Why do girls want cocky, arrogant guys?

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24 Jun 2018, 2:40 pm

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and started sending me astrological charts "proving" we were meant to be together

Well...that's a new one for the list of red flags...

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24 Jun 2018, 3:02 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

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'Nice Guys vs Bad Guys' discussion Count: 1.038565643873586e+22

My own lyrics:

“No more Nice guy threads, No more nice guy top pi pi pics!

I am sick, to count them all.

One more, and I hack this site, one more, and I make it hel hell helll!”

[going crazy on electric guitar]

Come on! rock with me!

Do you actually play electric guitar?

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24 Jun 2018, 3:21 pm

Peacesells wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Peacesells wrote:

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Do you actually play electric guitar?

Nah,I wish .....otherwise i would be swimming in vaginas.

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24 Jun 2018, 3:25 pm

Wolfram87 wrote:

XFilesGeek wrote:

and started sending me astrological charts "proving" we were meant to be together

Well...that's a new one for the list of red flags...

Honestly, I think he might have been on the autism spectrum himself. He was obsessed with video game music, and he even purchased a replica of a Final Fantasy sword that he would run around our apartment complex with (we lived in the same apartment complex).

I wasn't bothered by any of this (I like weird), which is why I think he latched onto me despite my crew-cut, large tattoos, boots, and flannel shirts. It's not that unusual that nerdy guys try to get with me. I'm not put-off by social awkwardness; however, I'm asexual.

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24 Jun 2018, 4:41 pm

The ladies will throw themselves on me once Jupiter and Uranus are aligned.

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24 Jun 2018, 5:02 pm

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When I went through Airmen Leadership School, I made friends with a dude who was into video games and a gym rat, much like myself.

I invited him to come hang out with me because I thought he was cool. Unknown to me, he was interested in more than friendship.

Wouldn't it be a lot easier for guys if they didn't try to befriend girls before dating them? I find it works better to just go directly to dating.

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Whenever we were hanging out, he would insist that I decide where we should go, what we should eat, what games to play, ect. It was exhausting.

He was just being lazy. He didn't want to put the effort in to choose activities. I'll admit it's exhausting when have to choose activities but I do it anyway. Otherwise it's just passing the buck.

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24 Jun 2018, 5:05 pm

Wolfram87 wrote:

XFilesGeek wrote:

and started sending me astrological charts "proving" we were meant to be together

Well...that's a new one for the list of red flags...

If I rejected every woman who quoted astrology charts at me I'd be dateless.

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24 Jun 2018, 5:06 pm

A guy once tried to hook me up on a train with that astrology stuff.

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24 Jun 2018, 5:16 pm

^ What happened to your sunflower?

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24 Jun 2018, 5:17 pm

Was asking myself the same thing, now it's a crowly looking character.

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24 Jun 2018, 5:40 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:

XFilesGeek wrote:

Wouldn't it be a lot easier for guys if they didn't try to befriend girls before dating them? I find it works better to just go directly to dating.

XFilesGeek wrote:

Whenever we were hanging out, he would insist that I decide where we should go, what we should eat, what games to play, ect. It was exhausting.

He was just being lazy. He didn't want to put the effort in to choose activities. I'll admit it's exhausting when have to choose activities but I do it anyway. Otherwise it's just passing the buck.

I have no idea about dating.

As for preferences, men, let your voices be heard. Boring "wet blankets" will never attract the ladies attention. Despite what modern feminists tell you, you're allowed to have an opinion.

Don't let women get away with lazy sh_t, but don't be completely absent. Women want equal rights, they need to accept equal responsibility.

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24 Jun 2018, 5:44 pm

^Wet blanket? Isn't it white blanket sweetheart or am I being stupid here? Never heard wet blanket before :lol: . If you have a wet blanket, you had an accident :wink:

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24 Jun 2018, 5:45 pm

Peacesells wrote:

A guy once tried to hook me up on a train with that astrology stuff.

iconic chat up lines, i'm sure :lol:

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24 Jun 2018, 5:46 pm

DeepHour wrote:

^ What happened to your sunflower?

Peace is a dying currency??

I think some here refer to certain guys as cocky and arrogant, but there's a reason they are getting the dates and to many of you, that is the end game is it not?

I think it might be worth analysing the positive traits of these men, rather than focusing on their negatives..because that's exactly what the women dating them are doing.

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24 Jun 2018, 5:59 pm

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I think it might be worth analysing the positive traits of these men, rather than focusing on their negatives..because that's exactly what the women dating them are doing.

Confidence, making the first move and good social skills. Most also just look good so it comes easy.

Keep them away from me though because I have had many problems with them, I hate superficial cocky pretty boy a-holes and they often pick a fight with me because I am often the biggest guy and that doesn't end well for them. Am a gentleman but don't bother me or make me angry and don't bother or bully anyone else as well because you will learn to know me very well.

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24 Jun 2018, 6:42 pm

DeepHour wrote:

^ What happened to your sunflower?

The odd thing is that I kept it for so long, I've never been one of these guys who never change pic. Also it was weird to be mean at people with a flower avatar.

Gallia wrote:

iconic chat up lines, i'm sure :lol:

I don't remember well because it was 7-8 years ago but maybe something like "You seem a sweet and shy person" and stuff like that.

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