Turn ons

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Its kind of classless tbh for women to go on and on about sex publicly though too.

Just a reminder, I am listing turn-ons, not dating prerequisites, as per the thread title:
A woman who is/has:
-long hair, any color
-D-cup, or thereabouts
-submissive tendencies in bedroom, but not other life facets
-likes bikinis, sexy underwear
-intelligent
-down-to-earth
-not easily bored/irritated
-has own interests/field of study/something going on in life besides me

hmm I do like honesty... I better put the shallow stuff first...

Lankiness or a petite figure,
Long, very, very long legs,
Shortness (This probably has something to do with the fact that I am 5'1),
Small framed,
Long dark hair,
Big round eyes,
Piercings,
Smoky (neatly done), gothed up eyes,
Ridiculous PVC boots...

Personality traits:
I like curious people who always want to learn or try something new.
I like honest, genuine people because it doesn't matter how good the cover looks if it's fake.
I like passionate people.
hmm Emotional intelligence because what I lack impresses me in others.
Oddly enough, I like people who are either very smart and witty or adorably air-headed and ditsy. It would be harder to compliment a person on the second though...
Confidence is very attractive to me.
I like considerate and emotionally sensitivite people.

Young/cute faces are a huge turn on.
Also unusually good-looking people, like the people who have distinctive features like sticky out ears or bright orange hair but it somehow adds to their attractiveness and cute factor.

I like hispanic, mexican, italian girls.
Turnoff are Asian girls, no body..

Turnons are

- Short
- Natural beauty (no fake breasts, not too much make up, etc)
- Sexy hips
- Long black hair (bot not straight like an ugly gothic male)
- Open minded.
- Confidence
- Brown skin. (not black!)
- Classy/preppy (but not those ugly fake American barby preps) or ghetto latina girls who try to educate themself and get out of the ghetto. :p
- Money
- Curvy
- Liberal minded. (moral left, economic right)
- Has manners.
- Black lingerie.

Turnoff

Red-haired girls.
Asians.
Man-body's.
Sporty girls.
Bad clothed girls.
Fat girls.
Skinny girls.
Conservatives
Green peace fanatics. (a bit greenie pass for me, but too fanatic and its a big turn off)
White skin.
Loudy and messy.
Fake hippy's.
Long girls.
Bikini. (I always found them ugly)
Shy girls. (I don't like shy girls, I prefer confidence)

Girls that are:

Short and voluptuous (don't care if she's overweight).
Blonde.
More cute as a button, rather than beautiful by today's standards of beauty. Beautiful by my standards, actually.
Glasses.
Shaves down there.
Bisexuality is a plus - someone who shares the same sexual interests in the fairer sex as me.
Wears long bohemian skirts.
Loves comic books.
Is a news junkie like me, watching CNN and MSNBC for hours.
Liberal politically.

Actually, I just described my wife, the mother of my child, and the love of my life.

-Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer

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- Alternative looks (Goth, Emo, Electronic... in short: Long dark hair, Colourful Dreads, lots of dark clothes, Eyeshadow etc..)
- Open minded about sexual activities. Cant say more in this forum.
- Geekyness (Can fix her own puter and code in, maby PHP), Loves Scifi/Fantasy.
- Totally uninterested in religion.
- More interested in issues rather than traditional left and right politics.
- Very intelligent, works with something that has to do with sciense so you can have an interesting discussion with her about, other things than the weather. I wish smart girls had vaginas in their heads so you could... *ahem*
- Aspie or other "odd" person who do not feel the need to follow pointless social rules.

But these are things that turn me ON, they are not requirements, even though my requirements are very much the same.

Cockney accents turn me on.

Quiet, shy, innocent girls. Well maybe that's pushing it but girls that are actually decent.

*Remembers that this is the L&D forum and pouts*

Turn ons:
Traits:
Nice voice (singing a plus)
Long hair (Red hair is appreciated)
Uniqueness (I am eccentric myself and am easily bored)
Shyness (it's cute and you're probably worth the effort)
Strong willed (If you let me string you along like a puppet, I will treat you like one by habit)
Intelligent (Educated girls are sexy, and fun to talk to)
Freckles (Not too many)
Long legs (better to see you in stocking my dear)
Healthy Looking (No anorexics please, curvy is welcomed)

Accessories:
Glasses
High socks
Stockings

Specific Turns offs:
Male Haircuts, Doormats, Self haters, PONYTAILS!! !!

Redheads, short hair, nerdy-looking works. Green eyes, maybe brown. Pale skin. About my height, 5'10". Some curves are appreciated, but I don't need a girl with a huge rack. Does not need to be a supermodel.

I know from a previous 'relationship' that I NEED an intellectual equal. Which is not easy, considering I am in the near-genius range of IQ. Must have a strong will and be willing to stand up to me and whatnot, but must also be rational enough to think things through instead of starting fights.

Yes! ^^
+ Confidence
+ Intelligence
+ Geekiness
+ Love of games/gaming
+ Creativity
+ Dominance
+ Strength

NO
- Conservative political view
- Very religious (Mostly I dislike fundamentalists and extremists of sorts. >.>)
- Anorexic figure

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If I think of more, I'll put it up here. Also, while I have some physical standards, they are surprisingly mild compared to any normal person. The one I mentioned, plus no seriously morbid obesity, and males whom interest me in that sense are few and far between. Other than that, I tend to form my notions of physical appearance around my opinions of the individual's personality. If I don't know someone, they look like someone I don't know; if I dislike that person, that person has an irritatingly <quality> <feature>; if I like that person, that person has a delightfully <quality> <feature>; etc.

good height(around 6 feet whom i can look up to )
good figure
cute face
tolerant of my eccentricities
caring
protective
playful

well for me I would have to split this into two categories. for women I am not so strict. I like shy girls, confident ones, I generally just want someone who is there for me when I need them, and nothing more. Someone who will listen to my problems, and talk about theirs. Someone who will like me for who I am, even if we don't think the same. I am rambling but I don't care.
Turn ons, and offs.
Yes
Dark long hair, Clingy, Supportive, Skinny or just a little fat to where its cute >.>.
as far as guys I like ambiguous scene and emo guys, ones that share my interests like video games and stuff.
Girls just as long as I find them cute, and we can make a conversation I am good =]
No!
I don't like off and on dating that gets old, cheating is a big f-ck no, Ling, just anything like that, and overweight people I just can't see myself dating someone like that. I am not interested in every single guy I see, most make me want to hurl if I even think about kissing/dating them, but I am still attracted to some. anyways enough rambling >.>

Similar sense of humor.
Cute by my standards.
Non-judgmental.
Smart.
Honest.

In that order, those are the highest priorities.

If she likes to drink and doesn't act dramatic or generally outlandish when doing so, that is a HUGE plus, but not imperative.