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16 Nov 2018, 4:02 am

From a young age I copped it from my abusive psychotic father who used manipulation, control, violence, hostility, belittle me that I am not good enough and it did not matter I would never be good enough. My father taught me nothing but negativity and gave me constant abuse. My mother was over protective of me but she was weak for not leaving my bad father. Bad fathers create damaged children.



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16 Nov 2018, 6:16 am

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
Aspie19828 wrote:
https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/90n4s6/if_youve_made_an_attractiveness_scale_this/
1 to 10 scale attractiveness for males and females.
For the guys it is all about that strong jaw. Facial symmetry + Strongest jawline wins.

Hence why growing a beard is a great alternative for men with weaker jaws.

but those of us with Asian genes can't do that either. :|



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16 Nov 2018, 8:42 am

Being an incel is being Sheldon Cooper's evil twin brother!



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16 Nov 2018, 8:46 am

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Being an incel is being Sheldon Cooper's evil twin brother!

If you enjoy identifying yourself as evil... :evil:


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16 Nov 2018, 8:55 am

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karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Aspie19828 wrote:
https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/90n4s6/if_youve_made_an_attractiveness_scale_this/
1 to 10 scale attractiveness for males and females.
For the guys it is all about that strong jaw. Facial symmetry + Strongest jawline wins.


Do you realise that the subforum that is posted in (r/IncelTears) is mocking incels and the stupid s**t they post in their forums like the scale in the OP? You posted an incel meme that the rest of reddit is laughing at for being so stupid, and you posted it unironically. That's amazing. :lol:

I mean, read the comments. The scale and the idea it represents is being thoroughly trashed in the comments.


Honestly, I think the lack of adequate social skills is a much bigger problem for many men than looks.


A good antidote for that is to treat women as actual people and not "nurturing bots" who will fix all of your problems....


Wow! More SJWs making bullsh!t assumptions to support their strawman arguments. It's like I'm on the Internet or something.

Please do show where I ever said anything that implied that women are "nurturing bots."

I never could understand the difference between a woman expressing romantic interest vs simply being friendly. Every time in my life I thought someone was interested, she would eventually tell me she only wants to be friends. I'm fine with friends. I just don't know how to identify someone interested in dating.



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16 Nov 2018, 9:04 am

auntblabby wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
Aspie19828 wrote:
https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/90n4s6/if_youve_made_an_attractiveness_scale_this/
1 to 10 scale attractiveness for males and females.
For the guys it is all about that strong jaw. Facial symmetry + Strongest jawline wins.

Hence why growing a beard is a great alternative for men with weaker jaws.

but those of us with Asian genes can't do that either. :|



https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wHB1V-Qby9w



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16 Nov 2018, 9:06 am

There must be love at first sight for it to be a romantic interest like we see in TV shows and Hollywood movies. When you are 0/10 and look like me Elephant Man. I admit flies are rarely attracted to me.



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16 Nov 2018, 9:10 am

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There must be love at first sight for it to be a romantic interest like we see in TV shows and Hollywood movies.

^ Seriously or ironically?


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16 Nov 2018, 9:27 am

Most of my posts Sarcastic! Serious is boring! :)



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16 Nov 2018, 9:28 am

karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
magnetowasright wrote:
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Aspie19828 wrote:
https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/90n4s6/if_youve_made_an_attractiveness_scale_this/
1 to 10 scale attractiveness for males and females.
For the guys it is all about that strong jaw. Facial symmetry + Strongest jawline wins.


Do you realise that the subforum that is posted in (r/IncelTears) is mocking incels and the stupid s**t they post in their forums like the scale in the OP? You posted an incel meme that the rest of reddit is laughing at for being so stupid, and you posted it unironically. That's amazing. :lol:

I mean, read the comments. The scale and the idea it represents is being thoroughly trashed in the comments.


Honestly, I think the lack of adequate social skills is a much bigger problem for many men than looks.


Well then I'm surprised you identify yourself as an incel because if you were to go on their forums and say that you would get a lot of disagreement from most of them. Many of them seem entirely convinced that their one and only insurmountable problem is their "genetic inferiority", which is their current favourite term for ugliness which they think is something objective and measurable. That's actually a key piece of incel ideology, that their (they assume ugly) looks are the sole factor that has cursed them to be unattractive to women and therefore unable to get a relationship with one. Either their eyes are tilted the wrong way or their jaw isn't prominent enough or their wrists aren't thick enough (as stupid as that last one sounds, there is a not insignificant number of incels who seriously think no woman will ever love them because the circumference of their wrists is too small.)

These are the people you are associating with when you call yourself an incel. That's their own view of themselves and why they gather together online under that banner. Really have a think about that before you put that mantle on.


I do not identify specifically with the label incel. My situation is that I will always be alone and unwanted because of a genetic defect I was born with thru no choice or control of my own. That is the reality of my existence, not some label I slap on myself. I have already explained this multiple time in this thread, and more than once specifically in responses to your posts. And frankly, I'm getting tired of repeating myself.

I understand that you are upset about the violence that occurred in your community. But you are making a mistake by confusing every person who expresses an emotional response to perpetual romantic rejection with Alek Minassian.

And while the incel forums may be blowing matters out of proportion, our culture is bursting with messages emphasizing physical attractiveness. Have you ever read a romance novel? Those things are full of language about tall stature, piercing eyes, and yes, square jaws. So it is relevant. Anybody with even a rudimentary understanding of evolution knows that sexual competition and sexual selection are very real.

Personally, I never felt I was ugly or below average in looks until I got fat in my 30s. My "genetic inferiority" is represented by my autism, which often manifests in the forms of anxiety, shyness, and social awkwardness; characteristics scientifically proved to be sexually selected against by women. And as time went by, I developed major depression as well, which makes me even less atrractive than I already was.



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16 Nov 2018, 9:29 am

Some women like sarcastic guys.

But most women don't like it if a guy is sarcastic to her before she gets to know him.



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16 Nov 2018, 9:36 am

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Maybe incels have had bad experiences with women and felt inadequate and being told by women they are inadequate in bed that erode their confidence and adds to the damaged man's emotional issues. Being an incel does not mean that he has to have never had sex with a woman, inability to form a relationship with a woman. Paying sex workers still makes a guy an incel because he can not form a relationship with a woman. More competition in modern world with social media and dating aps have made it even harder for introverted guys to meet women. It is better to pretend the past never happened and try to just live for the moment and look towards the future.


That never was my problem. My problem is that I never make it to the point of getting a woman into bed with me in the first place.



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16 Nov 2018, 9:37 am

auntblabby wrote:
The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
Aspie19828 wrote:
https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/90n4s6/if_youve_made_an_attractiveness_scale_this/
1 to 10 scale attractiveness for males and females.
For the guys it is all about that strong jaw. Facial symmetry + Strongest jawline wins.

Hence why growing a beard is a great alternative for men with weaker jaws.

but those of us with Asian genes can't do that either. :|


I'm 36 and I still can't grow a beard.



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16 Nov 2018, 9:42 am

I can't grow a decent beard, either. I'm 57.

I've seen plenty of guys with "weak chins" and whatnot with nice girls.



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16 Nov 2018, 9:47 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I can't grow a decent beard, either. I'm 57.

I've seen plenty of guys with "weak chins" and whatnot with nice girls.


Guys with weak chins and how much money?



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16 Nov 2018, 9:49 am

Incels only want super models. An Incel is a sub human degenerate 0 to 3/10 and they all want a playboy billionaire lifestyle, collection of sports cars, super yacht, private jet with supermodels, unlimited drugs, unlimited alcohol and unlimited fun.