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16 Jan 2009, 12:37 am

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Where can I find pictures of very attractive Aspie women? What is THE most attractive one you've seen so far?

Heather Kuzmich?


oh please spare me the ignorance. you dont have to be a reality star model to be beautiful. if thats all it takes than i hate western capitalism and materialism

You don't have to be nope, but being one normally helps. Or maybe its that reality star models have to be good looking in the first place to become one.


i had a lot of self esteem issues as a teen i didnt think i was pretty at all..i even considered a nose job at one point but i saw that they actually break your nose(gross) so i learned to accept myself as i am..it was a scary time in my life and it makes me so mad that aspie girls have such low self esteem and no one does anything about it..no..society only makes the problem worse. who are they to say one thing is beautiful when beauty is subjective?

I think every Aspie pretty much ends up with self esteem issues in some form (well asides those who somehow end up blinding themselves with total arrogance). Appearance is an easy scapegoat really to blame social problems on in life. The reality is that noone really cares too much how you look, but on the social subtleties. Society is the problem really, all the little social diktats that get issued on a weekly basis.

You might want to see if you can find Leil Lowndes "How to become a people magnet book" - it certainly makes interesting reading. Bittorrent is your friend.


sometimes it just makes me sad bc most people who i told about my as are scared of me when i did nothing wrong to them i was always nice to them even when they were rude to me i even let them take advantage of me bc i wanted friends so badly i was blind to the truth. and i look at her getting all the attention and i ask myself why?

I never tell anyone really - its a lot easier that way really. Alcohol helps cover up nearly all of my social mishaps, I just blame it on being either drunk or hungover.
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but i guess its better to have a few close friends than a bunch who dont give a sh** about you or are friends with u for the wrong reasons. i just transferred to a new school and im slowly making new friends here, i even talked to two girls from the track team.

Join a society that you are interested in and really actually want to enjoy - its by the far the easiest way to build a social circle at uni. A few close friends are nice to have, but a social network is useful too.



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16 Jan 2009, 12:45 am

Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Orwell wrote:
EgaoNoGenki wrote:
Where can I find pictures of very attractive Aspie women? What is THE most attractive one you've seen so far?

Heather Kuzmich?


oh please spare me the ignorance. you dont have to be a reality star model to be beautiful. if thats all it takes than i hate western capitalism and materialism

You don't have to be nope, but being one normally helps. Or maybe its that reality star models have to be good looking in the first place to become one.


i had a lot of self esteem issues as a teen i didnt think i was pretty at all..i even considered a nose job at one point but i saw that they actually break your nose(gross) so i learned to accept myself as i am..it was a scary time in my life and it makes me so mad that aspie girls have such low self esteem and no one does anything about it..no..society only makes the problem worse. who are they to say one thing is beautiful when beauty is subjective?

I think every Aspie pretty much ends up with self esteem issues in some form (well asides those who somehow end up blinding themselves with total arrogance). Appearance is an easy scapegoat really to blame social problems on in life. The reality is that noone really cares too much how you look, but on the social subtleties. Society is the problem really, all the little social diktats that get issued on a weekly basis.

You might want to see if you can find Leil Lowndes "How to become a people magnet book" - it certainly makes interesting reading. Bittorrent is your friend.


sometimes it just makes me sad bc most people who i told about my as are scared of me when i did nothing wrong to them i was always nice to them even when they were rude to me i even let them take advantage of me bc i wanted friends so badly i was blind to the truth. and i look at her getting all the attention and i ask myself why?

I never tell anyone really - its a lot easier that way really. Alcohol helps cover up nearly all of my social mishaps, I just blame it on being either drunk or hungover.
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but i guess its better to have a few close friends than a bunch who dont give a sh** about you or are friends with u for the wrong reasons. i just transferred to a new school and im slowly making new friends here, i even talked to two girls from the track team.

Join a society that you are interested in and really actually want to enjoy - its by the far the easiest way to build a social circle at uni. A few close friends are nice to have, but a social network is useful too.


as for the network thats why i joined wp in the first place and i got a lot of replies for my posts and even if people here do not agree with me on everything its ok bc were all here for the same reason.

telling people about my as helps. my ex knew about it he thought it was nutty but he liked me anyway
i have a smalll group of friends which have been so supportive of me
i also joined a outdoor club at school and i went on a weekend camping trip with them and it rocked!! !



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16 Jan 2009, 12:52 am

LadyKathleen wrote:
Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Orwell wrote:
EgaoNoGenki wrote:
Where can I find pictures of very attractive Aspie women? What is THE most attractive one you've seen so far?

