How can I tell my girlfriend she is fat?

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Can't disagree with that. Insanely rich and famous actors rarely have problems finding dates...

Indeed, I mean how they even throw Tom Cruise as an example without even taking his wealth and fame into consideration.
Even looks wise, most short guys aren't as handsome as Tom Cruise.

I am sure even tall men would wish to be in his place - even by scarifying a lot of height.

I mean who would not love to have that:

By tuning down the metabolism. Our organisms have evolved to have a chance to survive famine, not to look gorgeous after two weeks of diet. If the energy income suddenly drops below what the organism uses, the body switches on the famine mode and saves every calorie it can. This is why quick miracle diets have severe yoyo effect. And women are more prone to this.

Of course, eating healthy, balanced and with no more than 100-200 kcal daily deficit avoids this. But the effect exists.

I agree about the addiction thing. There is a person in my family who is severily obese, has diabetes and destroyed joints but can't stop devouring ice-cream every day. They says themself it's an addiction, nothing less, nothing more. Destroying their own health because the addiction is stronger than reason.

But he became wealthy he was short before he was vastly wealthy surely? And he’s not that good looking... it’s his charisma

“He’a not that good looking”...


“He’a not that good looking”...


Okcupid is totally right when they say that women only find 20% of guys good looking; you don’t even find Tom Cruise good looking.

Seeking the Alpha instinct...

(He looks like my brother ok he looks enough like my brother that I don’t find him good looking asides from the height of course)

So which male celeb makes you horny the most?

Agreed.

Our ancestors did not always know when their next meal would be, giving us built-in survival mechanisms to eat as much food as we can possibly get our hands on.

Sugary and fatty are addicting because they are calorie dense foods.

Women have more estrogen which makes it easier for their body to store fat, which was important in ancient times to have spare fat reserves in case of times when food was short.

Also, modern society is full of junk food.

There is a lot of complicated psychology and physiology that goes into making junk food appealing.

For example many junk foods melt in your mouth quickly which tricks your body into thinking you ate less then you really did. Or many junk foods are given additives which means they might be hollow and unfulfilling due to lack of fibre.

Personally I am fit and healthy.

My story is I was overweight, then lost the weight through undereating and overexercise, which messed with my metabolism, hormones, strength levels, overall health.

I was very, very weak and bony. My insomnia was worse, I felt sick and tired all the time.

I have been lifting weights and eating healthy, nutritious diet for 8 months now but it has been very difficult for me to gain muscle or become stronger, I'm starting to suspect I have low testosterone as my body stores fat much easier than muscle even with intense training 5 days a week, adequate sleep and spectacular diet habits.

But I still managed to turn my health around and am on a better path now. So it's not impossible, just improbable.

Last edited by Outrider on 09 Dec 2017, 4:43 am, edited 1 time in total.

No one says no short guy ever finds any girlfriend. That there are short guys who are considered attractive does not prove anything. You don't even need to be Tom Cruise. I met short guys in real life who were not famous and had absolutely no trouble getting a girlfriend. They have other attractive qualities that make up for being short.

Being short is a disadvantage for a man. If two men are otherwise equal and otherwise of average attractiveness but one is a bit above average in height and the other far below, the one above average in height will usually get more attention from women.
Height is one of many variables that determine a man's chance to get women. No one claims it's the only one.

A woman who cares for height would typically rejects a short man (especially if she’s shorter than her) without even making any further effort to know his other traits.

That’s relative thoug. Here most guys seem to be 6’ at least. So 6’3” isn’t tall it’s average.

True, but with traits I don't only mean personality. One of the guys shorter than me I met in real life was just so good looking and seemed so confident a lot of women there were obviously immediately attracted to him. For any trait, that's not immediately visible, to compensate for shortness they'd need to be in a situation where she naturally gets to know him without already dating him.
Of course being short is a big disadvantage for a man and of course some women would never date a short man no matter what. But being short is not unique in that it will cause some women to not date you no matter what your other traits are. Some women would never date someone very obese. Some women would never date anyone with an ugly face etc. Short is one of the most impossible traits to change about oneself, but the impact it has on chances to get a relationship doesn't seem qualitatively different to that of any other immediately obvious trait that's usually considered to be unattractive.

I'm not saying it doesn't have a (big) impact, nor that it can't be a deal-breaker for some women. Yet, it is not the only trait that influences any individual man's chances to get a relationship (if that was the claim the Tom Cruise example would be valid).

Half as tall or half taller?
So she’s 3’ or is she 9’
Sucks for her either way I guess I bump into stuff but atleast I fit through doors. A 9’ person won’t fit in doors or most cars, and good luck finding beds,

Say a 7’ woman? I met one once. Yes I’d date a taller woman. They wouldn’t date me though who do 7+ feet women date or will they settle eventually?

You can take baths? I haven’t been able to fit in a bathtub since middle school.