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10 Aug 2010, 3:40 pm

I had a sexual relationship for the first time about 15 months ago. I went to an aspie meetup in london. I was feeling happy and confident. I met the lady who organised the meetup, she was very sexy and interesting and I enjoyed chatting to her, so I latched on to her and tried to get to her every chance I could. I thought she might have liked me, but I wasn't sure if she was just being friendly. Anyway we started chatting on email but I was too nervous to make a move. But eventually she said I was sexy and vunerable and she liked me. She posted a dating thread, which i said i would be her bf. We went out on a date and i was very brave and kissed her. then on another later date she took me home. I was shaking with anticipation and nerves especially with taking my clothes off. But we got each other through it with love. Then once in the bed that beautiful body took my nerve away. i was overwhelmed with lust as i felt her passion beneath me and saw her lustful face looking into mine. it left me a very changed man.



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10 Aug 2010, 3:58 pm

@Angel_ryan

Don't take him to the shop to buy condoms. That is just unnecessary stress.

You buy all the equipment and keep it handy.

Mrs K would never buy any of that suff and is shocked that I have no problem buy her personal stuff for her.


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10 Aug 2010, 4:13 pm

Mutate wrote:
I had a sexual relationship for the first time about 15 months ago. I went to an aspie meetup in london. I was feeling happy and confident. I met the lady who organised the meetup, she was very sexy and interesting and I enjoyed chatting to her, so I latched on to her and tried to get to her every chance I could. I thought she might have liked me, but I wasn't sure if she was just being friendly. Anyway we started chatting on email but I was too nervous to make a move. But eventually she said I was sexy and vunerable and she liked me. She posted a dating thread, which i said i would be her bf. We went out on a date and i was very brave and kissed her. then on another later date she took me home. I was shaking with anticipation and nerves especially with taking my clothes off. But we got each other through it with love. Then once in the bed that beautiful body took my nerve away. i was overwhelmed with lust as i felt her passion beneath me and saw her lustful face looking into mine. it left me a very changed man.

have a good date with Smudge tomorrow :wink:

maybe she will be writing on this thread tomorrow night to tell us how you made her 'shake with anticipation' :lol:



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10 Aug 2010, 11:28 pm

After two decades of getting nowhere at bars and parties, I finally caved and tried internet dating. It was a small "common interest" site and she was the only woman in driving distance, but she looked good in the pic and after e-talking a few times we met up. We hit it off enough to try. At 38 years old I was not used to having somebody else in the room while I was doing my thing, much less underneath me, so there was an equipment failure. She was confused and upset (women like to blame themselves for stuff) but I was finally able to assure her "It's not you, it's me." She was plenty hot, better than her photo actually. Once she believed my claim that I still held the v-card she decided to make sure I didn't become a movie title, and the third time was the charm. We dated for 9 months and broke up for reasons I don't understand.