Blog post on the epidemic of forced celibacy in males

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Yeah, right. He must realise that a later-age "relationship" cannot be what a relationship should be about. I didn't get together with someone until the age of 35, and was so scarred and embittered by then, that no-one and nothing can compensate for the damage that has been done. He must feel downright cheated.

Great; some more whiny BS about guys thinking that life sucks because they can't get laid. Sex is a privilege. No one has the right to another person's body.

Guys like this need to stop feeling sorry for their selves and either go pay a prostitute or stop being a whiny b.

I'm also so tired of most of the relationship-less guys on WP acting like women are horirble because we won't take a second look at them. Hello, maybe if you get off the internet for a few minutes, take a shower, stop being desperate, stop acting like we owe you something, stop acting like the world owes you something, then maybe we will be interested in you. Oh, its also funny to hear about guys complaining that they can't talk to women. Most of them are capable of opening their mouths and speaking, and if they would only get offline or stop playing xbox for a few hours, they could go out and actually get better at this skill. It isn't like we speak an alien language or something, Just be yourself, unless you're a perv!

Here's a little secret key in the form of text. Work with what you got, and stop magnifying what you don't have. I'm sure most average NON-SHALLOW women don't expect you to go to college or to get rich. Most guys don't want to suck up their pride and go for the women that they actually have a chance with. Its true. Even a lot of ugly or fat guys don't want women who are as big or as ugly as them. This is another reason why I think a lot of guys on here "can't" get laid.

Anyways; rant has ended. How many more threads will there be today with guys complaining about the opposite sex??

I agree with Stellar's post on the first page. Granted, I've done a little whining on here myself but this is ridiculous. At least I'm taking action to end my loneliness.

Guys: Women don't owe you anything. Stop acting like you do. It's really annoying.
Women: Guys don't owe us anything either. No one is entitled to jack sh**, kay? You gotta earn everything in life, especially in love. You gotta get rejected, kicked down a few times before you're mature enough to handle a real relationship.

*waits to see which guy flames her first*

You are not entitled to being flamed. Stop acting like you are.

Oh lol. I was making light of what happens whenever I post something like this in the Love and Dating section: any of three WP users would flame me for my opinions because I'm a girl or some other stupid reason.

I understood what you were saying. I just had to joke around a little bit.

You mean they're not going to be wondering about what it would be like if they were 30 years younger?

I have no idea what they would be wondering. They are not a doddery old couple. 60 these days is not the same as 60 long ago. And he is not a bitter person. He seems very greatful.

I dont go around going, "if only that happend when i was 20 not now", how very different from me you think.

another thing is about 1/3 of my relatives died spinsters/bacholors so its quite common in my family and my uncle would not have seen that lifestyle as terribly unusual.

you mean they actually have sex at their age? my hydraulics are already starting to get leaky, for which a vasodilator is the only palliative solution, and i am not yet your uncle's age. a relationship sans sex is, IMHO more trouble than it is worth, especially after a decades-long deprivation. sex is a necessary glue to hold a loving couple together.

'they are obviously single as they are bitter and negative people'.

Nope. They're just realists, that's all. And eventually finding someone you have a rapport with, at some later age, does NOT make everything all right.

Im not going to ask him, I might have aspergers but Im not that tactless.

I asked my mum about peoples negative reaction to my uncles story as I just find it so positive and hopeful, and she said 'they are obviously single as they are bitter and negative people'.

Im not going to ask him, I might have aspergers but Im not that tactless.

I asked my mum about peoples negative reaction to my uncles story as I just find it so positive and hopeful, and she said 'they are obviously single as they are bitter and negative people'.