31 Mar 2010, 7:27 am
auntblabby
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01 Apr 2010, 12:01 am
some of us here ARE desperate for approval/approbation due to the fact that lots of folk similar to me are generally bereft of warm fuzzies. cold pricklies get old really quick-like. i don't want anybody to look nasty. btw, you have good social awareness, i could learn something.
i'll try
you also.
03 Apr 2010, 5:40 pm
JustMe
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04 Apr 2010, 7:13 pm
won't compromise on:
shares my values and will raise our kids on the same value
good with kids
treats me with respect
want but not essential:
complements me (and compliments me 
)
wants a large family
able to support me
smart
would be nice if at all possible:
good looking
musical
funny
06 Apr 2010, 1:26 am
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Postures
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07 Jun 2010, 12:50 pm
Ha.
I think I may have found him
nick007
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07 Jun 2010, 4:41 pm
I'm going to say I want someone who's Codependent. I want someone who is really sympathetic, sensitive, caring, loyal, & always there for me. Being very affectionate towards me is a plus to. I wonder if there's any dating sites for Codependents 
Seriously I mainly just want to find a woman who's actually willing to give me a chance; I can dream cant I
07 Jun 2010, 5:21 pm
08 Jun 2010, 3:17 pm
08 Jun 2010, 5:27 pm
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08 Jun 2010, 8:58 pm
08 Jun 2010, 9:16 pm
He:
Gets overwhelmed easily and sometimes loses his temper in stressful situations but doesn't stay angry for long and never holds a grudge or gives the silent treatment.
He is honest and kind. I have learned to not ask questions if I don't want a brutally honest answer. On the other hand, when he tells me something sweet and wonderful I know he's being sincere.
He is his own person, completely unique in his interests and doesn't go along with the crowd just to fit in.
He loves music, reading, and art.
He is employed and a hard worker at his job. Even though he is a perfectionist and is very hard on himself, he doesn't expect me to be perfect. He never criticizes me.
He is independent, not at all clingy, and yet he lets me know that he does need and love me. I allow him his obsessions and he allows me mine.
He never went to college and yet he is crazy smart and has educated himself through his own quest for knowledge.
He is tall and attractive and into me, even though I'm not (tall or very psychically attractive).
He doesn't swear or drink a lot or watch a lot of sports and he's not into drugs or flirting with a lot of women. He's incredibly loyal.
He's not super romantic on his own, but if I tell him what I'd like (or what I need) to feel loved, he is very good about doing those things.
I can't speak for all aspie males, but I think ones similar to mine are the worlds best kept secret in terms of great guys to date and marry!
He sounds wonderful
09 Jun 2010, 6:09 am
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