readers of course they would be foiled :roll: You can get an idea about people by how they write, the words they used and the topics they discuss. You assume tones of people all the time so being a bit hypocritical here :lol: :lol: Everyone reads things with a certain tone to it online.

So your telling me you message girls who say things like "happy go lucky", spell things wrong, or are "looking for TDH". I call BS



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08 Mar 2017, 5:13 am

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Should I lose weight to attract girls?
According to the laws of physics it's the contrary.
You mean I Should get even fatter?


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08 Mar 2017, 5:50 am

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So your telling me you message girls who say things like "happy go lucky", spell things wrong, or are "looking for TDH". I call BS


Huh?
What's TDH?



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08 Mar 2017, 5:56 am

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I never said women were mind readers of course they would be foiled :roll: You can get an idea about people by how they write, the words they used and the topics they discuss. You assume tones of people all the time so being a bit hypocritical here :lol: :lol: Everyone reads things with a certain tone to it online.

So your telling me you message girls who say things like "happy go lucky", spell things wrong, or are "looking for TDH". I call BS

The hell is TDH now??? Damn acronyms... :cry:

Well if they write stuff like "happy go lucky" they are making things clear themselves, he's not using some superpower to sense it.
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RetroGamer87 wrote:
Should I lose weight to attract girls?
According to the laws of physics it's the contrary.
You mean I Should get even fatter?

Yes, at some point you'll be able to attract girls with your gravitational pull. :lmao:
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So your telling me you message girls who say things like "happy go lucky", spell things wrong, or are "looking for TDH". I call BS


Huh?
What's TDH?

Do you see now why I hate them acronyms so vehemently?



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08 Mar 2017, 6:44 am

Peacesells wrote:
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I never said women were mind readers of course they would be foiled :roll: You can get an idea about people by how they write, the words they used and the topics they discuss. You assume tones of people all the time so being a bit hypocritical here :lol: :lol: Everyone reads things with a certain tone to it online.

So your telling me you message girls who say things like "happy go lucky", spell things wrong, or are "looking for TDH". I call BS

The hell is TDH now??? Damn acronyms... :cry:

Well if they write stuff like "happy go lucky" they are making things clear themselves, he's not using some superpower to sense it.
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Peacesells wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Should I lose weight to attract girls?
According to the laws of physics it's the contrary.
You mean I Should get even fatter?

Yes, at some point you'll be able to attract girls with your gravitational pull. :lmao:
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So your telling me you message girls who say things like "happy go lucky", spell things wrong, or are "looking for TDH". I call BS


Huh?
What's TDH?

Do you see now why I hate them acronyms so vehemently?


I never said it was a super powet I just suggested you can guess things from how profiles are written. If it has a lot of errors than you assum bout that person. If someone says they are into fitress you assume they want a fit girl etc. You make that leap without any real information due to past experience and knowledge, this is what I meant by sensing and it was perhaps the wrong word to use. Maybe we are able to interpret, I.e. read between the lines.



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08 Mar 2017, 6:46 am

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So your telling me you message girls who say things like "happy go lucky", spell things wrong, or are "looking for TDH". I call BS


Huh?
What's TDH?

Tall, dark and handome. It's like a joke because it's how men are often described in novels



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08 Mar 2017, 9:57 am

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Is the reason girls don't like me because I'm too fat? My BMI is 28. Should I lose weight to attract girls?


No. Girls aren't attracted to the same things men are. You would have more success if you were a tall Asian man, but that isn't going to happen. I think the most practical thing you could get would be a degree. Relationships are more likely to be successful if you have a common background, such as the same level of education. Asian women and their parents are worried about your earning potential, which is often limited by the lack of a degree. But, that concern doesn't really apply to Asian men.