At what age do most Aspies have sex for the very first time?

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Was barely-16. I wish I'd waited til marriage as originally-planned.

I lost it last summer, at the age of 23.

I'm not proud of who I did it with. Our relationship lasted only two months, I broke up with him. I haven't had a lot of boyfriends, and e was actually the first jerk I'd ever dated. I told him about my virginity. While we were dating, sex was a constant issue. This guy thought about it 24/7, I swear!

One day, he finally pressured me into it. I'm not really mad about it, but I am a little embarrassed. The good thing is that I know I can bring myself to have sex with someone. As I've gotten older, I'd been worrying more and more that I couldn't do it. Now those worries are gone, and I plan to have it only with someone I truly care about next time.

I was 14 the first time. It's generally easier to get laid if you're female. Most boys found me unattractive and weird but at the end of the day a hormonal teenage boy is a hormonal teenage boy lol. If they couldn't get anyone else they sometimes made advances on me, and if they were friends of mine I sometimes accepted. I'm a small and slender girl so I think that helped. Even if they found my face unappealing they could see I had a reasonable figure.

I find sex much more satisfying if it's with someone I like a lot. I won't say love because I've only ever truly loved one person and it's someone I haven't slept with, but I find if you like the person you sleep with you tend to be more comfortable and more content because it's someone who you genuinely enjoy spending time with rather than someone you just want for their body.

I was 17

I was molestified early on, so I didn't have the hymen issue/maybe wasn't a virgin when I lost my consentual virginity at 15...I dated that guy for aroudn 6 years

I lost it about a month before I turned 21. I was pretty surprised, since I thought it would be another 4+ years before I did.

I don't think it's going to happen anytime soon. Whatever. I have better things to think about. Like money, exoskeletons and airships.

...And women.

Waiting until marriage.

I'm almost 21, still a virgin but I've gotten fairly close in the last few months. Then my now ex-girlfriend had second doubts on everything.

I'm 16 and nowhere close to even getting my first kiss. I have no idea why guys find me unattractive since (not to come off as stuck up) reasonably goodlooking. I think it has to do with my AS though. I guess brains dont attract but do repel.

I was 14 and thought it would never happen, strange girl, fat too. So I guess I jumped on the first opportunity that came up so as not to get left behind... if that makes any sense.

But I've learned some stuff since then and I'm willing to bet a lot of the people here who worry Looks have something to do with it are wrong. I've never thought I was very attractive but due to some strange life choices, and the ability to collect data logically lol, know this isn't true, I'm just not a size 0 super model. Other people seem to be very relaxed about sex, where as most of us seem to need something more : ) to me this looks to be the biggest block to the oldest quest on the planet.

I'm almost 26 and never had sex (never even been kissed in a romantic way) but I'm pretty much disabled and am suffering from several psychological disorders so it doesn't really count in my opinion.

I lost it at 25, but it was to an escort. Can't get it any other way since women don't like me.

As a woman I've had plenty of chances(guys will sleep with anything), but haven't. I am almost 25. At this rate, Id say never. Never even kissed a guy.

Sagan - your birthdate says you're 23 though. Or are you rounding up to the nearest five?

25

Hmmmmm Im 24. Typo on my year of birth. Will fix it =) Thanks!