15 Mar 2013, 9:43 pm
1000Knives wrote:
Lilya wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
:? Well definitely I'm not fascinated by the whores in his music videos. I don't need to dress like a whore to get a guy's attention. At least I personally don't think so. I don't know. I just watch it because he's just dreamy.
it's not necessary to put the women down with insulting words just because you don't like their attire or behaviour - clearly he DOES like the way they are. and considering he's not such a nice person himself, it's curious that you're giving him a free ride but you trash the women instead.
I dont know. Part of me wants to dress like that to get a man to love me and not have them think that I'm a naive half Asian. Being half Asian also is bad in certain ways. Some men think Asian women are easy and that they are very submissive which is sad. So Asian women can get used in a way. So if I dressed in tight tops or tight bottoms and g strings and dance around like those ladies in Pitbull's videos maybe I may get more men attracted to me? But at the same time they dont look classy. I don't know. Should we women all dress like that to get a man as a potential husband?? Pitbull dresses well. I like the suit and sunglasses. The only negative thing I read about him is the punching of fan on stage but while I don't like violence at all, it was like the fan provoked him. But we don't have the actual words that were exchanged between the fan and Pitbull.
I don't think dressing like that is the key to getting a husband... You probably would get more male attention, but most likely the kind that you're not after... It's important that you are comfortable with what you wear. You can be comfortable, look classy and feminine all at the same time. If you feel that your dress sense needs updating it's ok to get inspiration from style icons or fashion of your preference, but it shouldn't mean turning into something you're not. It's sad that there are men are stuck with that mindset, but they don't change their opinion of you after having talked to you and spend time with you, I doubt that they are worth of your time anyway.
You'd get attention....from men like Pitbull. Loud obnoxious annoying men who talk about how much sex and p**** they get. So hey, I'm allowed to go for my Perfume clone, and you can go for your Pitbull clone. We can all live our dreams.
(For the record, Pitbull has 3 "baby mamas" and believes in open relationships. srs.)
I didn't know what baby mama meant. So he has three children from three different women? Open relationships to me means he isn't interested in having one girlfriend and being in a committed relationship with her? In other wards he wouldn't make a loyal boyfriend. He probably isn't marriage material either.
Why could I attract attention from Pitbull? I should take a picture of myself
I don't think he's into Asian girls. He prefers Latina from all of his videos. I wonder if the women in his videos are movie stars from various parts of Central and South America, or just any random girl. It would be interesting. At least Adam Levine's fiance was in one of his videos. It's great to have a real girlfriend or fiance or wife be in a music video. Who's your perfume clone?
15 Mar 2013, 9:46 pm
rabbittss wrote:
The question is.. why would anyone want to be like Pitbull?
Good question. He's hot? I don't know. Based on the fact he has children from multiple women and he doesn't want to be in committed relationship, that's no good. 
I don't want a boyfriend to also be dating other women. I don't want a boyfriend who has children from so many other women. I like his music. It makes me want to dance. I work out to his music and it gets me energized. I just love Back in Time and International Love.
15 Mar 2013, 10:06 pm
15 Mar 2013, 10:20 pm
luvsterriers wrote:
rabbittss wrote:
The question is.. why would anyone want to be like Pitbull?
Good question. He's hot? I don't know. Based on the fact he has children from multiple women and he doesn't want to be in committed relationship, that's no good. I don't want a boyfriend to also be dating other women. I don't want a boyfriend who has children from so many other women. I like his music. It makes me want to dance. I work out to his music and it gets me energized. I just love Back in Time and International Love.Oh sure, His music seems to be catchy as hell and more power to him.. people need to be entertained so they don't think about how crap everything is around them all the time.
But I think you probably hit it on the head.. he's not the sort of reliable partner a lot of women are looking for. I personally don't have any desire to be anything like him.. I'd rather have one, exclusive, solid, long term, relationship with lots of communication and lots of affection... rather than have loads of short pointless ones..
15 Mar 2013, 10:50 pm
luvsterriers wrote:
1000Knives wrote:
Lilya wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
:? Well definitely I'm not fascinated by the whores in his music videos. I don't need to dress like a whore to get a guy's attention. At least I personally don't think so. I don't know. I just watch it because he's just dreamy.
it's not necessary to put the women down with insulting words just because you don't like their attire or behaviour - clearly he DOES like the way they are. and considering he's not such a nice person himself, it's curious that you're giving him a free ride but you trash the women instead.
