16 Mar 2013, 8:10 am
luvsterriers wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
Nah he will be not interested. I think he prefers Latina woman. Plus who wants me? I don't have sex with every guy I meet. I want to share that with my husband on our wedding night. That's just how I am. 
Well, just don't tell him that last part up front.
I don't want to lie. This is for any man.
Well, these girls offer another solution that might be worth considering.
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I recognize the chick on the left from The Big Bang Theory. So, Raj should know what he is in for.
In terms of "What do men want?", I think that most of us would be more than happy with the compromise.
16 Mar 2013, 8:13 am
Lilya wrote:
1000Knives wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
1000Knives wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
I'd managed to successfully avoid this Pitbull phenomenon up until today 
The one advantage of living in the UK?
Lol
I think there are many advantages
Like an exceedingly remote chance of being gunned down in your classroom for a start!
There's really not a high chance of that in USA, but OK. We actually have less a chance than places like Finland, statistically.
You have to be kidding me
Finland is one of the safest countries in the world in any standard and I've never even seen a gun in my life not to mention having heard of a person being shot.
There were two school shootings in the past years: the first one was the first ever in Finnish history and later there was somebody who tried to copycat that. Both of these people idolized the American school shooters.
America is by far the leader of any statistics when it comes to school shootings and killings by guns in general. I don't believe this topic belongs on this forum at all, by the way, but I was very insulted by that comment.
yeah, that isn't true at all.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_co ... death_rate
http://globalpublicsquare.blogs.cnn.com ... shootings/
16 Mar 2013, 8:13 am
meems wrote:
I have literally never heard any of Pitbull's music, which is kind of weird. I love hip hop but don't often dip into the stuff that is spoon fed to people who... I don't know, I guess they like that music.
I do know he has a pretty interesting back story, like most hip hop artists, and in that way I do find artists like him inspiring.
I also know that no matter what an artist says in interviews, they're pretty much putting on a show anytime the cameras are rolling. It's effectively a made up persona that you see in music videos. Despite what information is available about him, unless someone is actually involved in his personal life, they probably don't have the faintest idea what kind of person he really is. Having children with three women doesn't mean a thing in terms of whether or not he's a good or bad person. Open relationships aren't evil, etc. And music produced for the masses probably rarely accurately portrays relationship trends in society. It's a performance. It's not a research paper.
I guess what I'm saying is, it doesn't even matter what he's like. It's not realistic to look to entertainers for an idea of what men want or what kind of relationships you can form etc. To fixate on fiction is only going to make things more confusing.
I do know he has a pretty interesting back story, like most hip hop artists, and in that way I do find artists like him inspiring.
I also know that no matter what an artist says in interviews, they're pretty much putting on a show anytime the cameras are rolling. It's effectively a made up persona that you see in music videos. Despite what information is available about him, unless someone is actually involved in his personal life, they probably don't have the faintest idea what kind of person he really is. Having children with three women doesn't mean a thing in terms of whether or not he's a good or bad person. Open relationships aren't evil, etc. And music produced for the masses probably rarely accurately portrays relationship trends in society. It's a performance. It's not a research paper.
I guess what I'm saying is, it doesn't even matter what he's like. It's not realistic to look to entertainers for an idea of what men want or what kind of relationships you can form etc. To fixate on fiction is only going to make things more confusing.
Raised by a single mom. He got kicked out of the house at 16 for selling drugs. He lived in foster homes. He was going to go to college, but decided to pursue a career in rap music. I did listen to some of his songs from his first album like Culo, Toma and Dammit Man and it's just not for me. The old Pitbull is ok, but the new Pitbull is even better. The suit and sunglasses 
There is another rapper named Lecrae who also was raised by a single mom and did drugs and drank. He did spend time in jail too. The difference between Lecrae and Pitbull is that Lecrae is a Christian rapper.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fl3cPGrL1HE[/youtube]
16 Mar 2013, 8:25 am
ArrantPariah wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
Nah he will be not interested. I think he prefers Latina woman. Plus who wants me? I don't have sex with every guy I meet. I want to share that with my husband on our wedding night. That's just how I am.
Well, just don't tell him that last part up front.
I don't want to lie. This is for any man.
Well, these girls offer another solution that might be worth considering.
[youtube]mod edit: link removed for unfiltered swearing[/youtube]
I recognize the chick on the left from The Big Bang Theory. So, Raj should know what he is in for.
In terms of "What do men want?", I think that most of us would be more than happy with the compromise.
