How do you know if your standards are too high?
Janissy wrote:
...you are probably about as desirable and unapproachable as Al Pacino's girlfriend in Scarface.
Holy crap, my looks are most definitely not on the level of Michelle Pfeiffer's (only in my dreams), but I'm extremely flattered by the comparison!
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Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
~Steve Jobs
ScratchMonkey wrote:
BTW, I loved the entire gallery of photos. The nautical stuff is very cool, and the composition, framing, and lighting capture it all so well. What's with the infant? He seems so out of place with the rest of the photos.)
Thanks!
He's my nephew! I couldn't leave my fave bebeh out of my gallery.
_________________
Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
~Steve Jobs
SINsister wrote:
Janissy wrote:
...you are probably about as desirable and unapproachable as Al Pacino's girlfriend in Scarface.
Holy crap, my looks are most definitely not on the level of Michelle Pfeiffer's (only in my dreams), but I'm extremely flattered by the comparison!
you are Milla Jovovich clone-like from resident evil movie.
meee eaattt braaainss ,shooot mee babbbe. ** creepily touching you**
maybe guys fear your shotgun....
LePetitPrince wrote:
SINsister wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
People try to convince me that any standards are too high, and that I should just settle for whoever shows me attention.
Same here - and that ain't happening.
Keep fooling yourselves in order to entertain us , you two.
Keep attempting to offend people who've done nothing to you personally, in order to make yourself feel "superior" at our expense. You're all class, toots. Are you sure you're not NT?
_________________
Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
~Steve Jobs
LePetitPrince wrote:
SINsister wrote:
Janissy wrote:
...you are probably about as desirable and unapproachable as Al Pacino's girlfriend in Scarface.
Holy crap, my looks are most definitely not on the level of Michelle Pfeiffer's (only in my dreams), but I'm extremely flattered by the comparison!
you are Milla Jovovich clone-like from resident evil movie.
meee eaattt braaainss ,shooot mee babbbe. ** creepily touching you**
maybe guys fear your shotgun....
Thanks for the compliment! Milla's a beautiful woman. Maybe you're missing your own point...
_________________
Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
~Steve Jobs
SINsister wrote:
deadeyexx wrote:
You must be displaying some really off-putting behavior. Judging from the pics in your link, there shouldn't be any other reason you're not being approached daily by a wide variety of men. If you're only being approached by disgusting creeps, it's because they're normally shameless people who are unaffected by these repelling vibes.
To know if you're putting off these vibes sub-consciously, ask yourself this. If a man (average looking) began talking to you in a friendly manner out of the blue, would you:
A) naturally continue the conversation & take it for what it is
OR
B) feel threatened, & try to figure out what his intentions are. Or even assume what he's after & act accordingly.
If the answer resembles B at all, there's your problem.
To know if you're putting off these vibes sub-consciously, ask yourself this. If a man (average looking) began talking to you in a friendly manner out of the blue, would you:
A) naturally continue the conversation & take it for what it is
OR
B) feel threatened, & try to figure out what his intentions are. Or even assume what he's after & act accordingly.
If the answer resembles B at all, there's your problem.
Wow, that's a doozie.
I'd have to select "B," but that's because it never happens! I have terrible social phobia, so I'd not know what to make of it, or how to "naturally" continue a conversation with a stranger, anyway. To reiterate, though, men generally DON'T talk to me out of the blue (creeps at the gym notwithstanding), so I wouldn't know how to act "appropriately" if they did.
OR C) your standards are hell.
SINsister wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
SINsister wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
People try to convince me that any standards are too high, and that I should just settle for whoever shows me attention.
Same here - and that ain't happening.
Keep fooling yourselves in order to entertain us , you two.
Keep attempting to offend people who've done nothing to you personally, in order to make yourself feel "superior" at our expense. You're all class, toots. Are you sure you're not NT?
I am a zombified hairy ET
LePetitPrince wrote:
SINsister wrote:
deadeyexx wrote:
You must be displaying some really off-putting behavior. Judging from the pics in your link, there shouldn't be any other reason you're not being approached daily by a wide variety of men. If you're only being approached by disgusting creeps, it's because they're normally shameless people who are unaffected by these repelling vibes.
To know if you're putting off these vibes sub-consciously, ask yourself this. If a man (average looking) began talking to you in a friendly manner out of the blue, would you:
A) naturally continue the conversation & take it for what it is
OR
B) feel threatened, & try to figure out what his intentions are. Or even assume what he's after & act accordingly.
If the answer resembles B at all, there's your problem.
To know if you're putting off these vibes sub-consciously, ask yourself this. If a man (average looking) began talking to you in a friendly manner out of the blue, would you:
A) naturally continue the conversation & take it for what it is
OR
B) feel threatened, & try to figure out what his intentions are. Or even assume what he's after & act accordingly.
If the answer resembles B at all, there's your problem.
Wow, that's a doozie.
I'd have to select "B," but that's because it never happens! I have terrible social phobia, so I'd not know what to make of it, or how to "naturally" continue a conversation with a stranger, anyway. To reiterate, though, men generally DON'T talk to me out of the blue (creeps at the gym notwithstanding), so I wouldn't know how to act "appropriately" if they did.
