Tim_Tex wrote:
One of the big things to consider when planning the big move is who will move to whose location, or will it be a "point C". Of course, this is going to depend on the costs of living and ability to find work in those areas. For example, moving to California or Michigan might be a major challenge at this time, but Texas may not be too bad.
I won't be able to move from India until I am done with my post doc in 2-3 years. And also I find it very unfair to expect someone else to move to India to live with me, as well. So I don't expect either side to move, I just want long distance. Then, once I am done with a post doc, I can try to find the second one closer to where the girl lives.