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01 Nov 2010, 5:49 pm

nthach wrote:
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i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.


I think the best for me is to go to a autism organism meet my pairs. At least for form friendship

Yeah WWE is steroid fused but it's a way to get out of loneliness for some hours i can tell you i feel better after for the rest of day

i fear to talk to stranger and they reaction because of my hard school period i judge by what i see(Exemple:He dress like that mean he a stupid hip hop fan)

game console is my only way to fight loneliness

One way to GET OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER AND XBOX is to find groups on meetup.com but...
I feel your social skills are in need of some work. I would talk to a therapist or psych about that. Also, high school is HELL for anyone, NT and ASD.


good idea....meetup.com



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01 Nov 2010, 6:42 pm

J-P wrote:
nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.


I think the best for me is to go to a autism organism meet my pairs. At least for form friendship

Yeah WWE is steroid fused but it's a way to get out of loneliness for some hours i can tell you i feel better after for the rest of day

i fear to talk to stranger and they reaction because of my hard school period i judge by what i see(Exemple:He dress like that mean he a stupid hip hop fan)

game console is my only way to fight loneliness

One way to GET OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER AND XBOX is to find groups on meetup.com but...
I feel your social skills are in need of some work. I would talk to a therapist or psych about that. Also, high school is HELL for anyone, NT and ASD.


good idea....meetup.com


i just subscribe to meetup.com
the site sounds cool i will search a group



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02 Nov 2010, 6:38 pm

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I don't think i have a chance with dating being a fachist(strongly motived by xenophobia caused by repeted psychological agression by strangers in my school years over years).. I heard low income have no chance too. God i'm low income so i have no chance?I have also they need...stupid women. That tell me that my sexism is founded. It's become stronger each day i see women accomplishment and success. I'm a bit jealous of couple i see on street for exemple. I wish demonstrating affection on public place was forbidden by law. Now i'm a greedy and jealous and full of hate aspie who resent female and people in general. I have my needs in love and sexuality same if an aspie and and intentionally deprive me is cruel and unhuman. I hate being in that state but i have 1 friend only and i see him 3-4 time a year he remains too far(Eastern Borough of Montreal). I don't go outside my house often i'm affraid of exterior. Montreal is urban jungle with nearly 2 millions inhabitants. I'm too nervous to approach girl because i don't know if she alrealdy engaged or will push me back. Now i don't how to express my sexuality other than masturbation. Other side to hate opposite gender i want to have one experience with girl. Close my favorite hentai site and i'm in dispair. By chance it's a paying site then they have something to keep it up. I think if a girl want to give me a chance to prove myself my sexism will disappear.. im just disgusting by the women behavior...forget that i have 0 social skill for that. The best for me would meet someone on this forum from Montreal,Quebec with same interest. In that case the girl will be the lucky one to have the mail of awesome man...and it's not a joke. Anyway i'm not a jerk so i have zero chance. I'm kind the most time with women. I would appreciate to talk to someone with near or same way of thinking. It's sucks to have nobody to socialize regularly


<b>"I wish demonstrating affection on public place was forbidden by law."</b>

This statement I agree with. Same goes for men, really, neither gender should be snogging or touching each other up in public (though I don't think you should be too hard on silly stuff like holding hands or cuddling). In Indonesia it's banned under their "Pornography & Pornoaction" legislation. Then again, I hold this view on the basis of public decency and politeness more than anything else.

<b>" I heard low income have no chance too."</b>

I just couldn't help noticing this. But there's plenty of scint people out there who have girlfriends/wives like anyone else. Just walk into a council estate and see for yourself. I've even seem homeless beggars with girlfriends (or at least, female friends). Low income may well make it hard to find a working/middle class girlfriend but there are plenty of girls out there with no money too.


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Closeness illusionary, intimacy lost
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You are all that I have now, you are all that I miss
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09 Nov 2010, 12:52 pm

nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.



I hate to say it. But this guy has a point. If I could offer any advice. Start following the Ultimate Fighting Championship. It's a real sport and I see hot girls in the crowd all the time when I watch their pay-per-views at my local bar. Buying some Affliction and TapouT t-shirts wouldn't hurt either. (disclosure time: I kinda play both sides of the fence & follow UFC & WWE!)



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09 Nov 2010, 12:54 pm

nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.



I hate to say it. But this guy has a point. If I could offer any advice. Start following the Ultimate Fighting Championship. It's a real sport and I see hot girls in the crowd all the time when I watch their pay-per-views at my local bar. Buying some Affliction and TapouT t-shirts wouldn't hurt either. (disclosure time: I kinda play both sides of the fence & follow UFC & WWE!)



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09 Nov 2010, 1:49 pm

NickKotarski wrote:
nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.



I hate to say it. But this guy has a point. If I could offer any advice. Start following the Ultimate Fighting Championship. It's a real sport and I see hot girls in the crowd all the time when I watch their pay-per-views at my local bar. Buying some Affliction and TapouT t-shirts wouldn't hurt either. (disclosure time: I kinda play both sides of the fence & follow UFC & WWE!)

UFC is as real as it gets - it's a mixed fighting discipline. But there's a douchebag element - Tapout and Affliction-clad SoCal wannabe bros.

Boxing's where its at IMO. 8) I'd want to see a live match in Vegas one of these days. HBO doesn't cut it...



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09 Nov 2010, 7:08 pm

NickKotarski wrote:
nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.



I hate to say it. But this guy has a point. If I could offer any advice. Start following the Ultimate Fighting Championship. It's a real sport and I see hot girls in the crowd all the time when I watch their pay-per-views at my local bar. Buying some Affliction and TapouT t-shirts wouldn't hurt either. (disclosure time: I kinda play both sides of the fence & follow UFC & WWE!)

i was at aparty where the UFC was on. equal guys and girls. and i can assure you that not one of the guys watching the UFC scored with the women at the party. those kind of events are a major turnoff for a lot of women.


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10 Jun 2011, 7:52 pm

nthach wrote:
NickKotarski wrote:
nthach wrote:
J-P wrote:
i'm back from a wrestling show and i feel better for now

yeah Montreal hosted the house show of WWE

btw english is not my main language

If you want to work on your social skills in a way that will be conducive to work on building up friendships and eventually an relationship, I can assure you going to WWE events won't do it. Not only is it male dominated and full of steroid-infused freaks, most people see wrestling as juvenile. The way you're going to do this is to get off the damn computer/Xbox/PS3 and go outside and interact with (like-minded) people. Talk to your therapist as well.



I hate to say it. But this guy has a point. If I could offer any advice. Start following the Ultimate Fighting Championship. It's a real sport and I see hot girls in the crowd all the time when I watch their pay-per-views at my local bar. Buying some Affliction and TapouT t-shirts wouldn't hurt either. (disclosure time: I kinda play both sides of the fence & follow UFC & WWE!)

UFC is as real as it gets - it's a mixed fighting discipline. But there's a douchebag element - Tapout and Affliction-clad SoCal wannabe bros.

Boxing's where its at IMO. 8) I'd want to see a live match in Vegas one of these days. HBO doesn't cut it...

I DARE you to tell a Marine that UFC fighters are SoCal wannabe douchebags! They're the UFC's biggest fans. As for Hyperlexian. I can see from your posts in other threads where you get that idea from. I forgot to mention that the girls I was talking about usually have a guy with them!