Why are you still single ( one reason)

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Misanthropy.

Sounds like my high school. There are no guys to choose from there. Going to a college with 30k students next year will allow for a lot more options.

I'll expand on that analogy, then.
I'm in a convoy of ships, on a rotten raft, passing in one direction surrounded by mists. The rare other ship that passes by chooses to turn off its lights in hostility and avoidance.
There is no lighthouse, yet inaccurate maps indicate that cliffs the size of Dover's, with one port for every thirteen ships, most docks filled, are half a mile away, which makes it more tempting to just sail on until the convoy finally sinks.

I should be a poet.

I think most of us understand what our problems are but are too complex to be solved or even just not bothered to change ourselves as we do not think that we are flawed.

I admit my flaws and I'm trying to improve them, but it's not that easy and I am still trying to impove myself throughout the year.

1) I'm bad at social networking, building a social circle.
2) I'm back home and very very few of the guys interest me here due to a lack of intelligence.
3) I made a conscious decision not to date for a yr due to personal/emotional reasons; but that yr is ending and I'm becoming in better emotional state to date again.
4) Nothing has worked out with any guy that liked me or any guy I've liked within the past two yrs.
5) My friends an emotional douche bag. Theres a "huge" story behind that that I dont want to get into on here.

One reason? Well, let me be succinct again:

I am (probably) autistic!

Sincerely,
Matthew

The reason I'm still single is that I'm quite socially awkward when I'm around women and making them quite uncomfortable at times by my actions.

That's what most guys complain about clubs. That they never meet women there because there's too many guys.

I'm only going to tell you this once!

Just once! So PAY ATTENTION TO ME!

There's nothing so wrong with you that what's right with you couldn't overcome it!

*hugs*

I'm not very interested anymore, because the older I get, the harder it is to meet people, and the more it seems like everyone's playing the dreaded GAME. By game, I mean the dating game. This dating game that I cannot comprehend or handle without turning into a brimming ball of anxiety. Not like, you just lost the game. But you did.

...maybe this is why I'm single.

I just came back from going out for a drink. As usual, everyone looked at me when I walked in, then they all look away. I speak to one lady, within second her and her friend say excuse me the go to the ladies room, then come back out and sit some place else. I talk to the guy next to me, he looks scared or something, so does the guy next to him. They both leave for a cigarette, then come back and also sit some where else. Oh well...

What cmoonbeam1 said. Also, it doesn't help to be surrounded by brainwashed idiots who are afraid of anyone who doesn't confirm to a stereotype.

I don't leave the house. I'm worried that maybe beautiful people won't like me any more, and nobody else did to begin with.

Im poor and will probably always be that way.

Thats very nice of you to say but sadly it isnt the case for quite a few of us.

On topic: Just one reason? I recently described myself as a dumbass with over-attachment issues.
While that was mainly a joke it covers my main issue, I tend to fall for people too soon and they notice. Usual reactions involve avoiding me or taking advantage of my naivety and then avoiding me.

That being said Im trying to work on whats causing this and I like to believe I´ve been making some progress.

Well for me I really don't have fear issues, also people aren't fear of me either. So yea why I'm single? Well I think our current society in Australia is slightly f****d up. Lot of stupid young age drinking, shagging and wild parties. Nothing is taking seriously, thats what life is like at uni. So Yes hence......