Haha I love those girls
16 Mar 2013, 11:57 am
ArrantPariah wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
Nah he will be not interested. I think he prefers Latina woman. Plus who wants me? I don't have sex with every guy I meet. I want to share that with my husband on our wedding night. That's just how I am.
Well, just don't tell him that last part up front.
I don't want to lie. This is for any man.
Well, these girls offer another solution that might be worth considering.
[youtube]mod edit: link removed for unfiltered swearing[/youtube]
I recognize the chick on the left from The Big Bang Theory. So, Raj should know what he is in for.
In terms of "What do men want?", I think that most of us would be more than happy with the compromise.
For those of you who are at all curious, possess a sense of humour, and are not easily offended: look up songs by Garfunkel and Oates (a.k.a. Riki Lindhome and Kate Micucci).
And, if you haven't figured out what the compromise entails (yes, the pun was intended)
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16 Mar 2013, 2:21 pm
luvsterriers wrote:
And what happens when we are already that kind of man.. and it does us precisely no good because all the girls our age are too busy out trying to f**k anything that will bend them over or buy them drinks?
16 Mar 2013, 2:29 pm
rabbittss wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
And what happens when we are already that kind of man.. and it does us precisely no good because all the girls our age are too busy out trying to f**k anything that will bend them over or buy them drinks?
How could you possibly know that all girls your age are doing that... and I question your assessment of their motivation. Just because you're not the type of guy that these girls are looking for, doesn't mean they are such base creatures etc.
The solution may be as simple as not attempting to get with women who don't want to be with you, not making them out to be mindless sex-machines that run on alcohol and degradation.
Maybe that attitude about women who don't want you is repelling women in general, dude.
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16 Mar 2013, 2:36 pm
meems wrote:
rabbittss wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
And what happens when we are already that kind of man.. and it does us precisely no good because all the girls our age are too busy out trying to f**k anything that will bend them over or buy them drinks?
How could you possibly know that all girls your age are doing that... and I question your assessment of their motivation. Just because you're not the type of guy that these girls are looking for, doesn't mean they are such base creatures etc.
The solution may be as simple as not attempting to get with women who don't want to be with you, not making them out to be mindless sex-machines that run on alcohol and degradation.
Maybe that attitude about women who don't want you is repelling women in general, dude.
I'm ONLY speaking about girls my age in my one little area. Not the whole state, not the whole country, not the whole world. Since I know for a fact that there are LOADS of girls my age who are nothing like the ones in my town.
Nope, pretty much I'm right on this count. You have no idea what kind of a s**thole town I live in. These women do want me though, that's just it, I was even engaged to one of them for a while. Until I decided that it was time to stop enabling her vices. Then she left me for her drug dealer. Even the ugly overweight girls are out chuffing down meth smoke as fast as their toothless herpes having boyfriends will buy it for them.
I mean, nevermind the fact that I know this from personal experience. Nevermind that I've seen it up front. Nevermind that the ONLY girls who don't seem to be doing this in my town, are single moms who finally grew out of it.
Nope, it's clearly all just my attitude that's causing the problem.
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16 Mar 2013, 2:36 pm
luvsterriers wrote:
meems wrote:
I have literally never heard any of Pitbull's music, which is kind of weird. I love hip hop but don't often dip into the stuff that is spoon fed to people who... I don't know, I guess they like that music.
I do know he has a pretty interesting back story, like most hip hop artists, and in that way I do find artists like him inspiring.
I also know that no matter what an artist says in interviews, they're pretty much putting on a show anytime the cameras are rolling. It's effectively a made up persona that you see in music videos. Despite what information is available about him, unless someone is actually involved in his personal life, they probably don't have the faintest idea what kind of person he really is. Having children with three women doesn't mean a thing in terms of whether or not he's a good or bad person. Open relationships aren't evil, etc. And music produced for the masses probably rarely accurately portrays relationship trends in society. It's a performance. It's not a research paper.
I guess what I'm saying is, it doesn't even matter what he's like. It's not realistic to look to entertainers for an idea of what men want or what kind of relationships you can form etc. To fixate on fiction is only going to make things more confusing.
I do know he has a pretty interesting back story, like most hip hop artists, and in that way I do find artists like him inspiring.
I also know that no matter what an artist says in interviews, they're pretty much putting on a show anytime the cameras are rolling. It's effectively a made up persona that you see in music videos. Despite what information is available about him, unless someone is actually involved in his personal life, they probably don't have the faintest idea what kind of person he really is. Having children with three women doesn't mean a thing in terms of whether or not he's a good or bad person. Open relationships aren't evil, etc. And music produced for the masses probably rarely accurately portrays relationship trends in society. It's a performance. It's not a research paper.
