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I had one of her friends at work call her today for me to see if she wanted to go out after I got of work and she said she was going to the movies. I mean if she was going to the movies and would not go out with me instead which I think that means shes not interested cause going to the movies is not a big deal. She goes back to school Monday so does anyone have any last ditch effort I could use to at least get one date with her, or at least in May when she coems back? Any suggestions are welcomed.

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hello?! !! anyone listening?

LGB - LEAVE HER ALONE!! ! you are now getting into stalker territory. pack it in, for pity's sake!

Don't even bother with him, [personal attack removed by moderator - this is against site policy mish], if he isn't going to listen, no point in us even responding to him period.

her friends a nice gal so she did it for me. its not like I asked her myself cause I didnt want to pressure her anymore. Also she doesnt have a bf, she did have one awhile back though, but he was in town. I mean Shes been in town three weeks and keeps saying she would call me to go out sometime, but she like I said would use lame excuses like "I'm going shopping today" or "I'm going out to dinner with my cousins after work" which btw she decided to stay 3 extra hours and close so I know that was a lie. Like tonight she said she was going to the movies I mean if she wanted to go out with me she would have found time as you can see. I think it's almost time to concede and admit that she wont go out with me.

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At the risk of repeating myself:

I really think you need to forget about soccer girl and relax - it'll happen when it does, and sod what the psychiatrist says, as you've just learned you can't force these things - but at least you gave it your best shot. And you'll be less nervous and pushy next time.

And don't argue with mish any more, it isn't helpful. She has a very different perspective to you and I don't think that gap can be bridged by either of you.

Can we restrict comments to positive, realistic advice please? If you don't like it, don't read it.

Dunc

I have talked to LGB and I believe that he is not a troll. If you're not happy with his posts (which have been limited to one thread) just ignore them. There is no need for personal attacks- it is counterproductive and makes the board unpleasant for others. Plus it doesn't set a good impression for new members who may want to ask for advice themselves.

Please can we keep responses to this thread constructive and avoid the personal attacks??? If you don't like this thread don't read it!