How can I tell my girlfriend she is fat?

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I’m fat and bad social skilsv:(

In America doctors are wealthy

This makes me glad I don't live in Sydney or Vancouver.

Wait, you really want to date an old man? But old men have wrinkles and aren't attractive.

Yes old men don’t play on their phones when they talk to u they go to bed early and can’t tell I can’t cook cause their taste buds r shot, plus when I was sad at the coffee shop a few months ago it was a older guy who bothered to talk to me (55ish) no one my own age probably noticed probably because he wasn’t googling pictures of funny looking cats but most importantly he would not be a workaholic.

Cat23, in other term, you want a Sugar Daddy and you want to be an old Man's Sugar Baby.

All men will think that of you here even if they won't say it to your face - when we talk in PMs about you, men will surely label you as a Sugar Baby.

You pass the duck test for that.

You guys PM each other? Wow, even the men here don't want me.

I very likely will. Sure there are women who are mostly attracted to older men, but there are also women who are most attracted to men their own age. The vast majority of them stay attracted to men their own age as they grow older and are not only attracted to younger men. I'd assume the same will be true for me.


Yes, and if I date an old man who divorced his previous wives when they stopped looking young, I can be almost sure he'll do the same when I start to look old. With a young man there's a chance he's one of those that won't divorce his wife once she no longer is young.

An older man, if I don't age fast enough for him to divorce me, is also likely to get severe chronic illness and die long before me.


Nothing wrong with you wanting to be a third wife. I just don't agree that it is what women in general want. I certainly don't.


Prices of houses are going up where I life too, like probably in most places, but not that insanely. It's also more possible to actually work 40 hours a week and not 60 or even more than it is in the USA (I have no idea about Australia). Both houses as well as jobs with reasonable working hours got more difficult to attain than a generation ago, but it's not as impossible as in some other regions. Therefore it should not be impossible to find a young man who would rather work a reasonable amount of hours than spend his whole time at work and you don't automatically end up in poverty if your job is not your only priority in life.
Of course most university students (which is most people I get to know) seem extremely ambitious, but I'm guessing that those who are not still claim to be and it's not actually all.

It's irrelevant though. I'm not the kind of woman men want. Therefore it's pretty irrelevant what kind of man I want.

Young people always playing on phones or having one to three, maybe more, other conversations going on via wats app while they interact with real life people is something I don't like either.
With a few it's absolutely impossible to have a conversation, because they stop talking in the middle of a sentence or interrupt you in the middle of a sentence because SmartPhone demands their attention.
I don't even have a smartphone.
But not every young person has a phone-addiction. I guess, I'd just be incompatible with the ones who do. Them constantly being distracted by their phone would get on my nerves and me not having watsapp may make it too impractical for them to stay in contact.

Girls don't like workaholics? The reason I became a workaholic is to impress girls with my work ethic and earning potential. I know not all women are like you because my girlfriend is impressed whenever I do overtime.

Contrary to the popular belief, girls do not have a hive mind.
I like if a guy just likes his work. It means he was wise when choosing it.

Well that makes it a lot harder for me to tell what you girls are thinking.

For me. I have adhd and no one to talk to in person. So I’ll keep my phone. Keeps me sane. If I’m talking to or doing something with someone I don’t tend to pay attention to my phone much to angry of my family. I do try to pay attention to it when having conversations with a romantic partner. But then I’m 29. Your my nieces age. I was 6ish when she was born.
Watsapp?
Most of them use Snapchat or Instagram. I’m on instagram to talk to hurtloam. I prefer Facebook messenger or Skype. I’m old school lol.
In my day snap chat and Instagram were for sexting. Lol
It still is from what I hear from my sister a lot of her church youth exchange sex pictures on it

When I was in high or middle schoo I didn’t have a phone. I had a hand down game boy at most. Didn’t get a phone til I was 22. It was a cheap flip phone. My second phone was a krazor. I arrived late to the razor phone trend per usual for poor person.

Boos trolling if you didn’t know. There’s no men’s pm group. Are ther pm groups?

I can't say too much.

So your lonely and sad and feel like your on a conveyor belt of work and other people's expectations, you want someone who has the time and patients to spend time with you and listen to you and offer you comfort. You don't mind if he's fat or older but you feel you would be happier with someone with decent social skills (you don't want someone who isn't going to notice when your upset).

You've been bought up with a strong work ethic (one in which money matters) and assume (I'm guessing) that you'll be happier with someone who's had a similar upbringing. So how do you reconcile hard working with time for you, answer, an older man who has achieved a certain financial comfort.

If that's roughly right, then I get where you are coming from but I think your going at this from the wrong direction.
Get off the conveyor belt, will you feel like a failure if you don't end up in a 5 bed with double garage? to yourself or to others? I have been disappointing everyone for years, but the more you disappoint people the LESS they nag because they have lower expectations of you Or is it yourself you're trying to satisfy, why are you so hard on yourself?

Of course it's probably not even roughly right