I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19 and even then I realised it was a mistake. I ended it after 4 months and haven't been in an Official "relationship" since, and I don't plan to change that any time soon.
I'm independent, and don't want or need men. If one comes along and it works, will likely not commit anyway... Was with someone recently although un-official and it's over now. Even though I loved him (truly) deep down I know I didn't want a relationship. Very confused, but glad I didn't get into one.