I guess what I'm saying is, it doesn't even matter what he's like. It's not realistic to look to entertainers for an idea of what men want or what kind of relationships you can form etc. To fixate on fiction is only going to make things more confusing.
Raised by a single mom. He got kicked out of the house at 16 for selling drugs. He lived in foster homes. He was going to go to college, but decided to pursue a career in rap music. I did listen to some of his songs from his first album like Culo, Toma and Dammit Man and it's just not for me. The old Pitbull is ok, but the new Pitbull is even better. The suit and sunglasses There is another rapper named Lecrae who also was raised by a single mom and did drugs and drank. He did spend time in jail too. The difference between Lecrae and Pitbull is that Lecrae is a Christian rapper.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fl3cPGrL1HE[/youtube]
50 Cent is up there in my top favorite back stories. It's amazing what he overcame to pursue his dreams. His music though, he says some of the most awful stuff, stuff that I consider to be par for the course in rape culture. But I still think his back story and his philanthropy is admirable.
I do think hip hop gets an unfair amount of criticism for misogyny, glamorization of drugs and alcohol and destructive behavior et cetera. I've heard it more in rock/alternative music.... but people are always saying hip hop artists are literally represented in their songs, and that baffles me. Well, no it doesn't, sometimes it's quite obvious why a person talks about hip hop being dangerous or destructive or just terrible for lyrical content etc.
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16 Mar 2013, 2:42 pm
rabbittss wrote:
meems wrote:
rabbittss wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
And what happens when we are already that kind of man.. and it does us precisely no good because all the girls our age are too busy out trying to f**k anything that will bend them over or buy them drinks?
How could you possibly know that all girls your age are doing that... and I question your assessment of their motivation. Just because you're not the type of guy that these girls are looking for, doesn't mean they are such base creatures etc.
The solution may be as simple as not attempting to get with women who don't want to be with you, not making them out to be mindless sex-machines that run on alcohol and degradation.
Maybe that attitude about women who don't want you is repelling women in general, dude.
Nope, pretty much I'm right on this count. You have no idea what kind of a s**thole town I live in. These women do want me though, that's just it, I was even engaged to one of them for a while. Until I decided that it was time to stop enabling her vices. Then she left me for her drug dealer. Even the ugly overweight girls are out chuffing down meth smoke as fast as their toothless herpes having boyfriends will buy it for them.
I mean, nevermind the fact that I know this from personal experience. Nevermind that I've seen it up front. Nevermind that the ONLY girls who don't seem to be doing this in my town, are single moms who finally grew out of it.
Nope, it's clearly all just my attitude that's causing the problem.
The plural of anecdote is not 'data'. Unless the population in your town is just a few hundred people, I really doubt you know what every or even the majority of women in your age range are doing, and I'd only buy that if you were intensely stalking them to observe them in their personal lives.
But I'm not the one who dislikes your situation, it's not a problem in my life, and I'm content with whatever direction you want to take the conversation, but I don't think I'm going to put much more effort into arguing about it.
P.S. the way you're talking about women demonstrates to me that you are the kind of guy parents want to stay away from their daughters.
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16 Mar 2013, 2:45 pm
To your edit - whatever, that's fine, you can blame women of a certain age range, I hope your choice works out for you.
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16 Mar 2013, 2:50 pm
meems wrote:
rabbittss wrote:
meems wrote:
rabbittss wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
And what happens when we are already that kind of man.. and it does us precisely no good because all the girls our age are too busy out trying to f**k anything that will bend them over or buy them drinks?
How could you possibly know that all girls your age are doing that... and I question your assessment of their motivation. Just because you're not the type of guy that these girls are looking for, doesn't mean they are such base creatures etc.
The solution may be as simple as not attempting to get with women who don't want to be with you, not making them out to be mindless sex-machines that run on alcohol and degradation.
Maybe that attitude about women who don't want you is repelling women in general, dude.
Nope, pretty much I'm right on this count. You have no idea what kind of a s**thole town I live in. These women do want me though, that's just it, I was even engaged to one of them for a while. Until I decided that it was time to stop enabling her vices. Then she left me for her drug dealer. Even the ugly overweight girls are out chuffing down meth smoke as fast as their toothless herpes having boyfriends will buy it for them.
