Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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Alright I'll give it a shot. The regular info about me is already on the left side so I'll skip to the other details. I'm a nerd with very possible Asperger's. In fact, I have a video action storybook of my life called Graves Tale on my social media pages and the whole storybook is on YouTube. My profile has all the details on that if anyone is interested in viewing it. (Men and Woman) I go my Graves Knight as my online name due to also having Graves Disease and having interest in the Medieval World.

I'm going to be very direct on my preferences for a spouse so here we go. I'm straight and prefer a wife with a (possible but not required) chance of up to two children in the future. Her age has to be AT LEAST drinking age so 21 or over is good for me. Yes, my goal is a long term relationship leading to marriage. So a fantastic and engaging personality is strongly required over looks and body type. An great example of this would be not having one sided conversations, have variety or an extreme interests in something, and have good moral values. In terms of politics, I'd prefer a woman that's an independent with little towards conservative. (I'm old fashioned and traditional for this preference.) Woman that are nerds obviously are welcomed to chat. Any questions or if you want to chat, either message me here, or on my Instagram. (Details on my profile.) Thanks for reading and have a nice day!

Hi there, I'm 44, male, undiagnosed asperger's or Level 1 ASD and I'm mostly just looking for company. Granted anyone living in my area gets priority treatment and consideration, I'm in the market to move to a new place after nailing down a better paying job.. doing so anyway and moving closer to Concord NH if nothing better presents itself to me come next June 2025. I've got options and freedom.

About me, I'm chipping away at writing a novel that would become a series if successful. Otherwise I'll pass the time and recharge by playing video games within which I'm a member of a very independently successful worldwide group calling themselves Sensible People, serving as a support group sometimes. Games I enjoy are difficult to master: League of Legends, EvE Online, Apex Legends, Elder Scrolls, Titanfall 2, Age of Mythology, Anno 1800, Path of Exile.. it would be a pleasure to introduce you to any or all of them to enjoy together at times. I'm also open to your favorite games but can only afford to buy one every couple few months or so.

I would love to put together the dating group or app idea I've seen mentioned in the earlier posts with a gaming/support group dynamic where people jump on and get invited to join whatever others are playing at the time. I know there's therapy services that already do that sort of thing but I'd try to make something work out on the cheap and offer up as free to try at the very least.

Questions? Comments? Please engage and even be critical.. we only learn from our mistakes as we realize we've made mistakes.

Cheers,

Miguel, 44

Hello!

I'm always hoping there's a soulmate out there somewhere, and I've come to believe that I could probably really only truly connect with another neurodivergent person.

I'm 50 years old, female, interested in human beings (I don't really care about gender, although I've mostly been with men.)
I am unfortunately trapped in the insanity that is America --for now.

I'm a long-haired peace-and-love hippie with a gloriously hyperverbal mind. My mind palace is massive, but I'm physically tiny, so I like to say that I'm bigger on the inside.
I am moved by issues of human rights and justice. The only thing that really ever makes me angry is injustice. My mind thinks in metaphors with existential building blocks. I reject all social structures that make no sense morally or logically. I'm not religious, although I do dabble in Buddhist and Taoist philosophy and meditation.

I'm on the spectrum/neurodivergent as informally diagnosed by clinicians, and personally suspect that I'm an Aspie.

Some of my fascinations are British culture, music history (popular music, especially the British Invasion), universal healthcare, writing poetry, all science, and linguistics. I have not traveled the world yet but that is my biggest dream.

I do contract work copywriting and proofreading.

I have a chronic illness that I'm currently nutrition-bombing. I eat mostly fresh, unprocessed foods and only eat wheat/grains on special occasions.

Cheers!

This has certainly been a successful thread, enduring since 2004. I am not sure Wrong Planet existed much prior to 2004.

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Male, 55, U.S.A. I have an extensive posting history & will omit interests and personality type, but physically I am tall and thin, if I watch my diet, that is. My views and opinions are expressed all over this forum, so there is nothing much hidden. I am single and live alone with my two cats. One is wild and likes to go outside every day. The other is a homebody and prefers to be with me all the time. My morning routine is to read and write online at sites including this one, drink coffee, feed the cats, possibly exercise if I am feeling particularly industrious, then shower and put on my work clothes and go to work. I am thinking about the possibility of retirement, but not quite eager to pull that trigger, with all the uncertainties in the world today. Perhaps next year is my general feeling. If my employer alters in their attitude toward me, then of course I would leave, but until then, I think work provides not only financial, but social stimulus. Routine is good for us, and so is controlled, moderate and polite social interaction on a daily basis.

At any rate, in regards to a future spouse, I am not desperate, and OK with living alone. It seemed difficult at first, but once you get used to it, it is normal. Having been divorced before, I don't think I am interested in another marriage and am not particularly eager to live with anyone, in the abstract. However it would be good to establish a relationship, and I am a passably good listener and companion in life, low-maintenance, no-drama and fun to be with. I am looking for a woman. I am a one-partner type of person, one is about all that I can manage at one time.