Oh girls have it so much worse....

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ok I wasn't sure, sorry.

just some women here and elsewhere will use the women get abused as why women have it worse, like men don't get abused.

hugs.

you're the one judging by saying men only want sex and care about sex, how do you possible think saying thats not true is judgmental?

That's an interesting topic. I think there's some truth in what you're saying. Recently the number of women attending colleges started to increase and that obviously contributes to their position in the job market. Decreasing wage gap for younger women in cities supports this.

yep more women then men go to college. most the people in my classes until I went into auto classes were women.
probably 2/3 of them were women.

I don't care about that though good for them. I would encourage any gf I had if I had one to go to college and get a degree and better herself. wouldn't' bother me if she chose not to though.

anyways the only problem is like I said, the math don't' add up. there's limited jobs in that wage range and up. the higher the wage the less jobs there is.

but as more and more women get higher paying jobs and more and more men get lower paying jobs if jobs at all. the whole men must make more is going to cause serious problems for women.Its a hold over from times when women didn't work and were housewife's. the same time where all the sexism against women came from. women have worked hard to get rid of that sexism against women, but left and support the sexism against men ie by judging men by their income and male stereotypes. we wont' have true equality til both sides of the coin are gotten rid of.

These aren't stereotypes, they are preferences from the evolutionary past. Men have been pressured to work on this and today are actually fighting their preferences, but women never have been pressured to do the same, which will cause them a lot of problems in the relationship area. So, it is not something people can "get rid of", rather something both sides needs to fight against with pressure from culture. Since the human mating system is an intricate balance, you cannot just change a little here and there and hope for it to still function well. You especially cannot change things in one gender and not the other, as that is sure to tip the balance in a way that will make the whole system malfunctioning.

from a subjective point of view..

there is a girl who works at the local supermarket who is about 25 or so and who looks like kylie minogue but she has purple frizzy hair and she seems to always be trying to snare my attention when i am there.

i simply go to the supermarket to obtain goods that i desire to acquire, and that is quality of my tunnel vision when i go to the supermarket, but she seems always to position herself in my view field and seems to be the one who serves me when i get to the counter.

it is a small supermarket and she is often the only cashier and she is also often stacking the racks when i am browsing. there are never more than one or 2 other customers in the shop when i go there.

she has sometimes foisted herself on me and i have been taken by surprise. when i ask her for advice about a product, she goes into "hyperdrive" and is very efficient and informative almost to the point of exaggeration.

recently,i approached the checkout counter with 2 products of which i intended to buy one. i asked her if she knew what the difference between "silvo" and "brasso" (the 2 alternative metal polishes i brought to the counter) were in relation to brushed aluminium hubcaps, and she suddenly sat up on the counter and swung her legs toward me and sidled over to my side of the counter on her buttocks and positioned herself in a posture as if she was posing for a photoshoot and she then read the instructions and tried to engage me in a discussion as to what i should buy, and whilst i was happy with her attention to service, i was nevertheless taken aback with her physical proximity to me and her posture so i just bought the one she suggested and left immediately.

the next time i saw her after that, it was as if she never saw me before and she did not act amorous in any way, and i was relieved and went about my business and left.

then when i saw her the next time, i asked her why they were not selling white onions, and i offered the possible explanation that they may not be in season, and she siezed upon that and went off into a tirade about onions and how hard they are to source and whatever and she was breathing on me and i again felt uncomfortable.

i have not seen her since then (yesterday (because i have not been to the shop)) but i wonder if she is feeling some kind of worry or something because she seems to be trying to get to know me and i have been not interested and maybe it affects her in some way.

i do not want to be rude to her because i like her, but she gets overpowering in her eagerness to involve herself with me when i ask her about things and she seems annoyed when i enter and leave the shop without interacting with her, so i suspect my actions may not be as sterile as i consider them to be.

i do not know how this ties in with the OP's topic

Well...it's of an illustration of how pretty girls might experience difficulty with finding the guy they really want.

I, myself, wouldn't mind a 25-year-old girl with purple hair offering me her attentions.

I think I'd feel like crap in a situation like that, especially when I was about her age. I'd read that body language as, "See? I'm such a sex goddess I can get you to buy anything, and completely subjugate your will if I want to. Ha, ha, you sorry puny thing! Try ever so hard, you can't deny your frustrated desire I so easily provoke with a simple gesture like casually sitting here this way. You're a hypocrite and a coward, it shows, and you'll never raise any genuine interest in a woman, let alone one as desirable as me."

No it's just that if a woman is abusing a man out in public, then no one gives a f**k. Besides he must have deserved it right?







But if a man is beating up a woman, HOLY s**t! HE'S HITTING HER! And the crowd starts freaking out!






Women make the best crooks too. Who the hell is going to believe my granny or my mom would steal? They're more likely to get away with it. And if anyone hits them, some white knight will come to their rescue. Women make the best criminals.

just view the video link I posted and it will say it all

yeah what he said sounded nice, though I don't know if I would see that as interested in me if I was him. but reading it seems like she is right? o.O

her climbing over the counter like that sounds scary.

also if she is intersted why not just ask him out or sayit.o.O

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What he's saying is 100% true.

Guys who think that the fear of getting mugged is equal to the fear of getting raped are part of the same #YesAllWomen v. #NotAllMen problem.

There's no such thing as date-mugged.

Date-rape is pervasive.

And to those who call it paranoia:

Thanks for invalidating the experiences of survivors and the feelings of the rest of #YesAllWomen.



Saying that "x" is worse than "y" does not cause "y" to be "not a problem," even if you could prove that "x" is worse than "y."

It's all entirely subjective.

What Oman5 said:

Makes a lot more sense to me than all the ForeverAlone whining going on by several other male posters, and a lot more sense than trolling. All those males thinking "must have sex," what are they thinking, that what your average woman wants is exactly the same as what they want, and since they can get it without effort, they have life free and easy? Clue: there's more to life than getting sex. The sooner you learn to tell the little head that it isn't in charge, the sooner you'll free yourself to pursue things that actually matter a lot more than getting laid. Getting laid is not the be-all and end-all of human existence. If it were, human women would do like female spiders and mantises do: bite your one-track-mind heads off as soon as we get pregnant so we don't have to worry about chauvanistic control-freakiness. It is not fun to have men act like they own you for life if you've had sex with them once, either. Nor is it fun to deal with the attitude some men have that if a woman is not a virgin, she's a slut.

Girls have it much worse because they face more social stigma than we men do, they also have mood swings, etc, getting pressured by other women and men.

So you don't want us to tell you what you should want, but have no qualms about telling us what matters in our lives?



It is to me and you won't change my mind by shaming me.



Because, clearly, any man you might have sex with will necessarily behave that way, right? Talk about sexist generalizations