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SparKitsune
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23 Apr 2006, 9:33 pm

SparKitsune wrote:
meh, I might as well give this a try. *keeps fingers crossed*

I'm Tim and I am 17 years old. most of the information about me is in this thread:

http://www.wrongplanet.net/asperger.htm ... ic&t=11815

And about what I want in a realationship...well....I would pretty much want someone of the same characteristics, hobbies, etc. as me, and yes, I would want a female. :P

Anyways, yeah, I hope I can be noticed in this thread. I know I've had some rough times, relationship-wise, in my life, but I hope that if this works out that it would help break the barriers of my AS-related limitations. Also, I hope I can be supportive to you (whoever), but please understand when I can't or don't want to do certain things.

Thank you and have a good day! ^_^


<_< >_> Isn't anyone interested in me? :( Sorry if I'm being annoying (in case I am), but I just feel a tad lonely and such.



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24 Apr 2006, 11:18 am

Don't worry, it's not just you. I don't think anyone gets any response here, or at least not the one they're looking for.


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25 Apr 2006, 9:33 am

http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/6669 ... 0129ss.jpg
Heres a picture of me. I'm looking for a girl ideally in the uk who is pretty and between 18 and 22. My main interests are rollerbooting (which I am obsessed with) and sport in general. I may look chubby but am quite good at most sport. I am believe it or not 6 foot tall, thats all I want to say pm me if ur interested



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26 Apr 2006, 1:15 pm

I'm 32, single, no good at dating and such. I like reading, and writing stories. I dislike bureaucrats, politicians, financial consultants, lawyers, and everyone else whose existence feeds upon and relies upon a system I find totally ridiculous. I like pizza and riding my bicycle, although not at the same time. I think gunpowder is one of the stupidest things we ever did to ourselves. I wish I'd been born a thousand or so years later, when we're shooting off to other planets for kicks. I don't smoke, and very rarely touch alcohol. I'm not sure what else to type here, so here's a crappy picture:

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EDIT: Also I love science fiction. And movies. And science fiction movies.

More stuff.

I'm 6'1", blue eyes, brown hair. It used to be long hair, but when I started bicycling I chopped it all off, now it's about 2mm long, because it's much cooler inside my helmet. I like bicycling a lot. Last year I rode 600 kilometres with 4500 other cyclists, over a week, camping each night. I was ok with the camping in a tent part, but I thoroughly hated the communal toilets and showers. The food was bad too.

Favourite books:

  • 1984, by George Orwell.
  • A Song Of Ice & Fire, by George Martin.
  • The Dresden Files, by Jim Butcher.

Other things I like:
  • Space.
  • Science & Technology.
  • The future.
  • The past.
  • All that groovy swords and castles stuff.
  • Travelling to new and interesting places.
  • Experiencing other cultures, and their FOODS.

Things I don't like:
  • Watching sports.
  • Loud noises.
  • Crowds.
  • Telephones.
  • Greasy junk food.
  • Smoking.
  • People making assumptions about me.



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27 Apr 2006, 7:44 am

I'm not feeling particularly talkative tonight, which means you're in luck, lol. Anyhow, I'm new to the forums, and although retail is my profession, I've never tried selling my entire self before so as you can see I'm not very good at it.
I'm 24 & in New Zealand, and my 22 month old daughter occupies most of my time at the moment. I'm still finding out who I am, and where I want to be. I get passionate about certain things, mainly social intolerance and the tragedy that is corporation directed health care.
I enjoy reading fiction esp. short stories, watching TV crime drama, good off-beat comedy, and wasting time online. And something else, but I can't remember what it was.
I have a temper, enjoy a good debate but I usually kiss and make up afterwards. At this point in my life it would just be nice to have people to talk to who understand me, because I don't. Hopefully I've got the right planet this time!



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29 Apr 2006, 4:55 am

Since Scaramouche and some of you others were brave enough to post a photo, I will too. I hate having my photo taken, and I'm not sure that sharing it in a public forum is a wise idea, but here goes:


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04 May 2006, 10:04 am

OK, I guess its time I added myself to this list **deep breaths**
My name is Cherie, I am 22 years of age and I live on the north coast of NSW in Australia.
I am seeking a man aged between 18 and 35. looks are not important but a sweet personality and respect towards the opposite sex are essential.
I am about 170cm tall and 60 kg, short brown hair and hazel(ish) eyes. Full-time employed.
Most of my interests at the moment revolve around staying at home but I do enjoy social outings like clubbing and dining out when the opportunity arises. I'm not the kind of gal who is opinionated or bossy, rather I'm quite shy and reserved. I dont have any strong opinions on anything, I prefer to be a listener rather than a talker. At this moment, I consider myself to be undiagnosed with AS ( I'm going to the doc's soon, he may say I'm not AS) but I still can relate to the past experiences and carry the same desires for companionship as all you aspie males out there.

So, If I sound like a good catch, dont hesitate to click on the 'send PM' button.

8) :D

P.S: I will try to post a photo soon but I gotta figure out how to transfer photos from my camera phone to my computer :?