Heather Kuzmich?


oh please spare me the ignorance. you dont have to be a reality star model to be beautiful. if thats all it takes than i hate western capitalism and materialism

You don't have to be nope, but being one normally helps. Or maybe its that reality star models have to be good looking in the first place to become one.


i had a lot of self esteem issues as a teen i didnt think i was pretty at all..i even considered a nose job at one point but i saw that they actually break your nose(gross) so i learned to accept myself as i am..it was a scary time in my life and it makes me so mad that aspie girls have such low self esteem and no one does anything about it..no..society only makes the problem worse. who are they to say one thing is beautiful when beauty is subjective?

I think every Aspie pretty much ends up with self esteem issues in some form (well asides those who somehow end up blinding themselves with total arrogance). Appearance is an easy scapegoat really to blame social problems on in life. The reality is that noone really cares too much how you look, but on the social subtleties. Society is the problem really, all the little social diktats that get issued on a weekly basis.

You might want to see if you can find Leil Lowndes "How to become a people magnet book" - it certainly makes interesting reading. Bittorrent is your friend.


sometimes it just makes me sad bc most people who i told about my as are scared of me when i did nothing wrong to them i was always nice to them even when they were rude to me i even let them take advantage of me bc i wanted friends so badly i was blind to the truth. and i look at her getting all the attention and i ask myself why?

I never tell anyone really - its a lot easier that way really. Alcohol helps cover up nearly all of my social mishaps, I just blame it on being either drunk or hungover.
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but i guess its better to have a few close friends than a bunch who dont give a sh** about you or are friends with u for the wrong reasons. i just transferred to a new school and im slowly making new friends here, i even talked to two girls from the track team.

Join a society that you are interested in and really actually want to enjoy - its by the far the easiest way to build a social circle at uni. A few close friends are nice to have, but a social network is useful too.


as for the network thats why i joined wp in the first place and i got a lot of replies for my posts and even if people here do not agree with me on everything its ok bc were all here for the same reason.

An irl network is a lot more useful - the problem with WP is whilst members here can offer some often good advice, they are in most cases not gatekeepers. Unfortunately society is structured in such a way that you move up more or less on the basis of how well you brown nose.
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telling people about my as helps. my ex knew about it he thought it was nutty but he liked me anyway

It can help if you are very careful as to who you tell. Given the way my uni works, telling just one wrong person could mean that nearly everyone knows.
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i have a smalll group of friends which have been so supportive of me
i also joined a outdoor club at school and i went on a weekend camping trip with them and it rocked!! !

Sounds good - so may I ask why are you at all bothered what people outside of it think of you? Personally I have never really bothered to go after universal popularity nor cared about it.



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16 Jan 2009, 8:38 am

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I never knew us Aspies could look so good until now.


Amen.


You really got some guts saying that after making this thread.
And if your going to say that you know aspie girls can also look good after this, then you are blindlesly just....urgh

You have alot f ridicules judgements when you don't even know what you are talking about


The thread was a trap to push girls to prove how wrong he is....and it has worked well.


Too true. But it was our pleasure to prove him wrong. ;)

Btw, earlier someone complimented the artistic-ness of my photo, and I forgot to reply, can't remember who it was, but thanks very much to that person :D.


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16 Jan 2009, 10:40 am

Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Kangoogle wrote:
LadyKathleen wrote:
Orwell wrote:
EgaoNoGenki wrote:
Where can I find pictures of very attractive Aspie women? What is THE most attractive one you've seen so far?

Heather Kuzmich?


oh please spare me the ignorance. you dont have to be a reality star model to be beautiful. if thats all it takes than i hate western capitalism and materialism

You don't have to be nope, but being one normally helps. Or maybe its that reality star models have to be good looking in the first place to become one.


i had a lot of self esteem issues as a teen i didnt think i was pretty at all..i even considered a nose job at one point but i saw that they actually break your nose(gross) so i learned to accept myself as i am..it was a scary time in my life and it makes me so mad that aspie girls have such low self esteem and no one does anything about it..no..society only makes the problem worse. who are they to say one thing is beautiful when beauty is subjective?

I think every Aspie pretty much ends up with self esteem issues in some form (well asides those who somehow end up blinding themselves with total arrogance). Appearance is an easy scapegoat really to blame social problems on in life. The reality is that noone really cares too much how you look, but on the social subtleties. Society is the problem really, all the little social diktats that get issued on a weekly basis.

You might want to see if you can find Leil Lowndes "How to become a people magnet book" - it certainly makes interesting reading. Bittorrent is your friend.


sometimes it just makes me sad bc most people who i told about my as are scared of me when i did nothing wrong to them i was always nice to them even when they were rude to me i even let them take advantage of me bc i wanted friends so badly i was blind to the truth. and i look at her getting all the attention and i ask myself why?