I mean, nevermind the fact that I know this from personal experience. Nevermind that I've seen it up front. Nevermind that the ONLY girls who don't seem to be doing this in my town, are single moms who finally grew out of it.
Nope, it's clearly all just my attitude that's causing the problem.
The plural of anecdote is not 'data'. Unless the population in your town is just a few hundred people, I really doubt you know what every or even the majority of women in your age range are doing, and I'd only buy that if you were intensely stalking them to observe them in their personal lives.
But I'm not the one who dislikes your situation, it's not a problem in my life, and I'm content with whatever direction you want to take the conversation, but I don't think I'm going to put much more effort into arguing about it.
P.S. the way you're talking about women demonstrates to me that you are the kind of guy parents want to stay away from their daughters.
My town only has a few hundred people.
basically every female in town who is between my age and my sisters age I either know because I went to school with them, have worked with them, or my sister did one of the two. I can't speak for girls much younger than that though, or much older than I am because I don't know them. But my "Cohort" to use the technical term, only has a handful of people in it due to me being in such a small town. we have a handful of fastfood places and a walmart. If you go into town at all you see people you know constantly. And I live in an area that is extremely depressed. Depressed areas with no opportunities are havens for drugs and vice, because, well, why not.
Also, I don't talk about women like this in real life.
Honestly I don't know why I'm even talking to you, you're every bit as much of a brick wall as hyperlexian. You never listen to reason, and you never will accept that women can do anything wrong. It's ALWAYS the mans fault. Go watch some more lifetime channel or something.
16 Mar 2013, 3:14 pm
rabbittss wrote:
meems wrote:
rabbittss wrote:
meems wrote:
rabbittss wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
And what happens when we are already that kind of man.. and it does us precisely no good because all the girls our age are too busy out trying to f**k anything that will bend them over or buy them drinks?
How could you possibly know that all girls your age are doing that... and I question your assessment of their motivation. Just because you're not the type of guy that these girls are looking for, doesn't mean they are such base creatures etc.
The solution may be as simple as not attempting to get with women who don't want to be with you, not making them out to be mindless sex-machines that run on alcohol and degradation.
Maybe that attitude about women who don't want you is repelling women in general, dude.
Nope, pretty much I'm right on this count. You have no idea what kind of a s**thole town I live in. These women do want me though, that's just it, I was even engaged to one of them for a while. Until I decided that it was time to stop enabling her vices. Then she left me for her drug dealer. Even the ugly overweight girls are out chuffing down meth smoke as fast as their toothless herpes having boyfriends will buy it for them.
I mean, nevermind the fact that I know this from personal experience. Nevermind that I've seen it up front. Nevermind that the ONLY girls who don't seem to be doing this in my town, are single moms who finally grew out of it.
Nope, it's clearly all just my attitude that's causing the problem.
The plural of anecdote is not 'data'. Unless the population in your town is just a few hundred people, I really doubt you know what every or even the majority of women in your age range are doing, and I'd only buy that if you were intensely stalking them to observe them in their personal lives.
But I'm not the one who dislikes your situation, it's not a problem in my life, and I'm content with whatever direction you want to take the conversation, but I don't think I'm going to put much more effort into arguing about it.
P.S. the way you're talking about women demonstrates to me that you are the kind of guy parents want to stay away from their daughters.
My town only has a few hundred people.
basically every female in town who is between my age and my sisters age I either know because I went to school with them, have worked with them, or my sister did one of the two. I can't speak for girls much younger than that though, or much older than I am because I don't know them. But my "Cohort" to use the technical term, only has a handful of people in it due to me being in such a small town. we have a handful of fastfood places and a walmart. If you go into town at all you see people you know constantly. And I live in an area that is extremely depressed. Depressed areas with no opportunities are havens for drugs and vice, because, well, why not.
Also, I don't talk about women like this in real life.
Honestly I don't know why I'm even talking to you, you're every bit as much of a brick wall as hyperlexian. You never listen to reason, and you never will accept that women can do anything wrong. It's ALWAYS the mans fault. Go watch some more lifetime channel or something.
Well, at least you're aware what you're saying isn't acceptable to other people - "Also, I don't talk about women like this in real life."
It's unfortunate you don't have the same consideration for members of the forum, but I assume you're being intentionally provocative now that you've clarified that you wouldn't say these things to people's faces.
I have no idea why you're attempting to drag hyperlexian into this conversation, but maybe you're just trying to be provocative with that as well.
Thanks for making your intentions clear.
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