Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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Hey! I'm Alex and I hail from Merseyside, UK.

Animal lover and gamer.

Looking for someone like myself; a reserved loner. I feel tired very easily and don't enjoy 'normal' socialising, nor do I really care about superficial things or appearances.

Please feel free to message me!

I've never done this before so this could be completely wrong.
Age:21
Height: 4ft9"
Eye Colour: Blue
Hair Colour: Blonde
Occupation: 1st Year University Student
Interests: Studying, Daydreaming, Symbolism, Movie Editing, AI, Ethics, Reading, Movies, Books, TV, Travel, Family, Cooking, Baking and Art, Harry Potter, NCIS, Sherlock, Family Guy, Bob's Burgers, Politics and Philosophy, Psychology, Criminology, Economics, English.......

I'm from the North East of England, I'm mostly cheerful but like most people here the unexpected can cause a range of unpleasant emotions and behaviors. According to friends I have a wicked but dry sense of humor. I'm good at looking after kids and the people I love. I stim most of the time but it's usually very difficult to notice. I would like to move around England and see what it's like in other places. I hope to complete both a masters and a doctorate, own my own house and adopt in the future.

I'd like to be able to have a relationship with someone who understands what it is like to live on the spectrum who has similar interests and that I can relate to and who can relate to me.

hi SabbraCadabra.
I have been to a beach, in the 80's, I think. But I do not live close to one. I am VERY big into water, though! I like water parks on weekdays with low crowds and swimming or even just running my hands through water, like in fountains and similar. I am in the I between, I guess. Some of the Aspie males I have met do not want to go to places, particularly outside. I understand, I am just different about it. NT males, however, are put off by my lack of "typical feminine" look and behavior. Also my lack of being very emotional. Apparently, I am also not very romantic. I am willing to try, though! I would love someone to share intellectual interests with.

I can't figure out how to get the quote feature to work on this IPad! It is true that I had no idea about body language, or that everybody else seemed to know this stuff!! I took out a library book all about it, and I was shocked. When I asked a friend about it, he said, "oh, yeah" and then proceeded to fill me in on all sorts of other tips. I cannot really remember It all and even if I did, that would be the only thing I would be focused on. argh.
With fashion, I tend to do the uniform thing. I buy three or four of what I like that fits and is comfortable. I cannot do skirts and color coordination. Also no heels. Ever.

Thank you for the beaches list. Perhaps I will have time and money to visit one in the nearish future.

So........ I am a 21 year old male who lives in North Lancashire, UK. I am currently studying a BA Hons Degree in Music Theatre, and I am soon to be in my third and final year. My interests are: singing, acting, history, politics and Gaming. I'm a pretty easygoing man, but I do like to be adventurous and spontaneous sometimes I'm looking for a female partner who is intelligent, sympathetic, kind, humorous and adventurous, to name just a few traits. If you have more than two of these, we'll get on pretty well!! I'm also a huge fan of Game Of Thrones, so if you're a big fan of that too, it's a huge bonus!! !
Any women on here aged 18-25?

I'm Lisa and I'm 23. I already introduced myself in a different thread in this section.

I'm a conundrum. I either put people off because I'm not emotional enough or I put them off because I'm actually incredibly over emotional and they catch on through what I say .

I'm bad with body language too. If I consciously force myself to pay attention I've learned enough that I can notice some things, but usually in the moment I'm so stressed out from trying act less "aspies" that there's not enough open space for body language reading to run at the same time. I envy the NT ability to have more than one complex human program running at once.

I had to learn to do eye contact more. I'm still not really comfortable with it but I can do it. My worst habit is jiggling my leg up and down or tapping my fingers (I do this quietly at least). I've learned that in important people things I need to cross my legs at the ankles and rest my hands on my lap while clasping them. But boy is it hard on me! I'm forcing myself to reign in my stimming while also doing the eye contact.

Kind of new to all this, but I suppose I might as well give it a try.
My name is Tolbin, I'm Male, 24 years of age, and I live in North Dakota, U.S.A. My interests include books primarily fantasy and weird fiction as well as video games, computers, theology, philosophy, sci-fi, astronomy, movies, writing, anime, and much more.

When I am relaxed I am quite friendly and kind. Admittedly, I am rather average in terms of appearance, though I do keep my basic hygiene well maintained. I like having conversations, though preferably about my favorite subjects. Admittedly, inconsequential banter does bore me on a basic level rather quickly.

The female I am looking for must be intelligent, caring, and open minded. As for age around 19 to 28 years of age would be suitable. In regards to physical appearance, I don't have much in the way of preferences. Tattoos, piercings, gauges, are all totally fine with me even though admittedly I have none (at least yet).

Edit: Forgot to actually describe my appearance, apologies. 6'2" caucasian male, blonde hair (presently short cut), dark green eyes, average build.

"Reign it in" is an eggcorn.

I'm east of LA, now, going to grad school in Economics, so I don't have much time. I'm still interested in meeting people who can handle occasional scheduling issues.

Early 40s Female Midwest USA
pretty damn understanding and open to communication
have prior rship experience
not typical female, will never be skinny barbiedoll but can clean up well and hold my own socially
employed, has varied interests and hobbies, lonely after moving here for work,
am a fairly open book, enjoy friendships and lllooovvveee
come talk to me!! !