I never tell anyone really - its a lot easier that way really. Alcohol helps cover up nearly all of my social mishaps, I just blame it on being either drunk or hungover.
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but i guess its better to have a few close friends than a bunch who dont give a sh** about you or are friends with u for the wrong reasons. i just transferred to a new school and im slowly making new friends here, i even talked to two girls from the track team.

Join a society that you are interested in and really actually want to enjoy - its by the far the easiest way to build a social circle at uni. A few close friends are nice to have, but a social network is useful too.


as for the network thats why i joined wp in the first place and i got a lot of replies for my posts and even if people here do not agree with me on everything its ok bc were all here for the same reason.

An irl network is a lot more useful - the problem with WP is whilst members here can offer some often good advice, they are in most cases not gatekeepers. Unfortunately society is structured in such a way that you move up more or less on the basis of how well you brown nose.
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telling people about my as helps. my ex knew about it he thought it was nutty but he liked me anyway

It can help if you are very careful as to who you tell. Given the way my uni works, telling just one wrong person could mean that nearly everyone knows.
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i have a smalll group of friends which have been so supportive of me
i also joined a outdoor club at school and i went on a weekend camping trip with them and it rocked!! !

Sounds good - so may I ask why are you at all bothered what people outside of it think of you? Personally I have never really bothered to go after universal popularity nor cared about it.

ur right universal popularity is the devil. as ive said before i dont like the idea of people becoming famous for nothing...but thats america for you bc a lot of people are lazy, selfish, spoiled, and materialistic like that. there are plenty of people with autism who dont get the recognition they deserve bc of these morons who do not know the first thing about autism
its just not worth having these people as my "friends"



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16 Jan 2009, 11:14 am

LadyKathleen wrote:
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EgaoNoGenki wrote:
Where can I find pictures of very attractive Aspie women? What is THE most attractive one you've seen so far?

Heather Kuzmich?


oh please spare me the ignorance. you dont have to be a reality star model to be beautiful. if thats all it takes than i hate western capitalism and materialism


I never found her attractive, and she gets all sorts of talk simply because she has AS
its really stupid, beauty is different to everyone,
There are many beautiful people with AS, I have never met one IRL, but the future is like a newly discovered island-it could be filled with cobra's and rats or mango's and lobsters



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22 Jan 2009, 12:16 pm

I found an old sexy picture of myself on my comp the other day that might possibly rival Magnus, depending on your tastes. :wink:

I considered posting it but I didn't because it has no head. I was making a typical AS spaced out/bored face and the pic was much sexier without a head. So I figured people might not beleive it was me.



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22 Jan 2009, 12:52 pm

I've never met a gal with asperger's.


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22 Jan 2009, 5:29 pm

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I've never met a gal with asperger's.


It's weird, because I've never met a guy with asperger's (or at least not one I know for sure has aspergers). I've met four girls with AS in my life, one of whom I work with, and we get along like a house on fire (although she's a few years younger) :D.


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22 Jan 2009, 8:27 pm

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So I figured people might not beleive it was me.


I dont think anyone thinks of you as a liar. Post it anyway if it pleases you, and to hell with what we think anyway.


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22 Jan 2009, 8:35 pm

This thread should get an award for most nested quotes.



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22 Jan 2009, 9:25 pm

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I found an old sexy picture of myself on my comp the other day that might possibly rival Magnus, depending on your tastes. :wink:

I considered posting it but I didn't because it has no head. I was making a typical AS spaced out/bored face and the pic was much sexier without a head. So I figured people might not beleive it was me.


Lol, post it, I believe ya :wink:



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22 Jan 2009, 9:47 pm

I am female and an NT. I read thru the thread, and since this thread is specifically ASKING for opinions on the most attractive aspie female, my vote goes to mitharatowen.

I saw every post on this thread, and while there are other attractive females, she is the prettiest IMO!

Something about her features. Very wholesome kind of pretty, but you can tell she can also be a siren when she wants to be! And much prettier than Darryl Hannah.



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22 Jan 2009, 11:46 pm

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And much prettier than Darryl Hannah.


ew yuck! Who comapred her to Darryl Hannah? Darryl Hannah isn't good looking.



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22 Jan 2009, 11:54 pm

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And much prettier than Darryl Hannah.


ew yuck! Who comapred her to Darryl Hannah? Darryl Hannah isn't good looking.


Isn't Darryl a man's name...? :lol:


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22 Jan 2009, 11:56 pm

^She does have sort of "mannish" facial features. :lol:


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