Reasons why you're a bad catch

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-I struggle with financial security
-lack of empathy
-honest and blunt to the point of being an as*hole
-(video)gaming compulsion
-a tad arrogant at times

I think I listed my problems before but I will list them again just for the of fun of it.

I can't get a date because...

1. I have body odor problems. I sweat too much and my body odor simply turns women off. Seriously I can't seriously expect to date a model as long as I stink and my personal hygiene is not good.

2. I have trouble making friends. In high school I was bullied alot and was teased at by my peers and so I really have troubles trusting people and opening up to them.

Some guy even humiliated me in public and said it to my face that a girl will have to be crazy to want to date me.

3. I am too emotional and have trouble communicating with people and especially with women. Also the more attractive a woman is to me, the more trouble I have communicating with her. My heart starts to beat fast, I begin to sweat and I start to feel unwell.

4. I have vomiting problems. I have recurrent periods of violent vomiting which will make my humiliation even worse if I have to vomit in front of my date crush. I don't want to look like a wierd loser. I feel very humiliated when I need to vomit in important occasions.

These are the reasons why I will never be able to get a date with a woman.

socially anxious to the point im too afraid to try and meet anyone (cant be caught if no one knows you exist)
when i smile it looks like im in pain
difficulty showing interest in others conversations, unless its about an interest of my own...which is rarely
need for "time out" to be alone, even if for short periods, which women can find offensive.
extreme difficulty at family functions, if i cant summon the courage to attend at all. and i have found that if you are seen in a bad light by your partners family, that can be the end of the relationship right there.
tend to have trouble making eye contact, making me appear dishonest
not what women would consider good looking in my opinion, though not ugly either
very protective of my personal space and arrangement of my belongings
easily lead in a relationship, tending to do whatever my partner likes and ignoring my own needs, and developing resentful feelings because of it.
bad with money, though not in debt, no real assets.
no professional career, always done menial jobs to avoid contact with people.
the list could go on....

1. too busy
2. looks pretty face on, ugly from profile (I don't get my face! what is going on?)
3. sometimes does not like touching
4. surgical scars on stomach
5. ISSUES
6. does not want to talk about "where this relationship is going"
7. does not want to talk about whether we are exclusive or not
8. can we just watch the damn movie? jesus.
9. does not have a lot of the feelings you have, but does have feelings you don't

well for me,

1. i have a agreement problem i can't be reasoned with.
2. i get angry when i am not happy.
3. i am annoyed with everyone around me.
4. i got rejected by a cute girl that could of happened.
5. i suffer to much.
6. my father left me for his girlfriend, his name is Michael Gazda. a big angry as*hole.


I don't know how to get this out of life. right now my life is not right. i want a change not a headache. anyone experiencing my problem?

I'm a fickle headcase.

I don't think I'm a bad catch, maybe to a certain person I would be.

1. Weird?
2. I get too silent sometimes then too noisy
3. I'm not handsome
4. dislikes kids and intimacy
5. doesn't fit in
6. usually annoys others "accidentally"
7. communicating problems
8. I do my best to deal with these problems, but I ended up looking like a gay. LOL
(my friend said to me that her friend thought of me as a gay after I danced in a girl group song. Yeah, I did my best to it and put a lot of energies xD)

When I genuinely like someone, I'm all or nothing. Intense or distant. Plus I act like a kid around them, talk at them...or I go dead silent. My answer to this is to seek tolerant people. Yet I'm attracted to people who are generally intolerant. It's interesting, because sometimes it's the people who claim to me that they can't find anyone that actually end up not wanting me. Maybe they were just trying to get my sympathy.

because I know that nobody likes me !

i could list all the reasons but why bother

my ego is way too big

I'm very short and I've got an ugly face.
I get denied by all, even by the
women who feel uncertain about their own beauty
and indignantly claim that beauty is meaningless.

It's impossible to isolate the variable,
but only my short, male friends are virgins.

I also complain a lot ... in case you hadn't noticed.

I'm way to skilled with a machete.

I am very particular and obsessive about order and minimalism in my living area. I am also extremely frugal and it drives me crazy when there is something that I own but have barely used... I try to get rid of it as quickly as possible and make as much profit out of it as possible. When I live with somebody, I want to impose that way of life on my partner, too.

I am also obsessed with making my life as predictable as possible, to the extent that I absolutely DESPISE any surprises in my life. When I have too much, I start withdrawing a lot, focusing on myself too much and/or acting completely irrationally.

I feel that the first characteristic above is only maladaptive when I live with someone else, though. When I am on my own, I find this characteristic to be beneficial to myself, as clutter is distracting and thus makes me less productive.

As long as whoever I live with can tolerate this, it should be fine. I don't think there is anything else about me that is particularly annoying/repulsive.

My hands are pineapples

I'm a bad catch because:

1.) I have the attention span of a ret*d hamster unless I'm doing something that actually interests me

2.) I don't really care for most people, so I'm not going to like your parents or your brothers or sisters or anybody else you know. I will probably love your dog, though.

3.) I don't drink and I don't go to bars.

4.) I am slightly more reclusive than Fortunato at the end of "A Cask of Amontillado"

5.) I can't cook at all. I am legally barred from being within 500 feet of a stove in 22 states and Puerto Rico.