The importance of looks

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Well when it comes to looks and attraction, as far as physical/sexual attraction goes, I often find myself more attracted to how a woman carries herself and how she is in bed, compared to physical.

But are a lot of women like this with men as well? Would most women want a guy who is a 10/10 but wasn't very good in bed, compared to a guy who is a 5/10 or maybe lower, but is a master in bed?

How do you know how women are in bed unless you're sleeping with them before developing an attraction?




I'll go for the 5.
I'm pretty picky about bedmates.

How they may be in bed?


When I said I like good bedmates, I meant they have to be people who would understand ME.
It's not that they'd have to look promising ahead of time.

Facial features and facial symmetry and how they all align together is going to have a huge impact on how facially attractive you're perceived, and this is largely determined by genetics outside of your control.

Generally speaking, men who have an oval shaped face with a strong jawline and high cheekbones are considered to be more attractive, and you'll notice that most male models tend to have this facial type.

Other attractive facial features include having "hunter eyes" which many attractive men possess. Hunter eyes give men a certain allure and dominance, and many models tend to have hunter eyes as well.




For women, facial neoteny is a very attractive trait and women with more neotenous faces are perceived to be more attractive and youthful. Asian women tend to have more neotenous faces hence why a large number of men tend to find them attractive.

There are certain things everyone can do to make themselves more attractive, and the idea of looksmaxxing is to make yourself as physically attractive as possible.

The most immediate way people can improve their looks is through wearing better clothes and making sure they have a nice hairstyle which suits their face.

The biggest and most effective way people can improve their physical appearance is through consistent diet and exercise. It's no secret that people who are fit are perceived to be more sexually attractive. For men, their goal should be to be under 15% body fat for maximum attractiveness.



Unfortunately, everybody has a ceiling and that's ultimately determined by your genetics. Some people can only looksmax their self to a 5/10, while other people have the potential to become an 8/10. This is mostly determined by your face and your height and how broad your shoulders are if you're a man which is largely outside of your control. If you have a naturally attractive face, then you have more potential compared to someone with a below average face.

I still don't understand how personality shows what they may be like in bed.

I can be with the kindest, most sincere person in public.
If he's gonna be a sub or really insensitive in bed, I'm not interested.
If he's not gonna learn anything about what makes me tick, he can sod off.
If he just wants to demonstrate prowess like a trained monkey, see ya later.
If he doesn't get my imagination going or consider my sensory quirks, bye bye baby.
None of that is really apparent in their regular, public personality.