OR C) your standards are hell.
It seems like you're taking this *personally*, which makes absolutely no sense.
_________________
Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
~Steve Jobs
SINsister wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
SINsister wrote:
Janissy wrote:
...you are probably about as desirable and unapproachable as Al Pacino's girlfriend in Scarface.
Holy crap, my looks are most definitely not on the level of Michelle Pfeiffer's (only in my dreams), but I'm extremely flattered by the comparison!
you are Milla Jovovich clone-like from resident evil movie.
meee eaattt braaainss ,shooot mee babbbe. ** creepily touching you**
maybe guys fear your shotgun....
Thanks for the compliment! Milla's a beautiful woman. Maybe you're missing your own point...
She's gorgeous and hot, not just beautiful ....
and there are a lot men taller than you ...
so the problem in neither your looks or your height...
as for your social ineptness, most men really don't care much whether the pretty woman is a social shy or a social butterfly..
SINsister wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
SINsister wrote:
deadeyexx wrote:
You must be displaying some really off-putting behavior. Judging from the pics in your link, there shouldn't be any other reason you're not being approached daily by a wide variety of men. If you're only being approached by disgusting creeps, it's because they're normally shameless people who are unaffected by these repelling vibes.
To know if you're putting off these vibes sub-consciously, ask yourself this. If a man (average looking) began talking to you in a friendly manner out of the blue, would you:
A) naturally continue the conversation & take it for what it is
OR
B) feel threatened, & try to figure out what his intentions are. Or even assume what he's after & act accordingly.
If the answer resembles B at all, there's your problem.
To know if you're putting off these vibes sub-consciously, ask yourself this. If a man (average looking) began talking to you in a friendly manner out of the blue, would you:
A) naturally continue the conversation & take it for what it is
OR
B) feel threatened, & try to figure out what his intentions are. Or even assume what he's after & act accordingly.
If the answer resembles B at all, there's your problem.
Wow, that's a doozie.
I'd have to select "B," but that's because it never happens! I have terrible social phobia, so I'd not know what to make of it, or how to "naturally" continue a conversation with a stranger, anyway. To reiterate, though, men generally DON'T talk to me out of the blue (creeps at the gym notwithstanding), so I wouldn't know how to act "appropriately" if they did.
OR C) your standards are hell.
It seems like you're taking this *personally*, which makes absolutely no sense.
:'( yea, I was hoping that you would come after me and beg me for a hot night out ,but you didn't =( , you meany cruel woman.
Helas, Il est plus dangereux de tomber en amour que de tomber du haut d'une falaise.
damn, i am out of vodka.....
LePetitPrince wrote:
and there are a lot men taller than you ...
so the problem in neither your looks or your height...
as for your social ineptness, most men really don't care much whether the pretty woman is a social shy or a social butterfly..
so the problem in neither your looks or your height...
as for your social ineptness, most men really don't care much whether the pretty woman is a social shy or a social butterfly..
Thanks, I guess..?
No, there aren't many men taller than me - at least not here, where I currently live. I'm sure there are in NYC - an insanely-diverse metropolis - and in the Netherlands (statistically the tallest folks on earth, now) and Scandinavia.
Also, tall men in the U.S. don't generally bother with tall women - based on my personal experience, and based on couples I've observed over the years (the 6'9" college basketball player who was dating a 5'0" cheerleader from my dorm at uni; my own 6'3" brother who married a 5'3" woman, for example).
Some men probably are attracted to shy women. According to some of the ASD men here at WP, however, they may NOT be attracted to ASD women. If I'm giving off "weirdo"/"alien" vibes to guys without knowing it...well, there's not much I can do about that.
_________________
Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
~Steve Jobs
LePetitPrince wrote:
:'( yea, I was hoping that you would come after me and beg me for a hot night out ,but you didn't =( , you meany cruel woman.
La prochaine fois, le prendre à un message privé, s'il te plaît.
_________________
Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
~Steve Jobs
SINsister wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
:'( yea, I was hoping that you would come after me and beg me for a hot night out ,but you didn't =( , you meany cruel woman.
La prochaine fois, le prendre à un message privé, s'il te plaît.
Un massage privé?? tout nu? Ouhai!! !
...oh ..... un mEssage privé , merde!
now i am getting angry....
Jaejoongfangirl wrote:
How do you know if your standards are too high? What is the line between realistic standards and standards that are too low or too high?
I had such high standards that i had a 1 in a million chance of meeting a guy who meet all of them. Even my best friend said it was foolish of me to have such high standards. And encouraged me to give up on it.
I almost gave up but i never did. i kept hope i would find this perfect guy. he had to meet ALL of my standards , not just some.
I did meet him and we are very happy together. he is just-you from this forum. today is actually our 4th anniversary.
So please, please ,please! do not settle! you will be unhappy if your with someone who is not everything you want.
find the guy of your dreams and follow your hart. not what everyone else says. you know what you want so find it.
Good luck and god speed.
Possible lookalikes:
http://images.google.com/images?q=famke%20janssen
http://images.google.com/images?q=eliza%20dushku
http://images.google.com/images?q=jen%20crane
I'm thinking the last one most of all.
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