I dont know. Part of me wants to dress like that to get a man to love me and not have them think that I'm a naive half Asian. Being half Asian also is bad in certain ways. Some men think Asian women are easy and that they are very submissive which is sad. So Asian women can get used in a way. So if I dressed in tight tops or tight bottoms and g strings and dance around like those ladies in Pitbull's videos maybe I may get more men attracted to me? But at the same time they dont look classy. I don't know. Should we women all dress like that to get a man as a potential husband?? Pitbull dresses well. I like the suit and sunglasses. The only negative thing I read about him is the punching of fan on stage but while I don't like violence at all, it was like the fan provoked him. But we don't have the actual words that were exchanged between the fan and Pitbull.
I don't think dressing like that is the key to getting a husband... You probably would get more male attention, but most likely the kind that you're not after... It's important that you are comfortable with what you wear. You can be comfortable, look classy and feminine all at the same time. If you feel that your dress sense needs updating it's ok to get inspiration from style icons or fashion of your preference, but it shouldn't mean turning into something you're not. It's sad that there are men are stuck with that mindset, but they don't change their opinion of you after having talked to you and spend time with you, I doubt that they are worth of your time anyway.
You'd get attention....from men like Pitbull. Loud obnoxious annoying men who talk about how much sex and p**** they get. So hey, I'm allowed to go for my Perfume clone, and you can go for your Pitbull clone. We can all live our dreams.
(For the record, Pitbull has 3 "baby mamas" and believes in open relationships. srs.)
I didn't know what baby mama meant. So he has three children from three different women? Open relationships to me means he isn't interested in having one girlfriend and being in a committed relationship with her? In other wards he wouldn't make a loyal boyfriend. He probably isn't marriage material either.
Why could I attract attention from Pitbull? I should take a picture of myself
I don't think he's into Asian girls. He prefers Latina from all of his videos. I wonder if the women in his videos are movie stars from various parts of Central and South America, or just any random girl. It would be interesting. At least Adam Levine's fiance was in one of his videos. It's great to have a real girlfriend or fiance or wife be in a music video. Who's your perfume clone?I get the feeling he's not too picky. Of course he's not gonna be in a longterm relationship with you. He is the epitome of "hookup culture."
Who's my Perfume clone? I don't know, I've not met any Asian girls in recent times who talk to me, thus my thread about it. To make this thread REALLY OFF TOPIC...
My sister's boyfriend had a dream where it was me, Alex Chiu (www.alexchiu.com, he sells magnetic rings that make you immortal) and the girls from Perfume. Alex Chiu had long power metal hair, though, and wanted me to join his power metal band, but Perfume wanted me to come with them. He woke up before I chose.
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16 Mar 2013, 12:54 am
Wolfheart wrote:
blue_bean wrote:
uwmonkdm wrote:
Growlithe wrote:
This is what men want. 
Oh baby.
These girls are much more up my alley (gotta love google)
[img][800:748]http://i.imgur.com/0ex8C.jpg[/img]
etc..
All three are wearing makeup.
All three of those girls are absolutely gorgeous, I think that even the small quirks like them having freckles make them even more gorgeous.
Freckles are "quirks"? Dude, this isn't the 60's, freckles aren't a complexion flaw anymore.
What was all that hoohah a pages back about girls wearing makeup being fake/wearing a mask and suddenly you's see girls wearing obvious makeup and they're gorgeous? Keep you stories straight, christ sakes!
16 Mar 2013, 6:08 am
16 Mar 2013, 6:14 am
Wolfheart wrote:
All three of those girls are absolutely gorgeous, I think that even the small quirks like them having freckles make them even more gorgeous.
It's all in the eyes, and that not-quite-smile but smile.
16 Mar 2013, 6:23 am
I'm surprised at how many women are attracted to Pitbull.
Quite frankly, he's an complete idiot.
I heard his song "forget about your boyfriend, and meet me at the hotel room"
and I completely lost interest.
Just wow, this thread is shocking 
16 Mar 2013, 6:29 am
uwmonkdm wrote:
I'm surprised at how many women are attracted to Pitbull.
Quite frankly, he's an complete idiot.
I heard his song "forget about your boyfriend, and meet me at the hotel room"
and I completely lost interest.
