Why are you still single ( one reason)

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thehipsternerdette
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26 Mar 2012, 7:41 pm

I'm too choosy and off-putting.



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26 Mar 2012, 8:59 pm

I'm good at starting conversation and then all the intimate stuff. But not quite the inbetween portion. :roll:


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26 Mar 2012, 9:04 pm

Because it's wrong on so many levels think about it


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27 Mar 2012, 5:29 am

Im too weird and hyper


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27 Mar 2012, 5:37 am

Not really interested, its not difficult to socialise but I can't muster the will power to even bother.


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27 Mar 2012, 6:11 pm

Like I said before I'm single because the kind of girls that I am attracted to, you know the hot-looking ones, are never interested to go out with me and also I'm too much of a coward to ask some of them out. They like me but not in that way so there is no reciprocal attraction.

I also struggle with body odor problems (apocrine bromhidrosis) which can be a turn-off for many girls.



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27 Mar 2012, 8:39 pm

Because I'm away 3200km from home (in Vancouver, BC) in St. Cloud, MN, doing grad school for the past 3 years. Most people around my age in St. Cloud are already married with kids (I'm 27), so my chances are pretty limited. Plus, I'm ethnically Chinese and I prefer dating East Asians, and there are very few Asians here.



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29 Mar 2012, 8:34 am

blackcat wrote:
fear.

few would admit it(part of my prob.)


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29 Mar 2012, 8:52 am

I have conquered my fear of talking to people...

Unfrotunately I still have my same old aspie MONOTONOUS voice that I can't do anything about unless I surgically replace my vocal chords.

And.....

..even I can't hold a conversation for more than 20 secs.. People get bored with me fast. Even if they are not bored they perceive me as weird.

...I also feel stuck and don't know what I should say. I have high alexythemic traits (Google it). And that has made life in general so difficult.



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29 Mar 2012, 10:40 pm

I'm asexual. (No matter what my mother keeps telling me.)



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30 Mar 2012, 12:28 am

I'm an aromantic.

Or maybe I'm just immature.


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30 Mar 2012, 2:32 am

Every time I come close to having a relationship, I either freak out and stop talking to them before anything even remotely serious can happen, or I get overly excited that someone likes me, am way too aggressive with my affections, and they stop talking to me. It is usually the latter.


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30 Mar 2012, 10:52 am

im still single because i never spoke up and told her how i feel.



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30 Mar 2012, 2:55 pm

I focus too much of my negative qualities. Don't believe people when they say my positive qualities out-weigh them.


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30 Mar 2012, 3:07 pm

I have a new reason the main reason is I'm single is because I don't believe any girl could keep up with me.



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30 Mar 2012, 9:43 pm

falonsayswoah wrote:
Every time I come close to having a relationship, I either freak out and stop talking to them before anything even remotely serious can happen, or I get overly excited that someone likes me, am way too aggressive with my affections, and they stop talking to me. It is usually the latter.


^^^^I always thought I was the only one >.< Thank you for posting this....

My other reason: I open my mouth and start speaking GEEK. :(