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08 Mar 2017, 1:42 pm

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^ I used it as an easy exit honestly, because there was no interest from my part. She sounds like someone who takes hash on breakfast.

And I 'sensed' a bad tone in her messages.:lmao:


I don't understand why you two are laugHong about it. You sense girls tones aswell with how profiles are writ ten so why is it so laughable?


Because both of us don't believe in this nonsense, it seems common that many women believe in these sensing-powers, and i was being sarcastic about me having sensing powers.

Look, there's no way in hell that you can 'sense' some guy online that he's bitter, angry, hateful, misogynist ....whatever unless he writes something that reflects that.
The OP might have wrote here in this thread things that may reflect anger and bitterness toward women, but that doesn't mean he wrote any of those stuff in his dating profile and in his messages. So they have no way to tell unless if they happen to find this thread and figure it's from him, which is so unlikely.

And these women mind-reading powers and sensing power things are all bullcrap that media feeds your heads with, they don't exist, you don't have any such powers nor you have any super sensing abilities, like the rest of the human beings. That's why a lot of women who once move in with their men they discover their men are horrible or abusers or at least incompatible.....because they had no way to know it before that.

Check this thread:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=338068&p=7484397#p7484397

This guy is a complete nutjob, yet he was getting matches on Tinder, so those women who liked him couldn't sense his craziness/racism/sexism from what he wrote in profile alone and probably not even from his messages at first - he shows his true colors only when he loses temper.

I repeat, you don't have any mind-reading/sensing powers, preach this important reality to the other women in the world who are still living in this common illusion, this is a myth. You are mere humans, you have no superpowers. :lol: Go Alliekit, you are my prophet, preach this, wake them up all to reality.



Its not really a sensing power or mind reading to see what someone says in their profile or how they come off in their messeges and assess what kind of person they come off as based on that.....anyone can do that, but likewise people can certainly act different than they are to trick people or draw them in. No way to know for sure until you meet someone in person if your assessment was correct.


No one here claimed women have mind reading powers or special sensing powers, thats your own product created from once again misrepresenting and exaggerating what people said in their post.


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09 Mar 2017, 8:40 am

Boo, you owe me 90 quatloos.


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09 Mar 2017, 9:53 am

Retro, if you want to become ripped quickly then you have to watch this video :lol: :lol: :lol:



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09 Mar 2017, 10:57 am

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Is the reason girls don't like me because I'm too fat? My BMI is 28. Should I lose weight to attract girls?


Yes it is, probably very likely. I saw a big improvement from a BMI of 28.1 (14 stone at 5ft10) to going down to 12 1/2 stone, or to a BMI of 24.5. My bodyfat went from 27% to 18%. Its mostly facial attractiveness that improves, as well of course waistline. Women dislike dad guts and double chins just as much as men dislike fat chicks.
How did it improve my life? In every way when it came to interpersonal treatment. I went from getting 0 unsolicited messages in 6 months from Asian girls living in Asia to getting 7 in 6 months when I dropped the 11kg or so.

Your BMI should be 25.1 or less, ideally 22.0 > 24.0 is best for men.

Look at this guy. He went from a BMI of 32 to 23 8O
http://i.imgur.com/q0r5H9p.png


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09 Mar 2017, 11:28 am

If you turn down someone based on his/her appearance. Don't be suprised if someone turned you down based on your appearance.



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09 Mar 2017, 2:13 pm

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If you turn down someone based on his/her appearance. Don't be suprised if someone turned you down based on your appearance.


And don't be butthurt about it either.


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09 Mar 2017, 2:56 pm

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If you turn down someone based on his/her appearance. Don't be suprised if someone turned you down based on your appearance.


And don't be butthurt about it either.


Yup.


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10 Mar 2017, 2:35 am

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If you turn down someone based on his/her appearance. Don't be surprised if someone turned you down based on your appearance.

Or based on your job, or education, or social skills, etc.



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10 Mar 2017, 3:33 am

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If you turn down someone based on his/her appearance. Don't be surprised if someone turned you down based on your appearance.

Or based on your job, or education, or social skills, etc.


Women don't find that as important as men tend to think. People with succesful jobs most of the time have better confidence then those with a less succesful job. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think women find confidence one of the most attractive traits in a man( unless it becomes cockiness). Education isn't a big deal neither, as long as you have a passion for something it's fine. Social skills do play a role however, but as long as you don't get nervous around women and stay confident it will be fine. If you get nervous around people, they tend to also get nervous around you. A larger social circle does increase your chances of meeting girls and talking to them. Ofcourse I'm only 17 years old so what do I know? It's not like I'm a women expert just ask women instead.



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10 Mar 2017, 3:34 am

Sometime World wrote:
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Is the reason girls don't like me because I'm too fat? My BMI is 28. Should I lose weight to attract girls?


Yes it is, probably very likely. I saw a big improvement from a BMI of 28.1 (14 stone at 5ft10) to going down to 12 1/2 stone, or to a BMI of 24.5. My bodyfat went from 27% to 18%. Its mostly facial attractiveness that improves, as well of course waistline. Women dislike dad guts and double chins just as much as men dislike fat chicks.
How did it improve my life? In every way when it came to interpersonal treatment. I went from getting 0 unsolicited messages in 6 months from Asian girls living in Asia to getting 7 in 6 months when I dropped the 11kg or so.

Your BMI should be 25.1 or less, ideally 22.0 > 24.0 is best for men.

Look at this guy. He went from a BMI of 32 to 23 8O
http://i.imgur.com/q0r5H9p.png
Getting messages from Asian girls in Asia is easy. I get tons of attention from golddigger who want to buy them a visa.

What I want is attention from girls living in Australia. They could be black, white or Asian, they could be born in any country, just so long as they already have permanent residence.

Otherwise good advice. I think with my heavy frame . BMI in the low/mid twenties would set me apart from all those underweight girly men without making me look like a fatarse.

I've already lost some weight since I started skipping breakfast :D


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10 Mar 2017, 3:45 am

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I've already lost some weight since I started skipping breakfast :D


Don't skip breakfast.



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10 Mar 2017, 3:55 am

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I've already lost some weight since I started skipping breakfast :D
Don't skip breakfast.
But it works.

I'm not going to lose weight by eating the same diet and just wishing to be thin. If I'm to lose weight I need to eat less.

Skipping breakfast is one way to do the the 16:8 diet.


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10 Mar 2017, 3:57 am

314pe wrote:
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If you turn down someone based on his/her appearance. Don't be surprised if someone turned you down based on your appearance.
Or based on your job, or education, or social skills, etc.
Why would I blame them? My job, education, social skills, appearance and weight are all my own responsibility. I'm not going to blame someone else if I'm fat.


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10 Mar 2017, 6:06 am

Yes, almost everything is in our control and if we can't find love then we should blame ourselves. Right?



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10 Mar 2017, 6:42 am

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Yes, almost everything is in our control and if we can't find love then we should blame ourselves. Right?
Bettr than blaming other people for our own failings. Better than being one of those misogynist guys who blames women.


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10 Mar 2017, 8:04 am

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I'm not going to lose weight by eating the same diet and just wishing to be thin. If I'm to lose weight I need to eat less.

Skipping breakfast is one way to do the the 16:8 diet.


You need a low calorie diet with a high nutritious value. Which will help you lose further weight because proper nutritions help with your digestive system, metabolism and a lot more. You should look up all the essential vitamins and minerals and their benefits. Lack of certain vitamins and minerals can cause things like mood swings, depression, fatigue, amnesia, problems with concentration, insomnia etc.