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namaste
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07 May 2011, 10:43 pm

There is no reason to leave him
And then no guarantee that i will get another
Because I am Aspie and totally different.. NT people cant tolerate me.

I am just plain bored and looking for some love, emotions, and companionship
not longterm legal bonded relationship :)



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07 May 2011, 10:44 pm

Okay ... (deep breath) ... I guess that's all there is to say on the matter. Best of luck to you.



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08 May 2011, 4:26 am

namaste wrote:
i feel quite lonely
no friends, no relatives, no cousins
my hubby is workholic
earlier i tried getting into extra martial affairs
but i scared those people out
i dont want sexual relationship its more of emotional relationship
i seek someone to chat with, visit places, share my feelings etc

what do u all feel...i know its risky and dangerous
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People don't want to get involve with rivalry. If they were, they probably could be dead meat.

Workaholic does equal loneliess. Cheating will not cure it but worsen it til the point of divorce then who is a bigger lonely person now?



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08 May 2011, 4:46 am

Bopkasen wrote:
namaste wrote:


People don't want to get involve with rivalry. If they were, they probably could be dead meat.

Workaholic does equal loneliess. Cheating will not cure it but worsen it til the point of divorce then who is a bigger lonely person now?

my hubby is open to the idea of me having a affair
i told earlier i had two past affairs after marriage he did know but choose to ignore



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08 May 2011, 6:51 am

I understand the loneliness...I have a somewhat distant relationship, and while I care about him, I find it to be quite emotionally draining....I write songs..relationships may at least spur that creative outlet, but sometimes the sadness overtakes my ability to do even that...we are not married, and don't live together..and we can't talk about our relationship..it can make things lonely.


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08 May 2011, 4:51 pm

namaste wrote:
Bopkasen wrote:
namaste wrote:


People don't want to get involve with rivalry. If they were, they probably could be dead meat.

Workaholic does equal loneliess. Cheating will not cure it but worsen it til the point of divorce then who is a bigger lonely person now?

my hubby is open to the idea of me having a affair
i told earlier i had two past affairs after marriage he did know but choose to ignore


I understand that they existed but what does existed is whether relationship can remain strong after an isue is raised. This a small fish compared to the more common type over having extra martial.