23 Jul 2010, 4:24 pm
Ambrose_Rotten wrote:
Erisad wrote:
How can I love myself when no one else even treats me like a person? :/
How can anyone treat you as a person if you don't love yourself?
It's a tough loop to be stuck in. I've been there. A very close friend helped me crawl out of it.
It would be highly arrogant of me to think that I could single-handedly raise your self-esteem. Especially due to the fact that I'm probably no more than the little red picture of a guy with a tuba to the left of this box.
Regardless of my own insignificance, I'm still treating you like a human being because, well, you deserve it.
I like Tubas. I played the saxophone in marching band before leaving for college. It was fun.
Thanks, that's really sweet.
The thing is that when I feel that way about myself, it's usually when I'm by myself thinking too much. When I'm out with people, I'm usually too busy to think about it. So the only support I really get is from the internet, which can be good but there are a lot of jerks on here too. Not mentioning any names here because that would lead to trouble. :/
23 Jul 2010, 6:09 pm
Erisad wrote:
Ambrose_Rotten wrote:
Erisad wrote:
How can I love myself when no one else even treats me like a person? :/
How can anyone treat you as a person if you don't love yourself?
It's a tough loop to be stuck in. I've been there. A very close friend helped me crawl out of it.
It would be highly arrogant of me to think that I could single-handedly raise your self-esteem. Especially due to the fact that I'm probably no more than the little red picture of a guy with a tuba to the left of this box.
Regardless of my own insignificance, I'm still treating you like a human being because, well, you deserve it.
I like Tubas. I played the saxophone in marching band before leaving for college. It was fun.
Thanks, that's really sweet.
The thing is that when I feel that way about myself, it's usually when I'm by myself thinking too much. When I'm out with people, I'm usually too busy to think about it. So the only support I really get is from the internet, which can be good but there are a lot of jerks on here too. Not mentioning any names here because that would lead to trouble. :/Awe I'm flattered! I'm more of a degenerate hedonistic than a jerk!
23 Jul 2010, 6:52 pm
RICKY5 wrote:
Awe I'm flattered! I'm more of a degenerate hedonistic than a jerk!
You're welcome.
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24 Jul 2010, 1:49 pm
24 Jul 2010, 3:03 pm
Any woman fatter than me would be pretty fat.
I probably would have my balls slap her bum though, in the right circumstances. 
24 Jul 2010, 3:12 pm
Tequila wrote:
Any woman fatter than me would be pretty fat.
I probably would have my balls slap her bum though, in the right circumstances.
I probably would have my balls slap her bum though, in the right circumstances.
I suppose that's one way of putting it.
24 Jul 2010, 3:29 pm
Tequila wrote:
Any woman fatter than me would be pretty fat.
I probably would have my balls slap her bum though, in the right circumstances.
I probably would have my balls slap her bum though, in the right circumstances.
That was an image I didn't need in my head. >.<
24 Jul 2010, 5:29 pm
24 Jul 2010, 5:36 pm
Laz wrote:
[Look at what they wish a model to be. They do not desire a feminine shape. Without getting all seigman freud on the subject the whole fashion industry seems to be one great out of control gay fetish
+1
The 'high fashion', 'catwalk' stuff (not sure of the correct term) certainly doesn't seem to be aimed at heterosexual men.
Although it seems to me that in general the fashion on the streets, as worn by *real* women, is far more flattering and alluring that is has been in the past (compared with the 80's, say) . Could do without all those piercings, tatoos and thongs, though...
24 Jul 2010, 6:31 pm
ManErg wrote:
Although it seems to me that in general the fashion on the streets, as worn by *real* women, is far more flattering and alluring that is has been in the past (compared with the 80's, say) . Could do without all those piercings, tatoos and thongs, though...
Yeah. I could never wear a thong, even if I was thin. Just seems soo uncomfortable. >.<
Clothes for real women are a heck of a lot more comfortable too. I see the high-end fashion clothes being tolerable for about an hour before I would have to change out of it. I don't wear sweatpants all the time but comfort is more important to me than looking drop-dead gorgeous 24/7. D:
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24 Jul 2010, 6:35 pm
scubasteve wrote:
5264443377776444844 wrote:
Never had a girlfriend and I'm either asexual or a repressed heterosexual. I don't think I could ever bang a fat chick though.
Maybe a better question is "why do guys who hate fat chicks have to be complete as*holes about it?" Being a sexually frustrated aspie is not an excuse for projecting your own self-esteem issues onto someone who obviously doesn't need or deserve it. I was lucky enough to have a good metabolism, but many members of my family are overweight and have self-esteem issues, and comments like that can really be hurtful. I haven't been here as long as you, but I'd like to think of this as a place where people can come when their self-esteem is in need of a lift. We all need some encouragement from time to time.
+1
Why is it that the guy can be fat, but the woman can't? I've seen a few posts here to that effect, i.e. "I'm overweight, fat, etc, and don't have anyone, but I want a girl who isn't as big as me, and (insert checklist here)"
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