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04 May 2006, 4:33 pm

I've been debating about adding myself to this list and decided that I would. My name is Megan, and I'm 19 year old (soon to be 20 however) that lives in Washington state. I'm seeking someone between the ages of 20 - 35, other than that personality is the most important feature to me. It often determines how much I like the person of the opposite sex, if they are someone with first off a sweet personality and a good sense of humor.

I enjoy music seeing as I play two instruments and am self-teaching myself a third. I've also in the past focused on writing my own music. During the past five years I have worked on self teaching myself web design and am starting to have a small career in that for while I attend college. Starting this summer I will be attending the Art Institute Online for Interior Design. I personally consider myself be undiagnosed with AS and I will not be going to a doctor to get diagnosed. I don't feel the need, I'm already happy with who I am and there is nothing I need a doctor to do for me.

In case you wanted to see pictures here are a few:
http://myspace-670.vo.llnwd.net/00692/0 ... 1670_l.jpg
http://myspace-874.vo.llnwd.net/00707/4 ... 8874_l.jpg


I am also okay with internet relationships, I have never had one but I am willing to try. As I know two people that had them work out well.



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05 May 2006, 10:51 am

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As if inspired by PhoenixKitten, I am going to post the things that disgruntle me about the female race (who at one stage I decided were all shallow, manipulative b*****s!) to outline my selection criteria. This is from personal experience.

* You will not, after I tell you about my condition and how I diagnosed myself, declare that it's impossible to diagnose oneself and therefore I must be a hypochondriac;

* You will not, after I have done the above, declare that I'm only making excuses for my poor social ability without any knowledge of me apart from that;

* You will appreciate that I look for personality in girls and put looks second, and not declare that I am gay, spineless or stupid because of this;

* You will not try to fix me. I am not a broken down car;

* You will not play with me, or my feelings. I am not a toy;

* You will not blame me for everything that happens to you;

* You will not fake your feelings to me. That is wrong and hurtful;

* You will appreciate that all I want at first is a friend.

* You will appreciate that I am a guy and (if you are female) that I do think about sex every 4 minutes on average (about 238 times a day over 16 hours).

That's all I can think of for now...

P.S. PhoenixKitten, given your experience, you are not a bleeding heart, you have more experience than most girls I've met over the years. Be proud of that.



Good lord. That's about the best motto I've ever seen concerning policies of this nature.


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08 May 2006, 10:01 am

Hello all.
I like one girl with AS (and I am neurotypical). It is very complicated? Do you know examples of such a couples? I am confused, because I don't understand what is normal and what is strange. Perhaps now i have said something inadequate

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08 May 2006, 12:08 pm

It's true that I find myself in this 56 yr. old body, tho it's still in good shape, but I feel more like 20-something. I enjoy the out of doors and feel trapped when in a house for more than a few hours. I don't keep steady jobs, tho I'm concidered an expert woodwooker, building anything from complete houses, (usually mountian cabins), to musical instruments. I'm a bit over six foot tall, a bit under weight, long graying hair. Drink some, not heavy, don't smoke tobacco. Don't really have an addictive personality. I can take things or leave them. Am spiritually heart/minded. As a matter of fact, am just looking for a close friend/more, to hang with till I can get off this planet. I don't do well with 'normal women' as I'm just too wild and free(crazy?) for them, with their need for security of 'things', etc.
....thanks for taking the time o read this, hope to hear from you.



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09 May 2006, 3:39 am

ruudvandrago wrote:
I like one girl with AS (and I am neurotypical). It is very complicated? Do you know examples of such a couples?
I was in a relationship with an NT (I have AS) for a significant amount of time, it is possible. There are some difficulties, as there are with any relationship, but if you keep things out in the open and talk about things then it should sort itself out. Technically, at least.. But don't let the fact that it is an AS/NT relationship deter you.. (at least that's how I see it).



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09 May 2006, 5:06 am

You still in that relationship?


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09 May 2006, 7:03 pm

I got a scanner. I am taking pics with my shirt off. I am very muscular.



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10 May 2006, 12:21 am

Quatermass wrote:
You still in that relationship?


yes. I think so



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10 May 2006, 8:18 pm

I am the fire of wrong planet. I am putting my pic up tommorow. Ladies l workout. I am off the junkfood. I use special coping strategies to deal with annoying food cravings. If you are my women, you will get special atention from me, to help you do it too. I want my women as powerful as me. I think I already gotten cancer beat, without interferon. I did all on my own, with good lifestyle. I am proud of the way I look. I see ab definition when I am hot. I have improved my mood to a much higher degree, which means I am more stable. You are in for a real ride if you take me. I am almost in the best shape of my life. I am very knowledgeable in psychology and all things natural. I will help you if you have problems, because I want my women to be all that she can be. I am five feet six inches tall and weigh 15o lbs. I don;t sound like I have a dx. I don;t lie. I will apologize and do what is right. I am very sensitive and have excellent social skills. My life is just starting now. I have such good mood, I can now get a job and go to college, without meds.