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techstepgenr8tion
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04 May 2011, 11:09 am

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Trying to find out who I am is what keeps my motor running, my single one raison d'être. Would take the last bit of fun out of my life if I already knew who I was.


I'm impatient about that. I want to know who I am already so I can focus on other things. >.<

I was awful with that as well.


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04 May 2011, 11:45 am

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I have an NT who's in my class who looks a lot like you (Venezuelan though), just graduated highschool, was on the wrestling team, he does date some very attractive girls and I'm not the least bit surprised as he's got the quiet confidence with things as well.

Out of curiosity though, how are the girls in Sao Paulo? More engaging? More skiddish? I get the impression that the girls in South America would be pretty assertive.


It's a very large city; the girls can be very different from one region to another. Generally speaking, there are a lot of attractive girls here, and most of them don't like antisocial men like me. In other words, no different from most other girls in western cultures.

Of course, I rarely talk to girls, so my opinion on the matter is probably not reliable enough.



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04 May 2011, 12:07 pm

Magnus_Rex wrote:
It's a very large city; the girls can be very different from one region to another. Generally speaking, there are a lot of attractive girls here, and most of them don't like antisocial men like me. In other words, no different from most other girls in western cultures.

Of course, I rarely talk to girls, so my opinion on the matter is probably not reliable enough.

Yeah, I'd suppose shy and socially avoidant are still different in their effect.


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05 May 2011, 12:18 am

I can only be with someone unique. I hate when people care about what clothes to wear or what car to drive etc, and only am atracted when people know and follow their true selves, like all of you.. :)



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05 May 2011, 6:21 pm

I feel that there is no guy that would want to be with me because of my uniqueness and my standards.

I mean, I'm
*Mormon
*Autistic
*Vegetarian
*Runner
*Picky eater
*Unique....and it is all wrapped into one package

The thing is, these rolls are contradictory:
If I find someone with AS, they won't be mormon probably, and I don't what to compromise my standards because I want to go to the temple someday.
If I find someone who is mormon, they won't understand my AS and all the things that come along with it and I won't be able to interact with them well enough.

If I find someone who is a vegetarian/and or runner, they won't understand my bad eating habits and my picky eating habits and force me to eat stuff that I don't want to.
If I find someone with bad/picky eating habits, they probably won't want to be active or even try to eat right, and I will become fat and lazy and not enjoy the benefits of good health.

Most of all, even some AS people cannot understand the extent of my uniqueness and weirdness. I see people on here that are weird in the normal way. I'm weird in ways that you probably haven't heard of.

mellisamouse wrote:
I hate when people care about what clothes to wear


I know for popularity reasons it is kinda following the crowd, but what if the person is truly interested in clothes. Like,. the way they fit their body, the color they are , and things like that. It is almost an art form. I agree with you on the car thing too, unless, it is a passion, similar to fashion.

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This may sound odd but me either. I don't even drive


I don't drive either! I ride my bike. To be fair, I am still in school, but everyone my age drives. (I'm a senior in high school)



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06 May 2011, 11:37 pm

Magnus_Rex wrote:
Well, given that I'm distant, cold, somewhat childish, cynical and have a weird sense of humor, I'm sure it'll be very hard to find a girl who can put up with my craziness. [sarcasm]However, I'm kind of handsome. That'll probably do me a lot of good.[/sarcasm]


I love it!



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07 May 2011, 12:07 am

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Most of all, even some AS people cannot understand the extent of my uniqueness and weirdness. I see people on here that are weird in the normal way. I'm weird in ways that you probably haven't heard of.


I'm curious to hear about your obscure weirdness.


For my part, I expect to find someone who doesn't want to try to mesh with my strangeness; who appreciates my oddity without feeling the need to assimilate herself into it or, on the other hand, to eliminate it. Romance with a live and let live attitude.