do you find autistic girls attractive?

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22 Apr 2011, 12:22 pm

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Umm.... I was more talking about naked beauty (regardless of fashion/dresses).


Hm. Well even then, what do you mean by "naked"?- if you've spent any time in the Women's Section, you'll know many of us don't wear makeup or shave, I would say disproportionately when compared to NT women.


By naked I mean naked lol. The absence of shaving/makeup won't turn a beautiful woman to ugly.



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27 Apr 2011, 5:59 pm

Im kind of curious about what it'd be like to talk to a guy with AS roughly around my age. I think it'd be interesting. I'm pretty open minded and have a big heart. Plus I love the arts but I also like physics and spirituality.



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27 Apr 2011, 6:37 pm

Of course I find autistic women attractive, as neurotypical women attractive. What a silly question. Oh, and I do prefer women don't wear makeup. I like natural looking women.


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01 May 2011, 12:50 am

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Of course I find autistic women attractive, as neurotypical women attractive. What a silly question. Oh, and I do prefer women don't wear makeup. I like natural looking women.


Good, cause I hate being told my beard is in the way when cuddling. Just MOVE IT, for Christ's sake!


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01 May 2011, 4:06 am

Autistic girls are green and have tentacles, cuddling tentacles would be fun!



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01 May 2011, 6:59 am

No offense to any fellow Aspergian ladies here, but the ones that I've met have been very annoying. My friend Leon dated an Aspie girl who couldn't do anything by herself, she was so dependent on him to accompany her everywhere. Plus, we couldn't go anywhere fun with her because she'd want to leave after an hour.

Before her he met one on OkCupid, so we met up with her and she talked and talked and talked about nothing interesting (to me).

I recently met a girl who seems to have it, and I even had her take that Aspie Quiz thing with the 150 questions, and she scored something like 120. She has a tendency to ask a lot of trivial questions. A friend of mine told me that was probably her way of flirting, but to me it was just irritating.

Another thing I've noticed is their extreme interest in sexuality.

I did meet an Aspie girl online recently who seems to be pretty cool, but online vs. in person are definitely two different experiences.

So, I can't make a blanket statement that I do not find Aspie girls attractive, because I could still come across one who is totally awesome.

The problem with an Aspie dating another Aspie is the lack of emotional reciprocity that may never lead to anything romantic. But what do I know.


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01 May 2011, 11:21 am

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Good, cause I hate being told my beard is in the way when cuddling. Just MOVE IT, for Christ's sake!


And it keeps your face warm in the winter!


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01 May 2011, 12:18 pm

idiocratik wrote:
My friend Leon dated an Aspie girl who couldn't do anything by herself, she was so dependent on him to accompany her everywhere. Plus, we couldn't go anywhere fun with her because she'd want to leave after an hour.

Sounds like they just had different ideas of what a relationships constituted. And depending on where you found "fun", she might have been gritting her teeth trying to endure sensory issues the whole time- that's not strictly a female thing.
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Another thing I've noticed is their extreme interest in sexuality.

That's news to me-the list of female-specific Aspergers traits being developed even says we'll either love it or hate it.
I've met probably more asexual Aspie girls than sexual ones.
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The problem with an Aspie dating another Aspie is the lack of emotional reciprocity that may never lead to anything romantic.

The best relationship of my life was with another Aspie, and it was by no means unemotional- Aspies feel like everyone else, and when they're in a relationship with someone who more than likely expresses those feelings in a similar way, I've found it much easier.


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01 May 2011, 12:26 pm

emuman100 wrote:
Bethie wrote:
Good, cause I hate being told my beard is in the way when cuddling. Just MOVE IT, for Christ's sake!


And it keeps your face warm in the winter!


and you can make loads of money in the circus.



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01 May 2011, 1:54 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Good, cause I hate being told my beard is in the way when cuddling. Just MOVE IT, for Christ's sake!


And it keeps your face warm in the winter!


and you can make loads of money in the circus.


You're always thinking ahead, Boo :)


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01 May 2011, 1:59 pm

Just a general comment, I always seem to read autistic as artistic. :P



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01 May 2011, 2:19 pm

Pfew, I don't think it would work it for me if I was dating an autistic girl. Not because of the looks, but I cannot deal with someone who has the same bad qualities as me.
Don't get it wrong, but I need someone who can add something to me and otherwise. It has to be in balance, otherwise it's doomed to fail.



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01 May 2011, 5:13 pm

Bethie wrote:
idiocratik wrote:
My friend Leon dated an Aspie girl who couldn't do anything by herself, she was so dependent on him to accompany her everywhere. Plus, we couldn't go anywhere fun with her because she'd want to leave after an hour.

Sounds like they just had different ideas of what a relationships constituted. And depending on where you found "fun", she might have been gritting her teeth trying to endure sensory issues the whole time- that's not strictly a female thing.
idiocratik wrote:
Another thing I've noticed is their extreme interest in sexuality.

That's news to me-the list of female-specific Aspergers traits being developed even says we'll either love it or hate it.
I've met probably more asexual Aspie girls than sexual ones.
idiocratik wrote:
The problem with an Aspie dating another Aspie is the lack of emotional reciprocity that may never lead to anything romantic.

The best relationship of my life was with another Aspie, and it was by no means unemotional- Aspies feel like everyone else, and when they're in a relationship with someone who more than likely expresses those feelings in a similar way, I've found it much easier.


Well, I guess I've kinda learned to endure certain environments as long as I've got a friend with me to talk to so I don't feel like a mime in a circus full of clowns. This girl simply had the personality of a saltine.

I also guess that I just end up meeting the ones who "love it" regarding sex. I'm actually pretty asexual. The whole 'friends with benefits' thing has never been something I got into, so I just don't understand how someone can be so sexually on fire.

I've never dated another aspie, so I have no idea how that would turn out. Maybe I'll find out one day.


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07 May 2011, 12:46 pm

I find an autistic girl attractive. Not because of autism, not despite autism. She just happens to be....


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07 May 2011, 1:50 pm

It depends on how two autistic people can get on together and understand each other detailed



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07 May 2011, 2:18 pm

I have yet to meet any autistic girls, so I have no idea. :lol: