23 Jan 2009, 7:51 pm
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starvingartist, do you have a picture from a different angle that shows your face better? I find it hard to imagine your whole face from that angle.
I was thinking the same thing.
23 Jan 2009, 8:19 pm
starvingartist wrote:
Shiggily wrote:
starvingartist wrote:
i will say that maybe this should indicate to some of you why threads like this are really not such a good idea. people have feelings, and they can be very easily hurt by stuff like this....it's like high school all over again.
if you are easily hurt by rejection then why would you post in the thread?
don't you think i'm already asking myself that question, and kicking myself for it too? thanks for making me feel stupid on top of ugly
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I didn't insinuate that you are stupid.
23 Jan 2009, 8:24 pm
23 Jan 2009, 8:29 pm
starvingartist wrote:
:lol:
this is the first time i have come back to this thread since i posted in it days? weeks? ago, and the first time i have read it all the way through.....and i think i am the only girl with her picture up who ABSOLUTELY NO ONE commented on.....i'm going to go sit in the corner and nurse my shattered ego now
this is the first time i have come back to this thread since i posted in it days? weeks? ago, and the first time i have read it all the way through.....and i think i am the only girl with her picture up who ABSOLUTELY NO ONE commented on.....i'm going to go sit in the corner and nurse my shattered ego now
Really? Because more than once I thought "darn, shes cute in her Avatar picture". But its a problem with those on the spectrum to be evocative and expressive. Like saying hello in the morning, It just never occurs to me.
As an aside, I once told a beautiful woman that she was "interesting to look at". Her response was that made her feel like a bug in a jar!
No wonder people think we are creepy!
23 Jan 2009, 9:54 pm
23 Jan 2009, 10:17 pm
starvingartist wrote:
Shiggily wrote:
starvingartist wrote:
Shiggily wrote:
starvingartist wrote:
i will say that maybe this should indicate to some of you why threads like this are really not such a good idea. people have feelings, and they can be very easily hurt by stuff like this....it's like high school all over again.
if you are easily hurt by rejection then why would you post in the thread?
your insensitivity is mind-boggling, did you know that?
sometimes I feel that your ability to turn everything into an insult is mind-boggling
pardon me for my mistake. thank you shiggily, for your very helpful imput into this conversation
i never would have thought that perhaps i shouldn't have posted here because of my sensitivity to rejection if you hadn't pointed it out to me. so thank you again. incredibly useful information after the fact. brilliant.
I don't like roller coasters. Luckily I have figured out that I shouldn't ride roller coaster before I get on one.
You didn't think that perhaps you shouldn't have posted here because of your sensitivity to rejection. How am I supposed to read your mind and tell you "no, don't post that... you might get rejected". That is your job. And stating the obvious is only useful if the obvious hasn't been considered.
You know what they say... hindsight is 20/20 (and often useless) and foresight is the one that is priceless. You want something more than the obvious, start using foresight. Otherwise you will only be able to learn from hindsight.
Here is some useful foresight.
Don't complain about other people being insensitive if you are the one guilt tripping people for not complimenting you. Don't take it so personal. Sometimes people just don't know what to say. It doesn't mean they think you are ugly. It just means they are not saying anything. Other people's opinions of you should not be the defining factor of the level of your self-esteem. Self-esteem is how you feel about yourself, not how other people feel about you.
I didn't see your images because my computer loads images slowly on days when I run 8-10 windows at once. I haven't even seen half the images in this thread, because no one should care what I think about their physical attractiveness and I don't feel like waiting around for half a dozen images to load so I can tell people how pretty they are.
Go to the guy thread and count the number of pictures of guys that no one comments on. And don't take things so seriously. These threads are not serious.
23 Jan 2009, 10:17 pm
If I wasn't on the spectrum, i'd take a shot and say, I think I detect a little bit of sarcasm 
23 Jan 2009, 10:24 pm
benjimanbreeg wrote:
If I wasn't on the spectrum, i'd take a shot and say, I think I detect a little bit of sarcasm
Be careful! You'll knock yourself off the spectrum, and then what will you do?
23 Jan 2009, 10:25 pm
Fuzzy wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
If I wasn't on the spectrum, i'd take a shot and say, I think I detect a little bit of sarcasm
Be careful! You'll knock yourself off the spectrum, and then what will you do?
I'd be like so sad
23 Jan 2009, 10:27 pm
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23 Jan 2009, 10:47 pm
23 Jan 2009, 10:47 pm
wow this thread took a turn for the worst.
*backs away slowly*
23 Jan 2009, 11:03 pm
benjimanbreeg wrote:
I'd be like so sad
If I wasn't on the spectrum, i'd take a shot and say, I think I detect a little bit of sarcasm
24 Jan 2009, 12:27 am
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