Do you feel unattractive?

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I don't feel unattractive, i know i am unattractive from past experiences and i don't really care. People do not approach me and people avoid talking to me, which is just as well really. I would never change how i looked through surgery, it seems pointless, why would someone want to be attractive anyway?

i do not know if i am attractive or not.
i do not care.
i see my face in the mirror as sterile.

i read that attractive people usually have some prominent feature.

i was going to say that i look "generic" but another person beat me to that comment.

but i will say that i have no prominent features that may affect how people see me. some "prominent" features look ugly and others look "attractive" (as i read).

with men, the good prominent features are like big square chiseled jaws etc, and for women the good prominent features may be their thick juby lips or whatever.

i can not understand why people think angelina joley or brad pitt are attractive.
i have no idea in the world. i am blind to how people assess what is pretty and what is not.

my concept of attractive is symmetry and lack of things like warts or rashes and pimples etc.

i do not see how angelina joley is more good looking than an average nice girl. i find her kind of scary to look at and i do not feel attracted to her.

she has prominences in areas that attract people.

so, from my experience, i have seen that the men that are considered the most attractive are those that are large framed and strong and they have sweaty athletic builds and all their muscles are clearly defined.
they look gross to me. (i dislike the look of stubble and protruding "adams" apples).
men look greasy to me in a way.

i am not very masculine and i lack any prominent physical attributes that would draw anyone's attention.

i do not care in the slightest about appearance really.

...and who was this secret hurt fan?

Btw, after thinking a bit about my past , I realized that I really never cared , I was always so passive in grooming. Probably I was the only male student at school who never used hair gel ( since I couldn't stand it) , never changed dramatically his haircut from time to time and never used contacts instead of glasses (even in events). I only cared a bit during a very short phase after school and that's it.

Physically ~ I'm my own worst critic and I'm hard on myself. Some days I feel attractive, most days I don't. My look constantly changes depending on my mood. I suppose that confims I'm a true Pisces. Ever changing.

Personality ~ I like my personality. I'm funny and people find me easy to be around so I like that about myself.

Physically, yes I feel quite unattractive. Personality wise, I don't have that great of a personality.

I think I'm physically unattractive despite endless series of compliments. I also think I'm deluding myself, but am seemingly unable to get rid of the feeling that whatever compliment I get, I get them out of compassion or sympathy.

Psychologically, I think I'm a selfish bastard in regards to many things, but catch myself all the time skipping opportunities to let other people enjoy them.

I have in more occasions than one, deliberately carried myself in a very unlikable manner to become the mobbing target instead of a more delicate subject. The reason for this is because I've got a thorough experience about being the target and imagine I can sustain longer periods of mental punishment.

This thread should be labelled 'rhetoric' as the default answer from an Aspie when faced with the afore-mentioned question is 'Yes'. In addition, everyone who replies should post pics.

Anyhoo, I don't think I'm unattractive, except for my eyes..I've got the 'stoner' effect, if you know what I mean. Average height, athletic build, yada yada yada. Never cared much for my hair so it's normally a mess. I used to slouch earlier on, but then I consciously eradicated that.

My personality is lacking in several departments like sympathy, awareness, etc. so there's always room for improvement. I don't apologise for my sarcasm or sense of humour, though.

This is me.

I do feel unattractive most of the time, I've always disliked my nose and my stoner eyes aswell as my overall body shape.
As for my personality, I've been told that I present myself as arrogant and distant but I think I'm much more pleasant online than I am in person.

Anyway, I guess I'll do as Inzane said and post a pic. It's not the best but it's one of the rare pics of me smiling.

Physically: very attractive. I'm an athlete. People often stare and I've even seen girls take pictures.

Financially: I have enough. Not rich though, but lots of people think I am. I have nice things.

Mentally: unattractive. Women absolutely cannot relate and don't know what to make of me. I have all the typical AS traits. We all know what those are.

Socially: I have a lot of friends, so attractive?

Physically I don't find myself attractive. I don't think I'm repulsive, but I'm also not good-looking, which is annoying as I always end up liking women who are way out of my league as it is.

I don't think my personality is ugly. I try to be a decent person anyway. I mean I have my flaws, like everybody else. But I try to treat people well.

I would definitely prefer to look better anyway

Well, given that girls would seemingly sooner slash their wrists than date me, clearly I'm not attractive - the attractive are those that attract, the unattractive are the ones that don't, so saying I'm unattractive is not an opinion, it's a statement of fact. I'm no Adonis but I don't think I'm physically repulsive - some time ago an attractive (but airhead) girl who I had met before but didn't really know each other (and therefore couldn't judge me on much apart from looks) started flirting with me - as soon as she was sober (she could barely stand when she was flirting) couldn't bear to talk to me or even glance in my direction (I can accept girls not being interested, being insulted is different). In other words, as soon as she was in a position to think about it, she seemed to think she'd rather stick pins into her eyes than have anything to do with me. Apart from this occasion, no girl has shown any dating/romantic/sexual interest whatsoever in something like 5 years.

I'm trying to make a virtue out of necessity by using the time, effort and money I would otherwise spend on dating on other pursuits. Sex is not food and drink, one can do without; my only real regret is that I would have liked to start a family of my own one day, but one can't have everything one wants out of life.

I am definitely not attractive because, as pbcoll said, I don't attract. That said, strangely enough I don't feel unattractive. In fact I feel as if I, at one stage or another at least, have done everything right, I just continually have nothing to show for it. Which, needless to say, is troubling.

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The only thing remotely attractive about me is my face..and only from a downward angle because I tend to have a double chin.

Physically I look kinda like a female hobbit....so...yeah...pretty unattractive. This has not stopped the opposite sex from liking me. I have two boyfriends...(both at least close to being on the spectrum)

My main partner tells me that I am beautiful..but he has a thing for short, chubby weird girls...

My other partner does not keep the secret that he lusts after girls with beautiful bodies.....as he tells me all about it..I have to work on having this not make me feel bad...In fact I encourage him to flirt and give him advice, as he is painfully shy.......

It is somewhat painful, but it is motivation to not completely let myself go...

I have sticky-out ears and an aspie face. I'm also scrawny and skinny.

Most women don't like that kinda thing

What the hell's an "aspie face"?