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09 Dec 2017, 6:16 am

Boo, what are you complaining about? You have a girlfriend who agrees to be with you on your terms that would never be acceptable for me. What do you want more? To own a harem? Be a f*cking celebrity? A porn star?


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09 Dec 2017, 6:27 am

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There's just alot of practical issues to consider. My bed is too short, my bathtub is too short, chairs are too small.. Also if she keeps bumping her head against the ceiling continuously over a long period of time, it might cause brain damage. I wouldn't want my girlfriend to suffer health issues by living with me.

You can take baths? I haven’t been able to fit in a bathtub since middle school.

You should move into one of those old houses. Old houses have huge bathtubs.


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09 Dec 2017, 6:56 am

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Boo, what are you complaining about? You have a girlfriend who agrees to be with you on your terms that would never be acceptable for me. What do you want more? To own a harem? Be a f*cking celebrity? A porn star?


I want more....

....Powerrrrr!! !



A porn star isn’t a bad idea tho.



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09 Dec 2017, 7:03 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Indeed, I mean how they even throw Tom Cruise as an example without even taking his wealth and fame into consideration.
Even looks wise, most short guys aren't as handsome as Tom Cruise.


But he became wealthy he was short before he was vastly wealthy surely? And he’s not that good looking... it’s his charisma


“He’a not that good looking”...


“He’a not that good looking”...


Okcupid is totally right when they say that women only find 20% of guys good looking; you don’t even find Tom Cruise good looking.

Seeking the Alpha instinct...


(He looks like my brother ok he looks enough like my brother that I don’t find him good looking asides from the height of course)


So which male celeb makes you horny the most?


Oh how I want to tell u.... but you know I can’t cause I don’t want the police to have any evidence when I envitably climb through his window and sniff the back of his hair when he’s asleep.... very mature hey :)



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09 Dec 2017, 8:17 am

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Indeed, I mean how they even throw Tom Cruise as an example without even taking his wealth and fame into consideration.
Even looks wise, most short guys aren't as handsome as Tom Cruise.


But he became wealthy he was short before he was vastly wealthy surely? And he’s not that good looking... it’s his charisma


“He’a not that good looking”...


“He’a not that good looking”...


Okcupid is totally right when they say that women only find 20% of guys good looking; you don’t even find Tom Cruise good looking.

Seeking the Alpha instinct...


(He looks like my brother ok he looks enough like my brother that I don’t find him good looking asides from the height of course)


So which male celeb makes you horny the most?


Oh how I want to tell u.... but you know I can’t cause I don’t want the police to have any evidence when I envitably climb through his window and sniff the back of his hair when he’s asleep.... very mature hey :)


So the first clue that he has hair.
So he’a not Vin Diesel nor the Rock.

Anyway the police won’t care, they won’t see you as a threat to him - you’re a woman.



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09 Dec 2017, 8:40 am

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If this whole short guy thing is a real problem then why is it a problem for some men and not others? I’m not sure Tom Cruise would have problems finding a date.... I still don’t believe it’s a real thing.

No one says no short guy ever finds any girlfriend. That there are short guys who are considered attractive does not prove anything. You don't even need to be Tom Cruise. I met short guys in real life who were not famous and had absolutely no trouble getting a girlfriend. They have other attractive qualities that make up for being short.

Being short is a disadvantage for a man. If two men are otherwise equal and otherwise of average attractiveness but one is a bit above average in height and the other far below, the one above average in height will usually get more attention from women.
Height is one of many variables that determine a man's chance to get women. No one claims it's the only one.


A woman who cares for height would typically rejects a short man (especially if she’s shorter than her) without even making any further effort to know his other traits.


Yes, which is a point I've been pretty repetitive on. If a guy wants the least chance of a girl saying yes they should ask out someone they don't know. If they want the best chance ask out a friend or acquaintance. (terrifying).
I'm surprised that women found 20% of men attractive. I find about 2-3% of men I don't know attractive and about 30% of men I know attractive.

We are a lot pickier than men, but then were not trying to start a harem. :D



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09 Dec 2017, 8:43 am

Hey now... what's so wrong with wanting a harem? 8)



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09 Dec 2017, 9:04 am

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Hey now... what's so wrong with wanting a harem? 8)

Exactly what you complain about: the winner takes it all. Only leftovers for the non-alpha :(


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09 Dec 2017, 10:01 am

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Has anyone else noticed how all the guys in this topic have ignored my question? You know, this one here:

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And now I throw a question to the guys here: would you date a girl who is half taller than you? What if you had a girlfriend as tall as you who suddenly became half taller? Would you still stay with her?


