Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl?

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She was the rite one but I wasn't rite for her. I had some emotional problems & misdirected things onto her. She's better off without me but the only time my life was good was when I was with her. I knew that then but I was to stupid & naive to understand my emotional problems then

Crazy f****d up women are the best.

Isn't that most of them?

nah some are boring and princesses.

So I finally had a relationship with a girl who didn't have her own issues... and she left because of mine. Sigh.

No it isn't just you. My last 2 exes were narcissistic drama queens who were emotionally unstable to the extreme. The most recent one was borderline and turned out to be pregnant with her previous partners baby. She drank like a fish, smoked like a chimney, and abused her psych-meds during the 2nd and 3rd trimesters. The worst thing by far about these last 2 women is they were incredibly manipulative and lacked empathy for me and the relationships fell apart because we got locked into a power struggle.

I tend to be attracted to women who are impulsive, flamboyant, exhibitionist, highly dramatic, and wear a ton of makeup + flashy clothes but are still empathic.

But the bigger problem is that I myself attract the wrong kind of girl. I was actually looking for a shy, introverted, artistic/bohemian girl who is flexible and emotionally stable but at the same time very empathic. I met someone last year who was like that, not crazy but a bit odd, and she really wasn't into me at all. Lately, odd/Aspie-ish women really don't seem to be that into me. It's the crazy drama queen types who want someone to f*ck with who keep coming my way.