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17 Jul 2010, 1:53 am

hale_bopp wrote:

Gamer girls aren't hard to find, i've been through this already with some of you. Participate in gamer forums. Both my flatmate and I are single gamer girls.

Thing is though, they aren't nessicarily going to be interested in gamer guys. I've only met one gamer guy I've ever been interested in.

I tend to go for intelligent classy men, whereas she goes for the athletic sporty type.

You can find just as many fun friendly non gamer girls out there.

this is true. but I like my women nerdy for some reason...i just, dig them. I dont know why. perhaps just my type.

well, I fit in a few categories as a guy, I did about 14 years of martial arts and do parkour as well, so I would say Im kind of athletic, but at the same times, Im an art student and a major gamer who loves reading. I also like to sit about and tinker all day with diffrent things, like jewelry and smithing.

so I have this deslusional view that im not a bad guy, and am pretty chill, but I think what sets people off is my communication skills.

perhaps a video of me should illustrate more on this matter,

bewarethebob.blogspot.com

go there.

thank you all for your input! Im reading it all and taking it to heart!

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17 Jul 2010, 1:54 am

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I haven't had great experiences with online dating. It seems I tend to attract the overly agressive type who call me babe or chick. Not that I have a problem with it, in fact it's a bit flattering but if I want to get with a guy, I'd rather him take me a little more seriously than just a babe or someone who random at the moment. I'm not saying all guys like this are as*holes when they do this, I just don't feel comfortable with it.

Im also worried I may find a woman looking for instant kids and marriage.
that is a major...major turn off...seeing as im only 19

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17 Jul 2010, 2:59 am

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hey babe, wanna smoke?

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17 Jul 2010, 3:18 pm

I'm an aspie woman but since I've gotten the diagnosis I've become so good at hiding it that people practically don't believe me if I say I have it.
I'm undercover! :twisted:

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17 Jul 2010, 3:31 pm

Yasmine wrote:

I'm an aspie woman but since I've gotten the diagnosis I've become so good at hiding it that people practically don't believe me if I say I have it.
I'm undercover! :twisted:

people have said that about me.

you spy :p

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18 Jul 2010, 1:33 am

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I am referring to the fact that the percentage of people on the spectrum who are asexual is higher than that of NTs.

And you can't tell an asexual person to stop being asexual.

I don't know that anyone is really a true asexual. I have no interest in about 99.999% of men myself but there are some I'd go for.

Personally I am willing to bet that it just takes a certain person with a certain type of phermone scent + physical attributes + personality to switch on those attraction circuits.

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18 Jul 2010, 1:44 am

Chronos wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

I am referring to the fact that the percentage of people on the spectrum who are asexual is higher than that of NTs.

And you can't tell an asexual person to stop being asexual.

that applies to everyone.
it really does. I just think some time is kind of needed to get used to it to.

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19 Jul 2010, 1:06 pm

I'm an Aspie girl. Hi! >.>

But considering my dad met his 2nd and 3rd wife online, I'm not confident in online dating. They were psychopaths, manipulative, narcissistic, just terrible people. So my introduction to online dating hasn't been kind. I'm afraid that if I were to use it, that I'll only attract the clinically insane. D:

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19 Jul 2010, 9:01 pm

Erisad wrote:

Another one, emerging from the dust!

why hello there! see. this is my worry. I still havent decided. and its bothering me

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19 Jul 2010, 9:07 pm

bewarethebob wrote:

Erisad wrote:

Another one, emerging from the dust!

why hello there! see. this is my worry. I still havent decided. and its bothering me

*strikes dramatic pose*

Well, some people can be okay with online dating. Considering that when I was 18 I had a 27 year old proposition me over the internet. I was uncomfortable with the idea and he acted like I was being ridiculous. Pardon me for having standards. :roll:

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19 Jul 2010, 9:56 pm

Erisad wrote:

There's plenty just like that IRL too...

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19 Jul 2010, 10:00 pm

JLee50 wrote:

Erisad wrote:

There's plenty just like that IRL too...

touche. touche.

I figure it is safer to see in person to...always hahaha.

Im 19, and dont really want to date anyone older than like...23

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19 Jul 2010, 10:22 pm

almost 8 mo with an aspie i met online. it can work,

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20 Jul 2010, 12:31 am

Sedaka wrote:

almost 8 mo with an aspie i met online. it can work,

how are so many people finding aspies online?

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20 Jul 2010, 7:42 am

bewarethebob wrote:

Sedaka wrote:

almost 8 mo with an aspie i met online. it can work,

how are so many people finding aspies online?

I just used okcupid. I imagine it's about as good as pay sites. I also found a local group of weird people to hang out with in the area. Plus there's fun quizzes to get addicted to

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20 Jul 2010, 11:48 am

Sedaka wrote:

bewarethebob wrote:

Sedaka wrote:

almost 8 mo with an aspie i met online. it can work,

how are so many people finding aspies online?

I just used okcupid. I imagine it's about as good as pay sites. I also found a local group of weird people to hang out with in the area. Plus there's fun quizzes to get addicted to

hahaha. many people reccomended okcupid to me.

I think i just may....

There are tons of people here in San Francisco, but not many who are intresting enough...

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