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09 Jan 2018, 5:41 pm
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Just because something is different than YOU prefer, in terms of dating/hookups/apps/pics etc, does NOT make the people "scum and freaks," who DO willingly participate in things you don't particularly care for. You're not obligated to do these things, but it is RIDICULOUS of you to judge others for their sexual practices that have NOTHING to do with you. You do you, everyone else will be themselves & get along just fine, thank you very much.
This is uttet BS. Sending unsolicited sexual pictures to people is a form of sexual assault and the fact that 9 people out of 10 may like it doesn't imply that it's good, a 10th person may feel completely justificated in feeling offended and reporting you. Maybe those filthy freaks don't know that there are apps and sites for such activities.
Also it's not that I criticize other people's different ways, it's that my ways are right and such caveman ways are obviously wrong. If they used the apps that are made for it and allow it I couldn't care less.
WTF?
I JUST TOLD YOU that this activity goes on within a gay hookup app where it's largely expected that people send nudes & if you're not interested in that you simply don't respond or delete the conversation or whatever. This isn't people broadcasting nudes to every cell phone in a 100' radius of them while sitting in the centre of a church during Sunday service FFS. This is a bunch of horny gay guys on a hookup app discussing whether they want to meet and hookup with each other, or go on a date/potentially start a relationship etc.
And again, what's right for you isn't right for someone else. Get off your high horse thinking that everyone must conform to your views of right and wrong. That's the only thing that's wrong - you believing that you should be able to project your views of moral/ethical/sexual practice right and wrong upon anyone else but yourself. Thank GOD pretty little gay boys who like sending me photos of their naked selves don't take advice from people like you!!
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09 Jan 2018, 5:46 pm
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goldfish21 wrote:
Just because something is different than YOU prefer, in terms of dating/hookups/apps/pics etc, does NOT make the people "scum and freaks," who DO willingly participate in things you don't particularly care for. You're not obligated to do these things, but it is RIDICULOUS of you to judge others for their sexual practices that have NOTHING to do with you. You do you, everyone else will be themselves & get along just fine, thank you very much.
There is such a thing as having too much empathy for others. I’m not about to accept pedophiles’ actions as deserving of acceptance. With consenting adults, your advice applies. Being sent unsolicited dick pics means one person did not consent it, and it doesn’t deserve empathy.
I don’t personally care about being sent dick pics, it just looks ugly and I tell them so and block them. But some people don’t cope with that sort of thing well. If someone forces their genitalia on you, you have every right to call them scum freaks.
Agreed when it's completely unexpected and such, but when it's within an app or site where that IS the social norm - that people tend to open conversations/emails with a quick chat w/ nude pics attached, then it's just different & completely acceptable. For those within those apps/sites that don't particularly care for those sorts of messages and images, they usually specify so in their profile. I'm sure they receive some pics now and then, but they just delete them and carry on with their lives. It's an entirely different arena than having a message/email convo via okcupid or pof or whatever. When it's the social norm, it's normalized & all but expected and almost no one complains because they know what they signed up for - and many are specifically there FOR those chats and images.
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09 Jan 2018, 5:53 pm
goldfish21 wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Just because something is different than YOU prefer, in terms of dating/hookups/apps/pics etc, does NOT make the people "scum and freaks," who DO willingly participate in things you don't particularly care for. You're not obligated to do these things, but it is RIDICULOUS of you to judge others for their sexual practices that have NOTHING to do with you. You do you, everyone else will be themselves & get along just fine, thank you very much.
This is uttet BS. Sending unsolicited sexual pictures to people is a form of sexual assault and the fact that 9 people out of 10 may like it doesn't imply that it's good, a 10th person may feel completely justificated in feeling offended and reporting you. Maybe those filthy freaks don't know that there are apps and sites for such activities.
Also it's not that I criticize other people's different ways, it's that my ways are right and such caveman ways are obviously wrong. If they used the apps that are made for it and allow it I couldn't care less.
WTF?
I JUST TOLD YOU that this activity goes on within a gay hookup app where it's largely expected that people send nudes & if you're not interested in that you simply don't respond or delete the conversation or whatever. This isn't people broadcasting nudes to every cell phone in a 100' radius of them while sitting in the centre of a church during Sunday service FFS. This is a bunch of horny gay guys on a hookup app discussing whether they want to meet and hookup with each other, or go on a date/potentially start a relationship etc.
And again, what's right for you isn't right for someone else. Get off your high horse thinking that everyone must conform to your views of right and wrong. That's the only thing that's wrong - you believing that you should be able to project your views of moral/ethical/sexual practice right and wrong upon anyone else but yourself. Thank GOD pretty little gay boys who like sending me photos of their naked selves don't take advice from people like you!!
