Hi! I’m a 27 year old lesbian aspie seeking a kind, sweet-tempered, nerdy woman between the ages of 25-35. I’m interested in finding a healthy long term relationship, but let’s get to know each other well before we dive into a serious commitment
A little bit about me: I’m a professional bench jeweler who lives independently in Arizona and makes a decent living. I’m committed to constant self improvement, and I want to be the best person I can be in life. With my friends I try to be caring and generous, and I’m always willing to drop everything and help when one of my buddies is in trouble. I believe strongly in good ethics, honesty, equality and compassion, and I consider myself a casual buddhist. Recently I’ve added meditation to my routine to further build my compassion for others and for myself. Most of the time I’m laid back and casual, and I have a broad sense of humor that can get pretty filthy, so I hope you like dirty jokes! I’m a hyperempathetic creative type, so my biggest strengths are in art, writing, and possibly also music, though I haven’t developed my musical ability as much. My main obsession is working on my original illustrated sci-fi trilogy, and so far I’ve written the book one, if you like to read sci-fi horror.
When it comes to romantic partners, I’m most attracted to people who are gentle, empathetic, and intellectually curious. I like to go on dates, both adventurous outings and casual hangouts at home. I’m always willing to try new things to broaden my horizons. I don’t mind if my partner doesn’t share my exact interests as long as she is intelligent and we can have stimulating intellectual conversations. As far as sexuality goes, I don’t consider myself asexual, so if I do end up in a committed relationship, I’m interested in having regular sexual intimacy with my partner. Since I’m introverted and need to spend time by myself to pursue my projects and recharge in order to feel happy and fulfilled, I do require a fair bit of uninterrupted alone time, which is something sacred to me, and a need I’m also happy to respect if my partner shares it
Turn ons:
-positivity
-calmness
-empathy/compassion
-honesty
-responsibility
-generosity
-intelligence
-long intellectual conversations
-interest in continuous self improvement
Turn offs:
-meanness
-lack of compassion
-irresponsibility
-poor hygiene/self care
If you have a “mean” sense of humor (i.e., you like to tease your friends with harsh insults, etc.), then I’m not the girl for you. However, if you’re sweet natured, open minded, and enjoy talking about science/history/philosophy, we’ll probably get along great!