Just wow, this thread is shocking
Quite frankly, he's an complete idiot.
I heard his song "forget about your boyfriend, and meet me at the hotel room"
and I completely lost interest.
Just wow, this thread is shocking
I said I didn't like him
My demographic never seems to count on these boards though
16 Mar 2013, 6:32 am
nessa238 wrote:
uwmonkdm wrote:
I'm surprised at how many women are attracted to Pitbull.
Quite frankly, he's an complete idiot.
I heard his song "forget about your boyfriend, and meet me at the hotel room"
and I completely lost interest.
Just wow, this thread is shocking
Quite frankly, he's an complete idiot.
I heard his song "forget about your boyfriend, and meet me at the hotel room"
and I completely lost interest.
Just wow, this thread is shocking
I said I didn't like him
My demographic never seems to count on these boards though
I didn't say every woman did.
Honestly I'm surprised anyone does, but infidelity and hook-up culture is cool now, apparently.
16 Mar 2013, 7:03 am
uwmonkdm wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
uwmonkdm wrote:
I'm surprised at how many women are attracted to Pitbull.
Quite frankly, he's an complete idiot.
I heard his song "forget about your boyfriend, and meet me at the hotel room"
and I completely lost interest.
Just wow, this thread is shocking
Quite frankly, he's an complete idiot.
I heard his song "forget about your boyfriend, and meet me at the hotel room"
and I completely lost interest.
Just wow, this thread is shocking
I said I didn't like him
My demographic never seems to count on these boards though
I didn't say every woman did.
Honestly I'm surprised anyone does, but infidelity and hook-up culture is cool now, apparently.
Yes, the landscape of relationships has changed beyond recognition since I first started 'dating' (or whatever it's called these days)
Having experienced the Friends With Benefits thing I wouldn't recommend it to anyone
It's just lazy, selfish, disrespectful people using you
16 Mar 2013, 7:13 am
I have literally never heard any of Pitbull's music, which is kind of weird. I love hip hop but don't often dip into the stuff that is spoon fed to people who... I don't know, I guess they like that music.
I do know he has a pretty interesting back story, like most hip hop artists, and in that way I do find artists like him inspiring.
I also know that no matter what an artist says in interviews, they're pretty much putting on a show anytime the cameras are rolling. It's effectively a made up persona that you see in music videos. Despite what information is available about him, unless someone is actually involved in his personal life, they probably don't have the faintest idea what kind of person he really is. Having children with three women doesn't mean a thing in terms of whether or not he's a good or bad person. Open relationships aren't evil, etc. And music produced for the masses probably rarely accurately portrays relationship trends in society. It's a performance. It's not a research paper.
I guess what I'm saying is, it doesn't even matter what he's like. It's not realistic to look to entertainers for an idea of what men want or what kind of relationships you can form etc. To fixate on fiction is only going to make things more confusing.
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16 Mar 2013, 8:07 am
16 Mar 2013, 8:07 am
1000Knives wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
1000Knives wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
I'd managed to successfully avoid this Pitbull phenomenon up until today 
The one advantage of living in the UK?
Lol
I think there are many advantages
Like an exceedingly remote chance of being gunned down in your classroom for a start!
There's really not a high chance of that in USA, but OK. We actually have less a chance than places like Finland, statistically.
You have to be kidding me
Finland is one of the safest countries in the world in any standard and I've never even seen a gun in my life not to mention having heard of a person being shot.
There were two school shootings in the past years: the first one was the first ever in Finnish history and later there was somebody who tried to copycat that. Both of these people idolized the American school shooters.
America is by far the leader of any statistics when it comes to school shootings and killings by guns in general (edit: in Western countries). I don't believe this topic belongs on this forum at all, by the way, but I was very insulted by that comment.
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16 Mar 2013, 8:09 am
uwmonkdm wrote:
I'm surprised at how many women are attracted to Pitbull.
Quite frankly, he's an complete idiot.
I heard his song "forget about your boyfriend, and meet me at the hotel room"
and I completely lost interest.
Just wow, this thread is shocking
Quite frankly, he's an complete idiot.
I heard his song "forget about your boyfriend, and meet me at the hotel room"
and I completely lost interest.
Just wow, this thread is shocking
Ah yes that is Hotel Room Service from his 4th album in 2009. It has a catchy tune, I don't care for the lyrics though. I prefer Back In Time over Hotel Room Service.
