How to talk to Asian girls?

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I think you had a sense of humor bypass. It was a joke.

Also in the region of California that has the highest Asian Population Demographic in the state, if not the United States! In the Cities of Cupertino, San Francisco, and Milipitas the Asian population is the majority! In Mountainview, Sunnyvale Santa Clara, and San Jose the Asians make up about 30-40% of the population. In SF its 50% Cupertino 70& Milipitas about 65%! So yeah very Asian hehe!

SAKE is alcohol. They are not pronounced the same at all.

Kay vs Kee.

I think Kee sounds better.

Sake is the generic term for alcohol/liquor in Japan.
In English speaking countries it refers to a rice wine from Japan, which they might identify as nihonshu back home.

Saki doesn't really come into it or at least is not the preferred spelling for either of those things. You really need to work on your reactions to adverse or differing opinions, appletheclown.

Try some soju it will knock you out cold before you know it! I made my mistake of drinking 3 bottles I passed out without realizing or remembering I passed out till I woke up still drunk 6 hours later to stagger upstairs to fall back to sleep lol!

Oh, thank you very much for informing me. I was being a little bit of a jack*** to the more sensitive people on this forum, and I formerly apologize for any hurt feelings. And just saying I'm not racist, I hate racism, so let us drop the subject at that. If it means anything, my room is decorated with all sorts of Asian art. When I was saying what I said, I may have been talking in my own gibberish language. and I don't even know what we were arguing about anyways. Please I am sorry and only wish to impress other peoples, not offend them. You are all awesome, and someday I wish to travel the world, and become a translator. Again, this forum is a place I believe is full of friends and I don't want that to go away.

With different cultures there are, however, predictable patterns. Anyway, ABC's and other native-born Asian girls are a bad choice in many cases. The recent immigrants can be pretty nice, quiet, and sweet--also, interestingly, often socially awkward even within their home cultures where being shy and innocent can be prized. Seems to be inherently aspie-compatible as long as you're decent-looking, employed, and relatively functional.

As a nontraditional/non-NT guy, you want either girls who are extremely shy and passive or raging feminists who will take control of the relationship. Anything in-between will not work. Dating Asian girls is a good way to get the former.

Well, don't want a raging feminist, but how about a Russian or Eastern Euro girl? They don't have much of a reputation for passivity.

Also for some reason, I don't like the mega super quiet shy Asian girls a ton, or mega super quiet shy girls in general. I like girls a bit more extroverty than me, someone with lots of energy. Basically I like ISTP girls (clones of myself) or, uh, super NTs, so NT they're not even NT anymore. I want a rare extroverted Asian girl who would be my life partner going rock climbing or kayaking with me or something. And that can show me how to make Thai curries and canh chua ga from scratch, or cook them for me.

What you want is an affectionatly aggressive Asian woman, not all Asian women are shy and passive like the stereotypes perceive them to be some can be quite on the prowl!

I am a Chinese female. Although I am not the "affectionately aggressive" type AspieOtaku suggested, my suggestion would be to try talking to people in clubs or societies you are in. I would be freaked out if a random guy on the street tried to pick me up.

Im too shy to make moves so I just let them come to me and talk to me first usually I go to clubs and have a drink then go home though! Sometimes randome asian women get all super talkative to me but I dont always know if they are flirting with me or just want to talk I usually assume the latter then go on my way even though I do find them attracktive! I know I am weird like that!

Oh OK... So maybe tell them you like their dress/blouse/glasses/hair accessory/hair/whatever or just say they look good in general?

I might try that but im so damn shy ill need a few more drinks to make me less shy then ill do it! I usually freeze up at that point!But if I had the courage and they are Chinese mandarin speakers I would tell them! 你真漂亮

In Mandarin I think it sounds too direct. I would go with 你的发型/衣服真好看 (your hair/clothes look good). If they are not interested in you romantically, it's still an acceptable compliment from anyone (male or female). If not I guess they would be happy to talk more.