How can I tell my girlfriend she is fat?

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I have an ethical delimma which I don’t know what to do maybe u can give me some straight advice I really want someone to just tell me what to do.

I have a friend she has a long term partner let’s call him a husband for simplicity they have a kid he’s just lost his job he is in and out of work like a jack in a box through no fault of his own just 3 terrible workplaces in a year (they really seemed to be).

She refuses to work as she believes her role is to look after the child the child is 4.5 years old they r in a very good area with a good school but have literally no money they will owe rent in a few days I told them to go to Centrelink and get an emergency loan and also to this other charity I know that gives emergency loans I offered to help the woman look for work but she just doesn’t see it as her role (this drives me nuts but she seems unshakable in this belief).

They r literally broke no money for toys from Santa etc etc but making no effort to get themselves out of the situation probably due to some extreme depression? Anyway I told my other friend about the situation (completely different group they never have met and probably never will) she told me they would make the criteria for housing in the inner west of Sydney (not a good area of inner west the bad high crime area). Now do I tell my friend with the problems? Knowing that once u go into housing u rarely get out... and life is pretty tough in some of the housing unit complexs in Sydney... and the schools there the teachers spend all their energy controlling the class. Or do I let it ride knowing that they actually might become homeless in 6 weeks hit rock bottom and change their attitudes towards work? And hopefully stay away from housing and potentially save themselves from watching their offspring suffer generational poverty.... argh I seriously need direct advice any help would be appreciated.

The Quotes are getting fat.

But should we tell the quotes they are getting fat?

Of course, we are not going to have sex with quotes anyway.

Quotes....you are FAT!!

No if they go down the housing route I’d have to cut all ties immediately I couldn’t bare watching someone choosing living in poverty over working I would be constantly trying to make them work more (they’d hate me) plus I’d be constantly giving them “helpful advice” which makes me cringe thinking about it but I wouldn’t be able to resist cause I want them to be functional away from wealfare and they r older than me so it would be all sorts of wrong to advise them.... argh why can’t they just try!! ! And they’ll be a millionaire reading this saying the same thing about me lol anyway thanks for telling me straight I will let them know about housing fill the forms for them and wash my hands of them. Social situation solved

See Sly, not every woman wants a rich man.

Well off =/=rich or wealthy.
Middle class men are well of but they aren’t rich or wealthy. Hoerge cloney is rich, bill gates is rich, etc.

Women want a middle class guywhos well off. A guy who can afford a 2018 car, paying mortgage on a house, a guy who can pay for dinner at a restaurant few nights a week, take them on nice trips to Hawaii or Italy few times a year.
Not a poor guy who makes min wage while also being in disability from the gov who can’t even afford car bare min car insurance non the less a 1500 junk car. Vacations to outside the state would never happen with me and with my $40 a month extra I certainly couldn’t afford anything more then one night out eating a month and that’d be all my disposable income which is needed for toothpaste and deodorant on some months.

I somewhat agree with u in that women definitely think they want a middle class man but I tell u they don’t! It’s one of those things u have to have xyz to know u don’t want it. The realities of the middle class man is that he is most probably just an unsuccessful rich man making him angry, highly taxed and stressed with zero time. Reality is even if u take these trips with the middle class man he will be working or worrying about work or if someone is filling he’s job he’ll be worried they’ll do it better. What women want is to be the third wife of a interesting somewhat successful older man who has this competive crap out of his system but still just young enough to climb the volcano in Hawaii and make one last lovely baby but can afford a au pair from day one to carry it around and take it away when it is a screameeee. Someone who has made their mistakes already.

I think lots of women think they want jewellery and cars but personally if someone reads to me or the most romantic thing ever hang Christmas lights in a tree to surprise me (that hasn’t happened it’s a daydream) that stuff would blow my mind. Most women can buy themselves things and do!

I somewhat agree with u in that women definitely think they want a middle class man but I tell u they don’t! It’s one of those things u have to have xyz to know u don’t want it. The realities of the middle class man is that he is most probably just an unsuccessful rich man making him angry, highly taxed and stressed with zero time. Reality is even if u take these trips with the middle class man he will be working or worrying about work or if someone is filling he’s job he’ll be worried they’ll do it better. What women want is to be the third wife of a interesting somewhat successful older man who has this competive crap out of his system but still just young enough to climb the volcano in Hawaii and make one last lovely baby but can afford a au pair from day one to carry it around and take it away when it is a screameeee. Someone who has made their mistakes already.

I think lots of women think they want jewellery and cars but personally if someone reads to me or the most romantic thing ever hang Christmas lights in a tree to surprise me (that hasn’t happened it’s a daydream) that stuff would blow my mind. Most women can buy themselves things and do!

Women want to be a 3rd wife?
Also what your saying is they want to marry a trump like guy who’s upper middle class or rich? And be a trophy wife to a guy with multiple ex’s and kids about the same age as them? Certainly most women don’t want that? I hope anyways.

I don’t think most women need s middle class man, they’d be fine with a poor man, they want a middle class or above man. Wish more people would just be complacent and accept a good life rather then chasing a dream fairy tale life. It’d be a whole lot less stressful on them.

Media makes women want jewelry. I see lots of jewelry commercials here and stores in the malls. One recent is women dropping hints about jewelry and then one lady gets pissed when she opened her gift to find no jewelry, but then it was hidden in the gift. So then she motions for him to come have sex. It’s double message. It’s women want jewelry, and men if if give them jewelry you’ll get sex. So the whole jewelry and money for sex exchange. I’d rather get my gf(if I had one) something she could use and out of love rather then jewelry so she’ll have sex with me, something she should do for free out of mutual love. I’d make a a necklace with a silver coin that has s design she likes. That coin will go up in value. The necklace from a jewelry store is way way over priced and will probably devalue.
Or get her a blender or coffee maker and cute clothes. Also why do the men in the commercials just get one gift? Is it cause it cost so freaking much? I’d probably get a gf 5-10 gifts for Christmas.

@Venus-Warrior: You're an a outlier though. You're more down to earth than most people.

Women want to be a 3rd wife?
Also what your saying is they want to marry a trump like guy who’s upper middle class or rich? And be a trophy wife to a guy with multiple ex’s and kids about the same age as them? Certainly most women don’t want that? I hope anyways.

I don’t think most women need s middle class man, they’d be fine with a poor man, they want a middle class or above man. Wish more people would just be complacent and accept a good life rather then chasing a dream fairy tale life. It’d be a whole lot less stressful on them.

Media makes women want jewelry. I see lots of jewelry commercials here and stores in the malls. One recent is women dropping hints about jewelry and then one lady gets pissed when she opened her gift to find no jewelry, but then it was hidden in the gift. So then she motions for him to come have sex. It’s double message. It’s women want jewelry, and men if if give them jewelry you’ll get sex. So the whole jewelry and money for sex exchange. I’d rather get my gf(if I had one) something she could use and out of love rather then jewelry so she’ll have sex with me, something she should do for free out of mutual love. I’d make a a necklace with a silver coin that has s design she likes. That coin will go up in value. The necklace from a jewelry store is way way over priced and will probably devalue.
Or get her a blender or coffee maker and cute clothes. Also why do the men in the commercials just get one gift? Is it cause it cost so freaking much? I’d probably get a gf 5-10 gifts for Christmas.

Happy to be a 3rd wife if the man is interesting enough, adult children don’t bother me but men obsessed with money do. I think jewellery is such a waste... u have a lucky future gf! 5-10 gifts! Interesting other than razor and cologne commercials I can’t think of any aimed at buying men presents... but heaps for women!