Learn the BASIC rule: If she likes you, she WILL go out

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28 Mar 2011, 1:52 pm

Joker wrote:

Ive been a cheater an have been cheated on before :twisted:

that's ...nice.

pfft. tbh if you cheat, you deserve to be cheated on.

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28 Mar 2011, 3:10 pm

emlion, go out.

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28 Mar 2011, 3:12 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

emlion, go out.

outside?
no thanks.

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28 Mar 2011, 3:23 pm

She doesn't like me.

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28 Mar 2011, 3:24 pm

oh. i see now.
wow, i'm blonde.
you don't wanna go out with this thing.

you're way out of my league.

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28 Mar 2011, 4:15 pm

emlion wrote:

Joker wrote:

Ive been a cheater an have been cheated on before :twisted:

that's ...nice.

pfft. tbh if you cheat, you deserve to be cheated on.

QFT.

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28 Mar 2011, 6:04 pm

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What if the person is playing hard-to-get

Then they're probably the type to play other games when in a relationship with you. Not worth the effort. If she isn't going to be clear or straight about her intentions/feelings, she's going to mess you about the rest of the way.

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P -> Q
~Q -> ~P

She likes me -> She goes out
She doesn't go out -> She doesn't like me ???

She doesn't like me -> She doesn't go out
She goes out -> She likes me ???

I'm a bit confused here.

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28 Mar 2011, 7:01 pm

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What if the person is playing hard-to-get

Your probably rite but a lot of the women I've met do that. If the other guys here run into the same percentage of women doing that that I have; most all of us will never be able to get a date with a woman

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28 Mar 2011, 7:18 pm

I've a different system of measurement.

Put up a profile on 4 different online dating sites. Same info and pics on all. Wait 6 months. See how many messages you receive. Don't message anyone just..sit there and watch.

Unlike measuring the 'if she likes you she will go out' this system measures the 'if she is interested she will view your profile a few times (more than once) or message you'. Much more exposure with a much wider population base.

So far mine have had zero messages and zero 2+ views from the same person in 4 months. In 2 more months I take the profiles down and end the test run.

Yes... i'm methodical when i'm bored

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28 Mar 2011, 7:20 pm

^^^ The women on the dating sites could be too shy to message 1st thou. I been looking on dating sties for 6 years & never had any luck on em

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28 Mar 2011, 7:22 pm

hence why 2+ views on profile from same person is factored in. Thats the key indicator.

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29 Mar 2011, 3:08 pm

In reality the basic rule is hogwash. I've seen the rule backfire. But in some cases it's true.

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29 Mar 2011, 10:55 pm

nick007 wrote:

computerlove wrote:

Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.

EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:

Aspie1 wrote:

I think the OP meant this: is a woman is truly interested in you, she will make time to see you any way she can. It doesn't matter how busy her schdule is; if she can make time to drive across town for a half-hour coffee date with you, she'll do it. Conversely, if tells you she's busy more than once, maybe twice, it's a code word for "I'm not interested in you". So, don't waste your time waiting around until her time frees up, and move on to a woman who's "not busy".

sticky this please.

What if the person is playing hard-to-get :?:

Grown-ups don't do this.

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29 Mar 2011, 11:21 pm

Yes, yes they do. The "higher status" a woman has, the harder it is for guys to "get" her. I'm not sure if that makes sense or not, but if I woman literally has hundreds if not thousands of guys that would instantly go out with her at the drop of a hat, wouldn't that make her be more selective? If she is so incredibly attractive, she can choose anyone she wants, so why would she go out with someone unless they proved themselves to be worthy? This is how mating works in the animal kingdom, and it is how we work too.

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29 Mar 2011, 11:28 pm

MidlifeAspie wrote:

nick007 wrote:

computerlove wrote:

Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.

EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:

Aspie1 wrote:

sticky this please.

What if the person is playing hard-to-get :?:

Grown-ups don't do this.

A grown up but be someone who's in their 40s or older then

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29 Mar 2011, 11:58 pm

nick007 wrote:

MidlifeAspie wrote:

nick007 wrote:

computerlove wrote:

Learn one of the BASIC rules: If she likes you, she WILL go out.

EDIT: Aspie1 said it better:

Aspie1 wrote:

sticky this please.

What if the person is playing hard-to-get :?:

Grown-ups don't do this.

A grown up but be someone who's in their 40s or older then

Some people never grow up. Being a "grown-up" isn't necessarily a factor of one's age, only one's maturity.

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