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03 Apr 2012, 7:11 am

Spongy - I have had the EXACT same problem in recent years. Nothing ever lasts more than a few months and I keep getting confused, and then getting my heart broken.

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03 Apr 2012, 1:07 pm

It's just crazy hard to meet people. There are no women in my work enviroment or social circle. You can't be in a relationship if you can't meet anyone to have that relationship with.

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03 Apr 2012, 1:20 pm

Bloom wrote:

I'm only going to tell you this once!

Just once! So PAY ATTENTION TO ME!

There's nothing so wrong with you that what's right with you couldn't overcome it!

*hugs*

I already give you attention, how much more do you want? XD

It depends on the mental and physical will power to do so...but I was speaking on behalf of a few of us, not myself.

spongy wrote:

Thats very nice of you to say but sadly it isnt the case for quite a few of us.

On topic: Just one reason? I recently described myself as a dumbass with over-attachment issues.
While that was mainly a joke it covers my main issue, I tend to fall for people too soon and they notice. Usual reactions involve avoiding me or taking advantage of my naivety and then avoiding me.

That being said Im trying to work on whats causing this and I like to believe I´ve been making some progress.

I know that feeling dude, although I am not very attached usually...I just want some of their time. :lol:

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03 Apr 2012, 3:18 pm

Ok.

I'll shove off now, then.

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03 Apr 2012, 3:28 pm

Bloom wrote:

Ok.

I'll shove off now, then.

Oh, I didn't mean it in that way.

I just mean I'll talk to you via PMs if you're okay with that.

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03 Apr 2012, 3:36 pm

Because the last time I met a single woman close to my age, and outside of my workplace, was 3-4 years ago lol, seems everyone I meet nowadays is already taken. Plus I live in a really small rural town too so the pickings are pretty slim...wait I think that's two reasons, darn!

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03 Apr 2012, 4:23 pm

I not bothered for 5 years, after someone used me just to get a lift to the person they were dating & 2 security guards came up & told me she got in someone else’s car, they seemed to of known her.

What happened with just have a relationship & growing. Seems to be all about silly mind games now.

That is why I is single, because I stopped bothering. Diffence between a romantic relationship & one that needs mind games.

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03 Apr 2012, 4:55 pm

One reason why I'm still single is because it's hard for me to communicate to girls who I really am. If only this girl I like knew the real me. *sigh*

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03 Apr 2012, 10:30 pm

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03 Apr 2012, 10:46 pm

One reason? Because I am very shy and quiet. I also act like an idiot sometimes, and don't know what to say.

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05 Apr 2012, 4:19 pm

Uprising wrote:

This is not a personal attack, it applies to everyone saying stuff like that.

Many people here wrote shallow stuff too yet you did not criticize what they wrote but you and Boo only choose to attack me.

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05 Apr 2012, 4:28 pm

TechnoDog wrote:

Sorry to hear that dude, but not all woman are like that...you just need to find one who isn't plotting.

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05 Apr 2012, 4:34 pm

Because I'm an idiot and I f*cking pull on women's hair.

I have no social skills and people probably hate me.

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05 Apr 2012, 8:40 pm

I change too much to stick with one person...

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06 Apr 2012, 7:49 pm

I am single due to not really trying and also I have not had much time since I study online for a master's degree and work full time. When I finish the master's degree I may be ready to think about dating.

:heart:

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07 Apr 2012, 1:51 pm

Because I have no interest in relationships. Which depending who I talk to, makes me sensible and odd.

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