Reasons why you're a bad catch

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15 Oct 2011, 11:44 am

itchy feet.

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15 Oct 2011, 12:04 pm

I'm indecisive, fearful and lacking that crucial confident aura.

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15 Oct 2011, 12:06 pm

Old, inexpressive, Aspergian...

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15 Oct 2011, 12:11 pm

I am an ugly loser with a bad attitude. Why would anyone want to be friends with me or even date me? I seriously have nothing to offer anyone.

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15 Oct 2011, 1:07 pm

Lets see:

* Almost 40.
* Recently discovered a few grey hairs.
* I'm too tall (i guess, most girls are 20cm shorter than me).
* I'm asocial, need lots of alone time and i'm not a party animal.
* Very picky with food. Almost never cooks at home.
* Cannot stop speaking up against religious extremism and political stupidity.
* I Spend too much time with computers.
* Do not want kids - ever.
* Do not want to get married - ever.
* CBA to keep my apartment tidy. I clean "when needed".
* My idea of a fun Saturday is to watch "2.5 Men" on DVD, play San Andreas and post stuff on forums.

Now, there are some girls who could live without kids and marriage and just loooove playing computer games - but most of them are taken and to the rest of the female part of humanity, i'm a bit of a hard sell.

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15 Oct 2011, 2:14 pm

Ichinin wrote:

* Recently discovered a few grey hairs.

I had my first few at about 19. my gray-to-natural ratio is about 30-70 by now. :oops:

thank heavens for ammonia.

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15 Oct 2011, 2:23 pm

anna-banana wrote:

thank heavens for ammonia.

Ammonia? (as a "colouriser"?) Wont get you poisoned or something?

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15 Oct 2011, 2:40 pm

Ichinin wrote:

anna-banana wrote:

thank heavens for ammonia.

Ammonia? (as a "colouriser"?) Wont get you poisoned or something?

I meant hair dye ;-)

should probably add "potentially poisonous" to my bad-catch list.

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15 Oct 2011, 2:45 pm

anna-banana wrote:

Ichinin wrote:

anna-banana wrote:

thank heavens for ammonia.

Ammonia? (as a "colouriser"?) Wont get you poisoned or something?

I meant hair dye ;-)

should probably add "potentially poisonous" to my bad-catch list.

Let's see, you're an alien and potentially poisonous... you wouldn't happen to be the person Kate Perry is referring to in her song "E.T", would you?

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15 Oct 2011, 2:57 pm

swbluto wrote:

anna-banana wrote:

Ichinin wrote:

anna-banana wrote:

thank heavens for ammonia.

Ammonia? (as a "colouriser"?) Wont get you poisoned or something?

I meant hair dye ;-)

should probably add "potentially poisonous" to my bad-catch list.

Let's see, you're an alien and potentially poisonous... you wouldn't happen to be the person Kate Perry is referring to in her song "E.T", would you?

whoa the lyrics sound uncannily like me!

:lol:

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17 Oct 2011, 1:22 pm

Lol

-I can get annoying
-Arrogant (sometimes)
-My empathy sucks -_-
-Meh, might as well mention this. I smoke and I 'used' to do a lot of drugs. I'm trying to stop, but addiction is f*****g intense.

Idk, I just give off an anti-social vibe. I dress well, I'd say I'm attractive, but I never seem to make the effort to meet another halfway. Forever alone lol.

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17 Oct 2011, 8:04 pm

I'm way too emotional. I cry easily, I get upset easily, I get ticked off easily, and I even get amused too easily. I attract drama needlessly because of the way I am. I don't do it on purpose, either, it's just that I am an honest person and a huge "feeler"...and if I cannot let out my internal state, I will become so uncomfortable that I am more likely to let it out.

Also, my obsessions and repetitive thinking. My last boyfriend cut me out of his life because I became obsessed with getting him back, and even though I tried to make myself stop it and just be his friend, nothing seemed to work.

Even still, endless guys continue to hit on me, but I have zero sexual or romantic interest in them. They rave about my intelligence, creativity and sense of humour, and they always say I'm cute/hot/attractive/some variation of that. And when I find out, it is always awkward. My one male friend, who I have known for about five years and has had a girlfriend the entire time, even recently confessed he had a crush on me. Heck, my ex-boyfriend's married friend was even crazy about me.

This still won't make me a good catch, though. I do not want a relationship. Period.

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17 Oct 2011, 11:48 pm

- Age of 27 + still in college may be off-putting
- Hygiene is not great
- Some holes in knowledge of social norms
- Very little ability to take hints
- Diet is very poor, in spite of normal weight
- Very easily annoyed by human voices when I'm trying to sleep or study

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18 Oct 2011, 12:14 pm

Ichinin wrote:

This is/was suppose to be a thread on what makes you a bad catch and you listed all good ones

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18 Oct 2011, 3:53 pm

I'm a workaholic.

although I'm not sure if my workaholism is the cause or the effect of my bad-catchism? :scratch:

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18 Oct 2011, 4:39 pm

I am a bad catch because most believe I am a bad catch. Which in result causes more bad-catchism vibe from me.

How true or false (that I am a bad catch) of this doesn't matter much.

The result is the same.

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