I was thrown by Peace's reply as well, to the extent that I wondered if it was sarcasm or a joke I didn't get. You clearly were talking about a specific app.
I think penises look a bit silly, generally, but I'm glad you're getting to look at what you like.
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10 Jan 2018, 5:47 pm
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I am 100% sure that women wouldn't want unsolicited dick pics even within a totally erotic sex app.
But gay men are men....they're from Jupiter, so they think totally differently.
But gay men are men....they're from Jupiter, so they think totally differently.
Maybe, maybe not? I dunno, if women are into an erotic sex hookup app or website maybe those women behave much more like most gay men & thus many would appreciate unsolicited nudes for the erotic entertainment they can be.
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10 Jan 2018, 5:57 pm
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10 Jan 2018, 6:06 pm
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Gay men are not all open arms to any man there is; they are very selective in the men they want to date as well.
Surprise surprise, we're just like everybody else!
Myself, I have a specific type & would rather jerk off than hookup with someone I'm not attracted to.
Others I know have a very broad range of guys they're sexually attracted to, ages, body types/looks, stereotypes etc & we've had these conversations in person and one asked me "why, though?" & I replied with my honest truth.. because I'm turned on by X type and not others, it is what it is, I like what I like - more power to you if you're turned on by a range of types and into doing things with them. Pretty sure that friend wanted to know my reasoning for being selective and only ever pursuing one particular subtype of gay guys because he wanted to hookup with me. He was okay with my response and understood that I'm simply only attracted to a particular type of guy & I can't change that any more than he can change the fact that he's attracted to many types of guys.
On the dating front, sure I've dated people (but never been in a relationship) & yes, I am especially selective about that. I'm WAY more open to hookups w/ guys I find sexually attractive than I am to dating them. There's a difference between physical attraction & something more, for sure. There have been only a handful of guy's I'd considering dating or potentially having a relationship with. Fortunately for those of us who partake in the gay hookup scene whenever we feel like it, personality etc don't really come into play. It's just sex - and for what it is, it's a lot of fun.
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11 Jan 2018, 3:51 am
goldfish21 wrote:
WTF?
I JUST TOLD YOU that this activity goes on within a gay hookup app where it's largely expected that people send nudes & if you're not interested in that you simply don't respond or delete the conversation or whatever. This isn't people broadcasting nudes to every cell phone in a 100' radius of them while sitting in the centre of a church during Sunday service FFS. This is a bunch of horny gay guys on a hookup app discussing whether they want to meet and hookup with each other, or go on a date/potentially start a relationship etc.
And again, what's right for you isn't right for someone else. Get off your high horse thinking that everyone must conform to your views of right and wrong. That's the only thing that's wrong - you believing that you should be able to project your views of moral/ethical/sexual practice right and wrong upon anyone else but yourself. Thank GOD pretty little gay boys who like sending me photos of their naked selves don't take advice from people like you!!
I JUST TOLD YOU that this activity goes on within a gay hookup app where it's largely expected that people send nudes & if you're not interested in that you simply don't respond or delete the conversation or whatever. This isn't people broadcasting nudes to every cell phone in a 100' radius of them while sitting in the centre of a church during Sunday service FFS. This is a bunch of horny gay guys on a hookup app discussing whether they want to meet and hookup with each other, or go on a date/potentially start a relationship etc.
And again, what's right for you isn't right for someone else. Get off your high horse thinking that everyone must conform to your views of right and wrong. That's the only thing that's wrong - you believing that you should be able to project your views of moral/ethical/sexual practice right and wrong upon anyone else but yourself. Thank GOD pretty little gay boys who like sending me photos of their naked selves don't take advice from people like you!!
What the bloody hell are you talking about then? I stated it in the beginning of our conversation that I was talking about unsolicited and unrequested dick pics in apps and sites where it is not allowed, which is a form of sexual harassment.
Also, the other person being gay doesn't automatically mean that they won't be bothered to receive your dick pics, so if it's not a dedicated app or site it's still some scummy behaviour from your side. Just because you are gay you think you can talk in behalf of all of them, don't you? Not every gay person wants to see random penises.
You are the one who should get off his high horse projecting your views on other people.
If you are into such stuff fine, but use the dedicated apps and stop being a perverted freak.
11 Jan 2018, 3:56 am
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I was thrown by Peace's reply as well, to the extent that I wondered if it was sarcasm or a joke I didn't get. You clearly were talking about a specific app.
