sluice wrote:
Would you continue dating someone who put on a bunch of weight after you got involved with them?
Both in theory and practice YES!! ! I have continued two relationships in the past with partners who put on weight, I will do so again in the future! IMHO its quite petty ending a relationship on the sole reason of a partner's weight change.
At the end of the day, its another person's body & they have the right to choice how to take care of it. To me the judgement of a person's weight for attractiveness is a superficial aspect of defining beauty. Beauty to me both outer beauty (physical) and inner (personality), I hold inner beauty of more value to me personally for attraction that some minor aspects of physical appearance like weight.
sluice wrote:
What about some other change like lost employment, committing a non-violent crime, crippled in
an accident?
I have been an relationship with one partner, where all three of them happened to her. I ended the relationship tho not solely for those reasons. If am in one of those situations again with another partner then, the choice of the future of the relationship can not be based on that factor alone, I'll have to look at other aspects before making my mind up.
sluice wrote:
Should you feel obligated to still stick with someone if that person dramatically changes from the person you first met?
Again I prefer to make that decision when it happens as there are other factors to think about before making a decision like that, I take it case by case in each relationship. I think what needs to be pointed out is that relationships are dynamic in the way there change, there times they can grow stronger and others weaker.
If there were static then it is be easier to make preplanned decisions, tho the truth is there not its like riding a roller coaster.
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