My gf seems to be bothered that I am 'white and privileged'.

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08 Mar 2022, 10:03 pm

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I am beginning to think the OPs obsessions over these "differences" of opinion are important to him in this relationship whereas I have seen no evidence they are important to her.

The girl unconditionally likes the OP, It seems to be the OP who is being picky.

If what you're saying is true, then I have a little test the OP can run on his girlfriend. It's equivalent to how a woman tests a man: overtly triggering him, watching his reaction, then acting according to her evolutionary instincts as a counter-reaction.

Have the OP ask her what she thinks of George Soros.

That's it; just George Soros. If she thinks anything remotely positive of him, then a prompt, ruthless breakup is in order. Otherwise, there's a slim chance of saving the relationship.

Personally the only opinions I've ever encountered on him were either realistic and negative, delusional and negative or realistic and negative while also critical of the guano that gets peddled by the previous.

Does anyone have a not negative view of Soros except maybe other members of the parasitic caste?

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08 Mar 2022, 10:10 pm

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Does anyone have a not negative view of Soros except maybe other members of the parasitic caste?

Many people, especially the criminals he sponsored. Antifa. Looters. Arsonists. Gavin Newsom. Andrew Cuomo. Bill DeBlasio. Cacala [Kamala] Harris. Ted Wheeler. People forging "Trump" ballots to "Biden".

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08 Mar 2022, 10:12 pm

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Does anyone have a not negative view of Soros except maybe other members of the parasitic caste?

Many people, especially those he sponsored. Antifa. Looters. Arsonists. Gavin Newsom. Andrew Cuomo. Bill DeBlasio. Cacala [Kamala] Harris. Ted Wheeler.

Have you ever spoken to any antifascists? I can say with experience I haven't met a single one with a positive opinion of George Soros.

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08 Mar 2022, 11:37 pm

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That makes sense but if a small portion of them are racist, why is she making the trucker protest about racist entitlement, when it's really about ending a mandate?

Because it has nothing to do with actual racism or ending a mandate. You can do one or two things—either go back and read everything I said on CRT, or skip ahead to the tl;dr version right here.

If you take the R out of CRT, what you have is plain old fashioned Critical Theory, which is basically a way of understanding the world through the lens of deconstructing power structures. The question is asked “Why did socialism/communism fail?” The answer is that by eliminating one power structure, a new one was created. The hegemony is essentially the same people the proletariat revolted against. When you add the R back to CT, then it becomes specifically about white people retaining power structures. Instead of socialism—equality, common ownership of the means of production—you get communism and fascism that perpetuate corrupt power structures. CRT makes this more specific by explaining hegemony as being white with the resulting power structures as inherently, systemically corrupt and racist.

To break this down into it’s most basic, simplistic form:

1. All white people are racist and constitute the dominant culture (hegemony) everywhere they live.
2. Truckers protesting mandates are predominantly white
3. Therefore, truckers’ mandate protests are the result of systemic racism with the intention to oppress American and Canadian minorities,

Very insightful points. It's good to have someone politically versed for something like this. I wish I could see a discussion between Angel and ironponys gf.

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08 Mar 2022, 11:47 pm

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That's true, good points. Well what I find hard to understand is, my gf has an IQ of 146 but how does someone with an IQ that high, buy into conspiracy theories involving racism, without much evidence, etc?

So she hot in her 20s and has an IQ of 146! does she also have a trust fund worth billions?

I think she may have. :scratch:

What would her having a lot of money have to do with anything?

She's perfect ironpony. So I was waiting (in a joking manner) for you to tell us she's got an inheritance as well.

Oh lol thanks, I see. Well it has been pointed out to be that I am lucky to have a gf in her early 20s as this seems to be something a lot of guys my age would desire sometimes, but why do guys think they are lucky to have a woman in her early 20s if it means she is of a generation that is often bothered by a lot of social justice idealogy compared to women of older generations?

What's the trade off men desire? Just a few less rinkles?

wrinkles < Ideology
priviledged < White

Sorry, I just had to do it.

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09 Mar 2022, 12:16 am

Aspie1 wrote:

It's equivalent to how a woman tests a man: overtly triggering him, watching his reaction, then acting according to her evolutionary instincts as a counter-reaction.

Hmmm never thought about it from that perspective. Yes she could be testing him? quite plausible. But she has been sleeping with the OP for sometime and is keen on him so it would seem odd to test him now unless she is in a phase where she wants to see if this relationship can stand the test of time.

However I find there are still plenty of gaps in this story the OP hasn't filled in yet about his g/f. I fear all of us are mostly speculating.

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09 Mar 2022, 2:31 am

Oh sorry for not filling in the gaps. Me and my girlfriend work different hours so I haven't been able to see you that much as a relationship where the couple would work similar hours. So I feel the relationship has progress at a slower rate perhaps. So maybe I'm not getting to know her as fast as a result.

Sorry for not feeling the gaps. I can try to answer any more questions now if I have left anything out.

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09 Mar 2022, 5:03 am

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No pressure ironpony, whatever you feel comfortable sharing.

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09 Mar 2022, 6:23 am

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Different kind of tests. You're thinking of "getting to know you" tests. I was talking about tests where a woman provokes a man she's with to see how well he stands up for himself. Her level of attraction will change based on whether he passes or fails the tests, per the evolutionary biology. Things like "white privilege", Biden Flu, looting, and other leftist crap are just easy pretexts for the tests. And they're easy because of how divisive they are.

I made my opinion about this relationship clear: All I see in store for the OP is misery.

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09 Mar 2022, 7:53 am

I stopped following this thread but I can tell you she is bringing up uncomfortable subjects as she has come to realize she might be in this for the long haul and is trying to reassure herself she isn't making a mistake. It's not about race, politics, etc. In my day, this would have been the time for @ironpony to propose marriage however I don't think many people her age get married nowadays.

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09 Mar 2022, 9:14 am

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Oh well I've been standing up for myself so far I think and told her I can't just change what I feel in my perception, so I guess that's passing the tests then?

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09 Mar 2022, 9:40 am

Who cares if you "passed" the test?

You, as a person, should not be subjected to "tests" by another person outside of an academic setting.

It's possible she's "testing" you----but there are many possibilities.

It's possible, too, that she might play the "victim" game in order to gain advantages.

Has she ever been subjected to actual discrimination because of her perceived race? Ask her that...and listen to her tell her story.

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09 Mar 2022, 10:58 am

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Oh well I've been standing up for myself so far I think and told her I can't just change what I feel in my perception, so I guess that's passing the tests then?

It could go either way. Were you apologetic about it? Or did you "own" it, like: "This is who I am! If you don't like it, get out of my life and stay out!" Former = fail; latter = pass.

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09 Mar 2022, 2:11 pm

I don't recall apologizing or saying get out if don't like it, I was more in between and just said well that my perspective on it and I need more than just theories or hunches to buy into what she believes.

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09 Mar 2022, 2:20 pm

Personally I'd trust your guts on these things more than the advice of someone who's pretty openly admitted that most of his female companionship is paid and who just regurgitates pick-up artist style talking points. Especially if you've noticed the overall cynical view they've expressed about pretty much all people's motives in all interactions and relationships over the years.

He has a lot to say and it fits together cohesively, unfortunately it's all the product of some pretty terrible formative circumstances and trauma. Since you seem to have fairly healthy traits overall when it comes to relationships and how you seem to view them, participate in them, etc I think you'd be doing yourself a disservice to adopt someone else's maladaptive thinking and coping mechanisms.

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09 Mar 2022, 2:29 pm

Oh who's advice was that specifically, you are referring to, not that I am trying to single anyone out.

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