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18 Feb 2022, 3:36 am

auntblabby wrote:

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betcha hellatight there

My mistress knowns me better than my wife

good close relationship ya got there :wtg:

We are going to have a night out tonight after a few drinks,

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18 Feb 2022, 3:49 am

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“The Hand” alleviated much sorrow, and provided relief.

My right hand mistress :lol:

nothing compares 2 dolly

Here's my mistress dressed up for me

Some partners see solitary masturbation as a form of disloyalty, if they expect to share sexual experiences with you. You can read about people going "no fap", lots of good feedback.

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18 Feb 2022, 3:54 am

I guess the next step is to claim disloyalty if you accidentally get a boner from seeing an underwear ad.

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18 Feb 2022, 4:04 am

r00tb33r wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

auntblabby wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

“The Hand” alleviated much sorrow, and provided relief.

My right hand mistress :lol:

nothing compares 2 dolly

Here's my mistress dressed up for me

Some partners see solitary masturbation as a form of disloyalty, if they expect to share sexual experiences with you. You can read about people going "no fap", lots of good feedback.

if somebody had an enthusiastic attractive sex partner, why would they fap?

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18 Feb 2022, 8:12 am

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Some partners see solitary masturbation as a form of disloyalty, if they expect to share sexual experiences with you. You can read about people going "no fap", lots of good feedback.

To each their own, and perhaps this works well for some people, but I sure hope it isn't the cultural default.

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if somebody had an enthusiastic attractive sex partner, why would they fap?

A change of pace?

A way to handle an imbalance of sex drives within the the relationship? (However "enthusiastic" partners may be, they don't necessarily always want sex, or other erotic activity, at the same time.)

A chance to enjoy a kinky fantasy that one's partner does not share?

Or perhaps just a way to have some space of one's own within the relationship? (Intimacy is great, but too much intimacy all the time can be ... too much of a good thing.)

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18 Feb 2022, 9:41 am

r00tb33r wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

auntblabby wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

“The Hand” alleviated much sorrow, and provided relief.

My right hand mistress :lol:

nothing compares 2 dolly

Here's my mistress dressed up for me

Some partners see solitary masturbation as a form of disloyalty, if they expect to share sexual experiences with you. You can read about people going "no fap", lots of good feedback.

The "no fap" movement is basically for treating porn-induced erectile dysfunction.

There's no science that supports it yet, but a lot of guys there claim to be true.

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18 Feb 2022, 9:43 am

I just don't see the harm in "fapping."

Who am I cheating on when I "fap"?

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18 Feb 2022, 9:54 am

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Who am I cheating on when I "fap"?

Your other hand.

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18 Feb 2022, 9:55 am

Let me tell you something...it is essential that one have a good sense of humor.

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18 Feb 2022, 5:52 pm

r00tb33r wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

auntblabby wrote:

cyberdad wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

“The Hand” alleviated much sorrow, and provided relief.

My right hand mistress :lol:

nothing compares 2 dolly

Here's my mistress dressed up for me

Some partners see solitary masturbation as a form of disloyalty, if they expect to share sexual experiences with you. You can read about people going "no fap", lots of good feedback.

I've done a long post on it a few years ago. Most couples reach their 50s they rarely do it at all. It's just a fact of life.

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18 Feb 2022, 6:05 pm

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18 Feb 2022, 7:28 pm

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Sexy huh!

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18 Feb 2022, 7:53 pm

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I just don't see the harm in "fapping."

Who am I cheating on when I "fap"?

Well, different relationships have different boundaries, you aren't gonna go poly because that's your limit. A person isn't gonna want to watch porn or feel comfortable doing so with their s\o or for them to kiss another person. A person for example may be uncomfortable for their gf to use a dildo of the same or higher size even if that dildo helps with back pain and curving uncomfortably or reach easier, and help giving an aging vagina more elasticity and keeping shape, or help before gyn visits. Regardless it can be gone without.

Caring about how a partner feels is important in relationships, not being selfish and crossing what affects their safety because you're of a different opinion. Sometimes compromises can be achieved however some things are clean cut for some people, it's really not something to comfortably live with and they keep that memory they've been wronged and will continue to be. Joking about people's different feelings and opinions, minimizing their experience is not very nice.

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18 Feb 2022, 7:57 pm

1986 wrote:

I guess the next step is to claim disloyalty if you accidentally get a boner from seeing an underwear ad.

The boner was disloyal to the person, sadly. Boners have their own mind, lol. The person is not a boner.

What a person chooses to do with the images and thoughts is choice. If they decide to pursue further. Or if they decide to pursue a female that turns them on.

A person may touch a boner, they may leave the boner alone, and they may ask their s\o to touch it, they may touch to the woman they're committed to. Everything a person does is choice. Everything affects the world around them in different ways and the people they connect with in different ways.

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18 Feb 2022, 8:01 pm

Now wait a second.....how am I "joking about other people's experiences"?

If my wife doesn't want me to "fap" in front of her, I won't "fap" in front of her. I'm just not of the opinion that pleasing myself constitutes "cheating."

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18 Feb 2022, 8:05 pm

Rexi wrote:

A person for example may be uncomfortable for their gf to use a dildo of the same or higher size even if that dildo helps with back pain and curving uncomfortably or reach easier, and help giving an aging vagina more elasticity and keeping shape, or help before gyn visits. .

I am all for women's rights. Women's right to use a dildo. Of any description.

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1986 wrote:

I guess the next step is to claim disloyalty if you accidentally get a boner from seeing an underwear ad.

The boner was disloyal to the person, sadly. Boners have their own mind, lol. The person is not a boner.

Yeah your above paragraph, and the resulting thoughts, that naturally arose, of women using dildos.. on themselves....well it does have a mind of it's own, you're right.

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