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17, and a virgin. why do we care though?

You shouldn't care. I blame the microscope that people are put under about their virginity. Then it makes people who do care less likely to lose it, cause they'll feel so anxious when they're in that situation.

22 year old virgin over hear no big deal - being free from std's is a big plus imho

18... still good, considering that (IIRC) 37% still have it at age 15, and only 5% by 25.

24 years old and still a virgin. why? i'm autistic and ugly and the average guy is turned off by that. they rather want blondes with fake breasts, no intellect whatsoever, and who are submissive to them.

Just because you're a virgin doesn't necessarily mean you're STD-free, though it makes that a lot more likely.

You are wrong, and you are just a negative person. I know most guys don't want a girl anything like that, it's quite annoying when people are like that. Most guys want an intelligent, cute, normal girl who is depdendable.

With my b-day coming up, I might as well get it out of the way.

I am a 22 year old virgin still looking for a girl that deserves my respect. After all, what's a relationship without respect?

Do you wanna lose it, or would you rather just wait untill you meet the right guy?

It was only 1½ years ago, at age 42, that I had my first experience - to someone who spoke of it as the beginning of what she and I called an "intimate friendship." I developed an instant emotional attachment to her.

But vicious undercurrents within her psyche, in combination with the way the experience and situation was overwhelming me, quickly induced her to change her mind. Within two weeks she became cross, distant, and cold with me ... which she explained some weeks later was due to a personal crisis she didn't want to share with me while in progress, yet she finally did tell me what it was. So at least I knew it wasn't on me. But by that time, she found another guy, with whom she quickly entered into an LTR, and they are together still.

Which is all to say that as much as one may yearn for that experience over long years, one may end up getting more than they bargained for.

P.S. These events took place before I knew anything about me having AS.

there won't be a 'right guy' out there, he doesn't exist and will never exist. i think men have been brainwashed by the media long enough to know what a 'real woman' is because they don't pay attention to the positive attributes of a woman like personality and intellect among other things. so instead, it's all about the "common role of women", their physique and f@%king them. that's it. men don't want to see us females as human beings trying to overcome obstacles in life, but rather than their maids and sex-slaves. and if we get pregnant, planned or unplanned, they won't give a flying hoot about the woman's child. it's pretty much a fact. my dad's hardly been there for me, so why should i trust a guy? i have to agree with Learning2Survive's opinion on STDs and the like. abstinence, i think, is safe. therefore, i'm a virgin and proud of it!

Last edited by ttqs84 on 24 Feb 2009, 12:08 am, edited 1 time in total.

dependable? for what exactly? you depend on us to clean after you? cook for you? take care of you like you're a baby or something? depend on us women to be domesticated and have sex with you 24/7? because if that's your definition of 'dependable' then you're sorely mistaken!

19 1/2 guy, i'd say that wasn't too bad compared to some of these, but considering i haven't really spoken to anyone new in over 2 years, i think i will be on here till i die.

also, ttqs, i detect a fair amount of misandry there. There ARE men out there who are looking for an equal partner in a relationship.... but they ARE in the minority. Still, just because someone hasn't found the right person doesn't mean they don't exist. I pretty much have to believe that, if i don't, my hopes for finding a girlfriend are pretty much dead.

-Fake breasts are disgusting. Breasts are my favorite part about the female body, and I've never seen a pair of fake breasts that I liked. In fact, I prefer smaller breasts over larger breasts (but I'm not gonna complain either way )
-I cannot respect a woman without lat least a decent measure of intellect, and therefore cannot even be around them for an extended period of time, let alone be in a relationship with them.
-I would much prefer relational equality over submission by either sex. Though, if given a choice between a submissive and dominant girl, I must say I'd choose the submissive one... but perhaps that's purely biological.
-I must say I am a sucker for blondes. Or even better, jet black hair.

19 tomorrow.

Lol, thats bollocks, not all guys are like that. If you're in a relationship, sex is a mutual thing. And its nothing to do with the media, its in our nature to want sex. The media is probably pro-women if anything. As for cleaning and stuff, I don't mind doing that, and cooking, thats a shared responsibility. Women like to get pregnant cause they crave a child or want the money it brings in. You don't have to trust a guy, but maybe let some guy earn your trust.