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Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
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18 May 2011, 11:13 am

asparaguseye wrote:
Thank you aarrrghh. (I know I left out a lot of letters!)

I hope things get better for you. Being cheated on is one of the most difficult things anyone can have to endure.


Just be careful. I'm not sure they can change once they're so used to lying.
I'm good. liberated and for once I have the power in the relationship.



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18 May 2011, 11:48 am

I don't think I have the power right now at all. I really am typically happy being the passive one. It bit me in the butt this time.



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18 May 2011, 12:24 pm

Your relationship is different than mine in many ways. Your wife came clean with you. I found out via text message from his "friend".

When I say I have the power in this relationship now, I only mean he has to please me and live by my rules to see the kids etc. It doesn't make me happy, but at least it's a little control.