Why do girls want cocky, arrogant guys?

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I don't CONSTANTLY think about having sex with my friends who are ladies. But I do think about it. Especially when I'm not around them. When I'm around them, I don't tend to think about having sex with them.

Many, many, MANY times, friendship leads to romance. A little more rarely, but not too rarely, romance leads back to friendship.

And because biology:

8,000 YEARS AGO, 17 WOMEN REPRODUCED FOR EVERY ONE MAN
https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-r ... ve-success

I am sure the nice and passive guys back then weren't among the ones who reproduced.

Women are the connoisseurs of life, they want different flavors. They want to try all kinds of men until they hit 'the wall' and want to settle down.
Right now they don't want you but later on after they realize exciting boys are not good family men and father figures they come seeking you out because you will provide stability and financial security.

Thats why many kind men are upset today because they have figured it out and they realize they are being used and that the woman settles for them once the womans options grow thin and she's not as desired as she once was when young.

This kind of attitude and value system of females makes it so that kind guys with their morals and ethics in check don't get to experience the same thrills the women do and later have to settle for 28-32 year old women who have been having constant intercourse and had their fun and time to figure out themselves and their sexuality. While kind men raised and shaped by their mothers and strict surroundings think they have been lead correctly into adult hood but in reality have been damaged and crippled by older women who have told them to act propper and be good little soldiers all their lives.

When i was young i had only older women around me who would tell me how to act but luckily at around 14 i got this epiphany and realized what women truly want. They want a man who is his own and acts from his own instincts, a woman DOES NOT want a boy/man defiled and shaped by other women, women HATE what other women have "touched". Taht's why obeying good little soldier boys think they will get their share, but the share has to be taken, and good little boys "wait" for it in for of politeness, kindness and blind respect towards women who dont deserve it or give a flying rats ass about your catering. Women dont want to be catered to or put on pedestals. They just want to be impressed by your own sense of direction in life, and when they see you got yourself figured out they will cling to you.

Im so glad i figured this out when young because now I have had lots of sex and met different women and know exactly what type of woman or man (I'm BI) is the right match for me.

If a woman gets with a man who is inexperienced but has a thick wallet she has the advantage over him and can starve him of sex and affection, and while being married she can have lovers on the side and even have sex with you very seldom then get pregnant by other men she favors and make you raise them, and you will be to naive and inexperienced and afraid to ask questions so she will have security but get affection from other men and even children that you will raise.

Women simply want to have their cake and eat it too, and they get this through manipulation, deception and lies.
Not all women of course. But if she has more experience and allows herself more then she can play you in the directions she sees fit/benefit her.

I dont want to make you guys paranoid but get out there and demand coloseness and affection and NEVER let any woman shame you for wanting sex. It is unwise to try to settle down at an early age and have a girlfriend, young people should experiment and find out what they want in a partner then at 25-27-28 start settling down and having a family. Don't waste your teens having a girlfriend for 2-4 years just to later find out your were together for stupid reasons. Find what you like and experiment until you find it, then settle down and you will know what your type and match is.

I think I disagree with everything above.

First, I find experience to be pretty useless, and people that are only fooling around for experience are worthless partners because they won't settle down even if they find a perfect match. It's a case of "I'll stay with you until something better comes along", and that is simply worthless for a long-term relationship (and even for a shorter one to).

Second, I wouldn't even think about settling down with somebody that lived the "experience life-style" and now is feeling her biological clock ticking. A girl that once wasn't relationship material won't become relationship material as she ages and becomes desperate. She deserves singlehood after having played that game, so don't settle for her.

Third, sexual experience with many partners isn't worth anything. The only thing that is worth anything in that area is extraordinary experiences with a single long-term partner. By having all that experience, people just get more and more demanding which, on average, will give lower satisfaction with a new partner.

The Red Pill is so boring, basically a script for men to follow who are unable to come to terms with their own issues with communication.

It's also a fantastic money-making scam. "Buy my book and you'll have any woman you want!"

It's basically the same recruitment script for gangs, terrorist organizations, the Alt-Right, etc. Appeal to those guys who have a sense of disempowerment, who struggle with self-esteem, who want respect, prestige and status, and exploit it. It gives them a community and gives them that sense of belonging they crave.

Except that it doesn't resolve their fundamental inability to connect on an intimate level with other human beings.

When you analyze most sales pitches, you'll find that they are not so much based on the intrinsic merits of what is being sold, but on the doubts and fears of the buying public.

Is your life dull and boring? Do you have no friends? Are you lonely?

BUY OUR BEER! USE OUR MAKEUP! DRIVE OUR TRUCK! EAT AT OUR RESTARANT! WEAR OUR CLOTHES! BUY! BUY! BUY!

... or something like that ...