I think penises look a bit silly, generally, but I'm glad you're getting to look at what you like.
I think penises look a bit silly, generally, but I'm glad you're getting to look at what you like.
I was obviously talking about apps and sites where it's not allowed to send such pics and I have said it MANY times. Are you functionally illiterate?
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11 Jan 2018, 6:01 am
Peacesells wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
WTF?
I JUST TOLD YOU that this activity goes on within a gay hookup app where it's largely expected that people send nudes & if you're not interested in that you simply don't respond or delete the conversation or whatever. This isn't people broadcasting nudes to every cell phone in a 100' radius of them while sitting in the centre of a church during Sunday service FFS. This is a bunch of horny gay guys on a hookup app discussing whether they want to meet and hookup with each other, or go on a date/potentially start a relationship etc.
And again, what's right for you isn't right for someone else. Get off your high horse thinking that everyone must conform to your views of right and wrong. That's the only thing that's wrong - you believing that you should be able to project your views of moral/ethical/sexual practice right and wrong upon anyone else but yourself. Thank GOD pretty little gay boys who like sending me photos of their naked selves don't take advice from people like you!!
I JUST TOLD YOU that this activity goes on within a gay hookup app where it's largely expected that people send nudes & if you're not interested in that you simply don't respond or delete the conversation or whatever. This isn't people broadcasting nudes to every cell phone in a 100' radius of them while sitting in the centre of a church during Sunday service FFS. This is a bunch of horny gay guys on a hookup app discussing whether they want to meet and hookup with each other, or go on a date/potentially start a relationship etc.
And again, what's right for you isn't right for someone else. Get off your high horse thinking that everyone must conform to your views of right and wrong. That's the only thing that's wrong - you believing that you should be able to project your views of moral/ethical/sexual practice right and wrong upon anyone else but yourself. Thank GOD pretty little gay boys who like sending me photos of their naked selves don't take advice from people like you!!
What the bloody hell are you talking about then? I stated it in the beginning of our conversation that I was talking about unsolicited and unrequested dick pics in apps and sites where it is not allowed, which is a form of sexual harassment.
Also, the other person being gay doesn't automatically mean that they won't be bothered to receive your dick pics, so if it's not a dedicated app or site it's still some scummy behaviour from your side. Just because you are gay you think you can talk in behalf of all of them, don't you? Not every gay person wants to see random penises.
You are the one who should get off his high horse projecting your views on other people.
If you are into such stuff fine, but use the dedicated apps and stop being a perverted freak.
Can you read? I said such messages are swapped within a gay hookup app. There are some guys on there not into nudes or hooking up & they typically state so in their profile so as to avoid those conversations.
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11 Jan 2018, 7:08 am
Peacesells wrote:
MissChess wrote:
I was thrown by Peace's reply as well, to the extent that I wondered if it was sarcasm or a joke I didn't get. You clearly were talking about a specific app.
I think penises look a bit silly, generally, but I'm glad you're getting to look at what you like.
I think penises look a bit silly, generally, but I'm glad you're getting to look at what you like.
I was obviously talking about apps and sites where it's not allowed to send such pics and I have said it MANY times. Are you functionally illiterate?
This is just a misunderstanding as to what you two were talking about. Please do not use terms such as functionally illiterate as insults.
11 Jan 2018, 6:28 pm
Why is my thread turned into talk about trans and gay men sending dick pics 
As an update I got rejected by a lady with more disorders then me including permanent depression. She has a care giver. Seems I’m not good enough even for other disabled people.
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11 Jan 2018, 6:33 pm
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Why is my thread turned into talk about trans and gay men sending dick pics
As an update I got rejected by a lady with more disorders then me including permanent depression. She has a care giver. Seems I’m not good enough even for other disabled people.
As an update I got rejected by a lady with more disorders then me including permanent depression. She has a care giver. Seems I’m not good enough even for other disabled people.
A couple reasons:
1) You almost never follow anyone's advice and try anything to improve your situation so people are less likely to stay on topic & provide even more suggestions for you to shoot down or ignore.
2) Threads get derailed with side conversations all the time. This is one of them.
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^And you accuse others of being illiterate.
I said it happens within a gay hookup app where that is the social norm.
SOME prefer not to receive nudes and will specify so in their profile.
OTHERS are so blatant about wanting to receive them that they set their profile names to "Send nudes" Or write in their profiles that they welcome dick pics.
Clearly you are not a gay/bi guy and don't have said app on your phone or you'd realize that it's pretty normalized within it and that very few take any offence to it and MOST participate in sending/receiving said pics.
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