No answers of any kind... why's that? I'd except a reply from at least you, Boo, since I answered your question.

Half as tall or half taller?
So she’s 3’ or is she 9’
Sucks for her either way I guess I bump into stuff but atleast I fit through doors. A 9’ person won’t fit in doors or most cars, and good luck finding beds,

Say a 7’ woman? I met one once. Yes I’d date a taller woman. They wouldn’t date me though who do 7+ feet women date or will they settle eventually?


Half taller since some men seem to have trouble with the idea that a woman would be taller than them, just like some women have trouble with the idea of men being shorter than them.



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09 Dec 2017, 12:30 pm

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That’s relative thoug. Here most guys seem to be 6’ at least. So 6’3” isn’t tall it’s average.


:lol: Seems you'll say anything to keep yourself down in any way you can, Sly! It's almost comical how ridiculous it is.

I'm a bit over 6'2" and while I don't consider myself "tall," most people do. It takes being around someone quite a bit taller for me to think "whoa, that guy is tall!" & then realize that I'm often the tallest guy in the room.

According to google the average American man is 5'10" tall. You're 5" taller than that!


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09 Dec 2017, 1:02 pm

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That’s relative thoug. Here most guys seem to be 6’ at least. So 6’3” isn’t tall it’s average.


Man you are 6"3. No one will ever consider you short... not even average. You are tall for every girl out there. Some even will say that you are too tall.

Stop keeping yourself down Sly. It will only makes things worse.



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09 Dec 2017, 2:46 pm

Fireblossom wrote:
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Has anyone else noticed how all the guys in this topic have ignored my question? You know, this one here:

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And now I throw a question to the guys here: would you date a girl who is half taller than you? What if you had a girlfriend as tall as you who suddenly became half taller? Would you still stay with her?


No answers of any kind... why's that? I'd except a reply from at least you, Boo, since I answered your question.

Half as tall or half taller?
So she’s 3’ or is she 9’
Sucks for her either way I guess I bump into stuff but atleast I fit through doors. A 9’ person won’t fit in doors or most cars, and good luck finding beds,

Say a 7’ woman? I met one once. Yes I’d date a taller woman. They wouldn’t date me though who do 7+ feet women date or will they settle eventually?


Half taller since some men seem to have trouble with the idea that a woman would be taller than them, just like some women have trouble with the idea of men being shorter than them.

I dont. I don’t care if they make more then me either.
I care that they’d love me and be kind to me and treat me with respect like I’d treat them. But most women would resent me for being shorter or making less :cry:



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09 Dec 2017, 2:50 pm

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That’s relative thoug. Here most guys seem to be 6’ at least. So 6’3” isn’t tall it’s average.


:lol: Seems you'll say anything to keep yourself down in any way you can, Sly! It's almost comical how ridiculous it is.

I'm a bit over 6'2" and while I don't consider myself "tall," most people do. It takes being around someone quite a bit taller for me to think "whoa, that guy is tall!" & then realize that I'm often the tallest guy in the room.

According to google the average American man is 5'10" tall. You're 5" taller than that!


But how tall is the average Oregonian. A lot of guys are my height or taller in my city.
So maybe else where I’d been seen as tall by women but when I’m just one of many men my height then I’m just plain.



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09 Dec 2017, 2:54 pm

WallKornexa wrote:
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That’s relative thoug. Here most guys seem to be 6’ at least. So 6’3” isn’t tall it’s average.


Man you are 6"3. No one will ever consider you short... not even average. You are tall for every girl out there. Some even will say that you are too tall.

Stop keeping yourself down Sly. It will only makes things worse.


Taller then most women yes, but there’s many 6’ guys here so I’m not so special. I’m sure if I lived in China women would find me special. But here 6’ men are not special or rare. So it’s not something that works in my favor. I don’t stand out amongst other men, sure being shorter would make it worse, but it doesn’t help here being 6’ tall.

Just like if most guys in your area were super handsome and so were you, being super handsome wouldn’t stand out anymore. It’s just average then.

Same reason rich people will never allow others to become rich if everyone was a billionaire then being a billionaire would lose its novelty



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09 Dec 2017, 3:01 pm

6 foot 3 is still an uncommon height in NYC.

When I’m on the train, I see that most men range from around 5 foot 7 to about 6 foot.

A man 6 foot 3 looks mighty tall when he’s standing up straight.



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09 Dec 2017, 3:11 pm

You’re in the 97th percentile for height. I’m in the 6th.



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