Girlfriend cheats on you... do you care?

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I'd be incredibly turned on. And perterbed that she kept me in the dark about the whole thing.

Afterward, I'd have to figure out her motive if I could. Is it something that can be fixed, or a sign that we're not meant to be?

If I was enjoying being with her, I'd try to continue it on the assumption that she'd keep going outside the relationship but also keep being a good partner to me... and then end it if the good partner bit didn't continue. If I wasn't enjoying it for whatever reason, the straying would be a wonderful excuse to dump her without regret or second-guessing.

Yes, it would bother me greatly. If he doesn't care enough about me to stay faithful, then maybe he shouldn't be with me. If I am not all that he needs, then he doesn't deserve me.

If my girlfriend would be cheating on me it would bother me alot yes.

But she isn't.
She loves me alot, and i love her alot.
and according to what she's said, she has never felt this much for someone before, and no one has ever treated her as well as i do ( well ok she's only had 1 bf before me, and i've only had 1 gf before her so yeah )

her parents like me, i'm good friends with some of her best/close friends.
I'm fitting in well and everything is going alright.

Plus, like i said, i'm good friends with some of her closest friends, cheating on me would really cause heavy damage which i doubt is what she would want either.

So in short, no she's not cheating on me, and if she was, yes, it would bother me, and i would most likely break up as it would have destroyed my trust.

Cheating is intolerable in my book.

I would care for sure. I don't think I couldn't be with someone who has cheated on me. It's just a really horrible thing to do to someone that you love.

Yes, I would care. Thats not fair to the other person in the relationship. You deserve better if the person you like is cheating on you.

Yes, i would totally care if someone cheated on me, whether he be my boyfriend, or my husband. Cheating is cheating no matter which way you look at it. Relationships should be built off of trust and if you can't trust someone, then how can you move forward in your relationship. I wouldn't want to always be wondering what they were doing and who they were with.

I would care a lot if i found out that someone who i thought i loved was cheating on me. When i look at a cheater, you cant ever change the actions that you do. When you come into a relationship, you need to put your full effort into what you do with your partner, not just give up without talking your problems out.No one should cheat on another person, it just leaves you in worrying. You as a person, does not need to live your life worrying about whats going to happen in the relationship you are in.